posted August 10, 2008 11:44 AM         

My brother has Venus Conjunct Saturn in the 12th. In Taurus.

Girls at school used to go silly over him, he is quite good-looking I suppose. But silly isn't really his thing. As far as I know he's had 3 girlfriends including the current one whom he married quite a long time ago. They have 3 kids. I assume they are happy enough, they seem it. Of course he wouldn't tell me, both those planets are Square the Moon so generally you have to work these things out for yourself, it won't get gushed out.

The 12th house isn't all bad. Venus here can be idealistic, and a soft side shown only to a few. That's not necessarily bad, certainly not if you are one of the few. It could also indicate someone who is prepared to wait years for the right person, they would rather be alone than go for something that doesn't meet their standards.

posted August 10, 2008 02:46 PM         

Progressed Venus by house, sign and aspect plays a role as well. The progressed Venus could help bring about a new love and eventually a long-term relationship.

posted August 10, 2008 05:23 PM         

Having that aspect is tough because I feel my romantic relationships are doomed for failure and pretty much, they never turn out good...
The flirting stages are always fun and exciting and then when it comes to committing to the relationship, either side doesn't want it and I'm always the one heart broken when I wasn't even the chaser in the beginning.
I also have Venus Opposite Uranus.

But what I really want is stability in my relationships w/ men...

posted August 10, 2008 07:45 PM         

I find that i'm not attracted to males my own age. I seem to have an affinity for men in their mid to late thirties, and in their forties. I need someone serious, as i am a serious person. I'm often told that i am much older than my birth certificate suggests. I just turned 18 a few days ago, but i've been an adult for about 10 years now.

I also agree with the statement that Blue Moon made earlier. I would rather be alone than be with someone i didn't love, or in a meaningless relationship. And when i am in love with someone, i am willing to stay steadfast in my stance and refuse other suitors. Even if that person and i are not together or are separated.

posted August 11, 2008 05:33 PM         

Does that mean that I'm a lost cause?

posted August 11, 2008 10:06 PM         

I have Venus Aqu opposite Saturn Leo. Never been in a romantic realtionship - doubt that I will ever be. Ive come to terms with this.

It used to upset me when I was a teenager, but its now somthing Ive accepted. Besides, romantic love seems like an alien concept - someones trying to intude in my life or change the way I operate. People seem to become distracted, weak & insipid when they "find the one".
I get very irritated when men try & flirt with me. It turns my stomach.

posted December 07, 2008 12:44 PM         

well..she was married to one guy that she knew back in high school,and it didn't work out. she got involved with another guy that turned out to be a real jerk. She got involved with me, but it didn't work out because I couldn't trust her for rejecting me for that jerk. She came back to me after she realized how much of a jerk he was.
She ended up getting involved with another man shortly after I broke up with her. They got married not even a year after they first met. She is very happy with him.

I just knew that she wasn't for me,and I had to let her go because of my trust issues with her. I told her that she and I weren't right for each other when I broke up with her. It's hard to be with somebody if there is no trust no matter how strong the attraction is.

Everything happens for a reason.

when I let her go, she found love with another man,and now they are married.

so I have no regrets about breaking up with her.

I was meant to break up with her so she can be with her future husband.

posted December 07, 2008 02:14 PM         

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Girls at school used to go silly over him, he is quite good-looking I suppose. But silly isn't really his thing. As far as I know he's had 3 girlfriends including the current one whom he married quite a long time ago.

The 12th house isn't all bad. Venus here can be idealistic, and a soft side shown only to a few. That's not necessarily bad, certainly not if you are one of the few. It could also indicate someone who is prepared to wait years for the right person, they would rather be alone than go for something that doesn't meet their standards.

Maybe when you get down to it your friend might be happier alone than sacrifing their ideals/standards/whatever. Maybe.

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I can't find a better way of describing Venus opposing Saturn. We are serious (saturn) lovers (venus).

posted December 07, 2008 02:21 PM         

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Venus in the 12th can express itself like Venus in Pisces

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posted December 07, 2008 02:48 PM         

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Found this thread while looking for another and had to let you all know it's not all as bad as it may seem. Wait til you hit about 40 and see what happens. Every thing I have read on this aspect suggests much better relationships later in life, and I am here to tell you it does! Just you wait and see.

Venus conj Asc oppose Saturn retrograde; 1st & 7th houses!

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Ive read that Venus/Saturn finds love just after their Saturn return. Mine was 2 years ago I think its highly unlikely that I will fall in love.

IMO Saturn opposite Venus is about being selective in who you relate to & having discernment on who you allow into your life as opposed to "falling in love" with every Tom, Dick & Harry.

posted December 07, 2008 02:56 PM         

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starting to value myself enough t see true unconditional love when it comes

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