posted August 15, 2008 09:20 AM         

In any case, an eclipse has a more long term effect and the fact that you were juggling 5 guys last week (after the eclipse) and none this week (still after the eclipse), doesn't exactly scream ECLIPSE.

posted August 15, 2008 09:30 AM         

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last week my phone was ringing off the hook and I was juggling about 5 guys..

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posted August 15, 2008 05:30 PM         

I can relate to what you are feeling. This "Leo Season" has seemed so filled with parties and socializing and opportunities for love and romance... and this week I've noticed that I'm not the only one feeling a little fizzle. There appears to be some heavy duty energy doing some work in our lives. Hang in there! Keep asking what it is you are meant to learn... at least that's what I keep doing.

posted August 15, 2008 07:34 PM         

I mean it could mean ur going through some great transits that probably are showing a very social time and it may reflect on ur personality making you popular. I mean whats wrong with this anyways.

Everyones so serious around here and always pretending to be the perfect ideal person with no flaws.

Well i aint perfect in fact im far from it and im still happy with myself.. Noone here knows each other were here to discuss everyday REAL matters and people are so quick to judge everyone else.

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posted August 15, 2008 10:04 PM         

Second, The solar eclipse squared your sun exactly, just about, and that takes awhile to manifest.

It'll get better eventually.

posted August 15, 2008 10:21 PM         

Transiting Saturn and Venus were in a conjunction on Wednesday and transiting Saturn and Mercury are in conjunction today. Both conjunctions squared your Saturn, which could have helped to put a damper on your love life and your communications for a few days.

posted August 15, 2008 10:52 PM         

Good luck MainLine, once Venus goes into Libra at the end of the month things might brighten up for you

posted August 16, 2008 12:12 AM         

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It's fine to play the field.

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yes, agreed. but i think as long as everyone involved knows what's going on and are on the same page.

posted August 16, 2008 12:16 AM         

this has been a cute thread! If you re-read it there's nothing threatening here at all

posted August 16, 2008 11:20 AM         

sweetie, you asked a question. astrology aside for a moment - if there are five guys that you're looking at and none of them stand out then i would have to say keep yourself available and looking until you meet someone who does. have fun. and good luck."

I just have to assume that you don't listen well, and by that I mean read. Not being rude but I get that you pick up on what you want to and ignore the rest. Because in the initial post it says my Favorite one, has flaked out. And I don't understand the comment about as long as everyone knows whats going on. First of all...thought you wern't being judgemental?? Second, are you assuming they don't know?? Third, that has nothing to do with the thread and I think your reading too much into it and then commenting on details that were not given to you.
And I will say this, planetary aspects aside. I play no games...I'm too honest. I refuse to lie because it always comes back to you. So if any of them have asked me if I am talking to other guys, they have been told, that damn skippy I am. because there's no rock on this finger.

And Unmoved....I have to be honest. You saying you answered the question accord. to experience? You didn't even answer the question and it was judgemental because you assumed that I was being a "player" if you will. From the both of you, I just sense that there is way too much ego wrapped up in your initial repsponses. But, that is exactly what I think this eclipse, transit or whatever is all about. The EGO,and even my own...

But just to be clear. After the eclipse I have noticed several deaths and strange things...and was just trying to figure out how it could be affecting me, because I can't read chart transitions and such. I know people post their charts once in awhile and people who are more skilled help them. That's all I was asking for, NOT anyone's Dr. Phil pseudo-psycho analysis of love relationships. So screw it, I'll just go check yahoo horoscopes and blame everything on Saturn lol - just kidding.

posted August 16, 2008 11:24 AM         

I am not defending this because I didn't do anything wrong, but I apoogise for the misunderstanding.

posted August 16, 2008 11:35 AM         

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Maybe they felt that they weren't getting 100% of you and cut their losses.

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This is what your interpretation of it was:

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And Unmoved....I have to be honest. You saying you answered the question accord. to experience? You didn't even answer the question and it was judgemental because you assumed that I was being a "player" if you will. From the both of you, I just sense that there is way too much ego wrapped up in your initial repsponses. But, that is exactly what I think this eclipse, transit or whatever is all about. The EGO,and even my own...

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I think you are a bit sensitive these days and maybe I am likely being a bit insensitive these days because I can not understand where you got that from.Believe it or not, my statement was not too emotive, but I suppose from your experience it carried a lot of things that made it sound egotistical.

I will not say, "If only you knew me" because I am sure that we don't care about knowing each other at this point since we seem to be jumping into undue conclusions, but let me just say that I find your intepretation irrational - but I am aware that I probably do not have the depth you have to see what I said as arrogant.

posted August 16, 2008 11:49 AM         

THis is your 2nd and 3rd quotes....---"
Because I am not presumptuos and one can say that the bitter responses are directed at PA and not me, I can't exempt myself because it's not my place to do so...
and so, apparently I am being judgmental, heh? - This is the EGO I am referring to, because if you were unsure if they were calling you judgemental..they most defintely were referring to you and the other...., PA
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"I can't believe i'm being accused of being judgmental. Oh well. I answered the question according to experience. People can feel it if you're not totally into them. I know cause I've been on both sides of this scenario. As for dating... The rules are custom made for the comfort of each individual from a unique perspective. So. We can't judge . Actually, I am not defending myself anymore. Dating is like that, filled with hot spells followed by dry spells. This is bothering me more than it should. LOL """"

Specifically the " Oh well. I answered the question according to experience. People can feel it if you're not totally into them. I know cause I've been on both sides of this scenario. As for dating... The rules are custom made for the comfort of each individual from a unique perspective."

People can feel if your not totally into them...As if I am just "juggling the 5 guys- my own words" but not taking it seriously.. That's what I infer to be a player, just playing the field... But, maybe I misunderstood.

Regardless, I never wanted or expect any apologies. I welcome and appreciate your response at all. I just do take it personally, when things like that are inferred and the topic of discussion is me personally. Because it suggests many things that I am not. A player? or anything of the sorts is just not possible for me, I wear my emotions on my sleeve..if you didn't notice this already....So take no offense, its really not personal..its more of my ego like I said.
I don't like being mis-understood. But, my point was....you didn't answer the reply anyway, all your replies had to do with things you assumed were in my initial post, and were not....Anyway...I am aware that my rational and reasoning is not always the most obvious, so pay me no mind.