posted August 12, 2008 09:18 PM         

Quincunxes to someone's ascendant from one's own Saturn perhaps (as long as Saturn isn't one of your important or people-orientated chart rulers)?

posted August 12, 2008 11:31 PM         

I have venus conjunct ascendant and it is trine the node and pluto in 5th of someone else.
I don't think of this person as very attractive on the outside but when looking past that see the beauty inside.

so, maybe the houses do have something to do with it.

posted August 12, 2008 11:37 PM         

I usually get this reaction with Virgos (although less and less lately), Aries, and some Scorpios. Even though Virgo is a hard sign for me to get along with, I have been getting along with them excellently lately.

posted August 14, 2008 09:47 AM         

i believe squares to saturn or pluto could make u dislike someone on the l-term, whereas lots of venus contacts do the opposite,obviously

soft planets on ur 7th are also good for liking...

posted August 16, 2008 06:52 PM         

Pluto squares to the Ascendant.
Saturn squares to the Ascendant and/or any other personal planet or point.
Mercury/Mercury and Mercury/Mars squares and oppositions.
Squares between Suns or Moons.
And too many planets falling in the 12th house.

posted August 16, 2008 07:36 PM         

But I certainly didn`t feel any kind of dislike for him. Quite the opposite.

I rather think that it shows in the natals, what or whom you may dislike. And probably it will be the people, who are very different from you, without being complimentary opposite.

Example: Someone with high Leo-emphasis would probably dislike someone with too much Capricorn-emphasis (UI`m not talking about Sunsigns- here).

Or in my case, I have a strong emphasis on Sagittarius; Moon in Aquarius, DSC in Gemini and only Venus in Taurus.
The one sign I really don`t like and can`t get along with is Cancer and to a certain degree Taurus (even though if the Taurus-planets are in trine with my Venus, the picture changes a bit).

Scorpio falls into my 12th house, but I donīt have problems with SCorpios. I find them intriguing, fascinating, sometimes hard to grasp and understand, but nevertheless very interesting.

But I have Venus square Pluto, Pluto on MC and sextile ASC and Mars, so I guess I am a little bit in tune with the Scorpio energy.

It is really the Cancer-energy, that is lacking in my chart. Only Saturn in Cancer, no planets in 4th house, Moon is in Aquarius and unaspected.

The only Cancers I can get along with are those who have some other planetary influences like planets in Gemini, Leo, Virgo or Libra (Virgo is not that bad for me, since my chartruler Jupiter is in Pisces and needs that complimentary Virgo-energy, and my Capricorn-Venus likes Virgo-placements, too, if there are some fire- or air-signs emphasised at the same time)

posted August 16, 2008 08:05 PM         

One example of me disliking someone is:
Her moon was roughly conj my sun but my sun is opp saturn and squ ura. I really had no time for her. Also her saturn-mars square was aspected to my mars such that her saturn was at the apex. It was a constant battle of wills. To say that she p*ssed me off is an understatement - her saturn squ my mars. I was furious with her all the time.

One example of someone disliking me was the bully at a former workplace who took an instant dislike to me (you could see it in her eyes) and specifically chose me out to make my life hell. Never worked though. Why? My pluto squared her venus and trined her sun, I had the upper hand. Also my mars was conj her sun.

Another guy that I found very disturbing and untrustworthy was a guy that had his moon in my 12th house. I also had it with him (double whammy). Not sure if he felt the same with me. I think 12th house placements can be highly unnerving, given the wrong planets such as the moon. However, I have many friends with their sun in my 12th and also I imagine venus or jup in another's 12th might be quite pleasant.

Another example: bad aspect that has minimal effect. I have a platonic male friend who's mars is conj my saturn. Occasionally I feel frustrated with him but really the effects blow over quite quickly. We have many other aspects in the chart that make us compatible and it compensates for things like this.

Another relative has her moon squ my sun and she can annoy me terribly but her sun is conj my moon so its overcome.

posted August 16, 2008 08:39 PM         

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I've known someone whose Pluto was exactly square my ASC (and NN, Neptune and Mars) and whose Moon squared my Moon within 2°.
My Saturn squares his Sun exactly.
His Mars squared my Mercury loosely.
But I certainly didn`t feel any kind of dislike for him. Quite the opposite.

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Well that blows the answers we've come up with so far out of the water!

I guess I agree somewhat on what would make someone sort-of dislike or not feel any interest in another person, that level of disimilarity without being complementary or even excitingly different. However, really I was thinking of a gut reaction against someone. What would make someone take an instant dislike.

Venus Mars: Ah, we've got an interesting one here - Mars square Sun and Mars square Mars producing a gut reaction immediately.

23: Did that bully have any aspects to your ascendant?

posted August 16, 2008 08:54 PM         

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I think the aspects would work both ways to some extent. For example with the bully her venus was squ my pluto and obviously I aroused an instant dislike which ended up me really hating her because she was so desperate to be utterly mean to me. With pluto/saturn as chart ruler maybe the recipient might initially supply the revulsion but then the pluto/saturn person might dislike them more.

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posted August 17, 2008 06:56 AM         

And I do think ASC aspects must play a role too.

I also wonder if Magi's lust/hate clash - Mars in negative aspect to Chiron - could be modified to just hate under similar circumstances.

posted August 17, 2008 07:13 AM         

She's the "transits". Oddly her merc is on my SN and in tau (mine is in aqu) and her ura is 3 deg off my VX.

Btw I hope she rots in hell. She's upset so many people, not only me and apparently is still raising hell.

posted August 17, 2008 07:49 AM         

I do think that if solstice points are aspects in which something is hidden or subconscious, then they might play a role in creating instant or inexplicable dislike.

posted August 17, 2008 07:58 AM         

Your Moon in libra and Venus in Sagittarius.
Her Moon in Pisces and Venus in Cancer.
Quinkunx signs just don`t get each other and mostly are suspicious of each other, unless there is a close aspect,w hich could makes some sort of connection.

Her Mercury in Taurus doesn`T fit to any of your planets. (I am talking about the personal ones here).

Your Mercury / Sun would get along with her Sun, but does not get along with her Moon, Mercury or Venus.

There are also pretty many differences in planetary aspects.

Example: Mercury:

Your Mercury is in Aquarius conjunct Sun and square Uranus.

Her Mercury is in Taurus square Mars and Saturn (and opposite Uranus).

On your side we have Sun-Uranus colouring your Mercury, on her side we have Venus (Taurus), Mars, SAturn, Uranus colouring her Mercury.
Especially the fact that your Mercury is in Aquarius aspecting Suna nd Uranus must have been a challenge to her Taurus-Mercury, aspecting Saturn. Saturn - Uranus donīt really go very well together. And they really donīt like each other.

Also let`s have a look at Mars (as Mars can also show how you do your work and how you generally act and assert yourself):

You having Mars in Gemini opposing Neptune.
Her having Mars in Leo conjunct Saturn and square Mercury.
Here a Mars in aspect with Neptune - there a Mars aspecting Saturn.
Saturn and Neptune are also not the best mix there can be.