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Topic: Saturn/Venus Question...
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Charlotte
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 02:35 AM
 
His Saturn conjuct my Venus and it hurts...
Will he always be restrictive with his love?IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Mercury
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 13, 2008 10:35 AM
Try posting the chart, you will probably find more to it than that one aspect that is causing your issue. Maybe some negative moon and mercury contacts too.------------------
Virgo Asc & Mars
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 12:26 PM
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Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Mercury
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 13, 2008 12:28 PM
Are you on the outside or the inside? EDIT, nevermind, from your question, you are on teh inside.------------------
Virgo Asc & Mars
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 2376
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted August 13, 2008 12:31 PM
Ive been saturn in this synastry aspect, and ive felt very strongly towards the person. i do admit to being restrictive with my affection, but i always took the relationship VERY seriously with the person, and they knew it. saturn feels deeply, just fearful and seems austere.IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 12:32 PM
Any insight would be much appreciated.Thank You! GG and any of my fellow knowflakes in advance... Blessed be!
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winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 574
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted August 13, 2008 12:33 PM
if u are the one inside u should try and interpret the meaning of his stellium on ur mc, it seems that this person is important for ur destiny or ambition or in some form can hold u back from what u want to achieve...some nasty pluto squares i see this points to manipulation or obsession, i know this from personal experience, very tiring, especially for the person who is not pluto...
writesomething, urs was a conj but sometimes with the venus sq saturn aspect i feel the saturn person just wants venus until he/she serves him, if they dont do it they dump them...
did u have also this feeling?
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Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 12:34 PM
writesomething,That is exactly what i feel from him... IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 12:35 PM
Hi! WW,
Yes, I'm on the inside...His Saturn is conjucnt my venus and mercury. i don't have the feeling of being dumped, he is a very caring individual, just very complex. IP: Logged |
Deliverance
Knowflake Posts: 440
From: Bolloxville, Nutbush
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 13, 2008 12:43 PM
If loving him is hurting you, dump him & the pain will go. Life is too short to allow people to hurt you. Live your life & be happy in the knowledge that only YOU have the power to bring happiness & to remove pain from your life. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Mercury
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 13, 2008 12:46 PM
That moon moon conj is being stifled by the venus saturn conj? ------------------
Virgo Asc & Mars
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 12:49 PM
i think You may be right!IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 12:51 PM
Deliverance,i hear what You are saying and my mind tells me that life is too short to be hurting, but my heart screams to hold on.
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deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted August 13, 2008 01:34 PM
His Saturn falls in her 9th house, meaning adjustment/adaptation to each other's perspective is imperative.Would it help if Venus told Saturn of his effect on her? IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted August 13, 2008 02:51 PM
I sympathize... My Venus conjuncts my Saturn and it's very restrictive!IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 994
From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted August 13, 2008 03:08 PM
Charlotte,That Venus-Saturn conjunction is too wide to be considered, at least it looks that way. And I'm not saying that just because it's over the sign line. If it is over 6 degrees (and it looks wider) then you're really pushing it. There are other measurements in the chart that could be causing you to feel the pain. It's more like his Pluto square your Moon. Also, his Saturn squares your Neptune and your Neptune rules your 11th house of receiving love. Saturn is a wall and a block and it says "No" so you may be feeling that he restricts your ability to receive love from him. It also looks like he may have a volcanic temper. You are not really caught in that except through your Vesta which is supposed to be a kind of friendship asteroid and his Pluto opposes his Mars-Chiron conjunction. This guy has a lot of anger and pain and he may be bringing it to you or expressing his anger to you or at you. That's all I can get without your birth information and exact degrees of planets, etc. But I repeat, if I was your astrologer, I would give very little weight to a wide conjunction of Venus and Saturn, it's just not strong enough here. Geocosmic Valentine
Professional Astrologer
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Deliverance
Knowflake Posts: 440
From: Bolloxville, Nutbush
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted August 13, 2008 07:05 PM
quote:
Deliverance,
i hear what You are saying and my mind tells me that life is too short to be hurting, but my heart screams to hold on.
You control your heart. You are in contol of what happens to you. Maybe you need to spend more time with platonic friends or occupy yourself with things that make you happy......I wish you all the best, stay strong x IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 07:32 PM
Deliverance,
Thank You! :-)
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Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 07:39 PM
Geocosmic Valentine,Thank You! His Natal saturn is 8 degrees from my Venus. but his progressed saturn is exactly conjunct my natal mercury and within 3 degrees of my natal Venus.
Would that be considered? I never considered The neptune Saturn square. IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 07:41 PM
deuxantares,
i've been very honest with my feelings.Yes, definite adjustment.
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Claire de Lune
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: at the intersection of ignorance and bliss
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted August 13, 2008 08:40 PM
It's YOUR Pluto squaring HIS moon and Mars rules your 11th house, not Neptune. The only Saturn aspects I see are his Saturn opposing your Jupiter (you want to go, he pulls back on the reins) and his Saturn squaring your Neptune. (That other Jupiter conjunct Saturn looks out of orb to me...)IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 13, 2008 08:52 PM
Thank You! Claire.IP: Logged |
Charlotte
Knowflake Posts: 1792
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted August 14, 2008 02:28 AM
It is already back to being good between us.
I can never stay angry or upset with him for very long and it seems to be mutual. :-)I suppose when You love deeply, you hurt deeply. IP: Logged |
koiflower
Knowflake Posts: 1258
From: Australia
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted August 14, 2008 03:05 AM
Charlotte - how do you feel about his NN on your Asc?IP: Logged |
Mhax
Knowflake Posts: 57
From:
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted August 14, 2008 12:28 PM
I have this aspect with a person that I like so much, but I dont know when Im with that person I treat her so cold and sometimes I treat her so bad, I dont know if she likes me or not and I dont want to show, but I feel something very special for her and also her Pluto square my Venus, I act like the typical Saturn because I have actually rising Capri, I need an adviced  Regards IP: Logged |
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