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Topic: Do you think something will happen?
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belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 24, 2008 11:40 PM
I met this guy recently and i havent found out his time of birth but he is soo hott i cant stop thinking about him, hes funny and great to talk to we spoke on the phone for 2 hours this morning but when i looked at out synastry it didnt look so great!!His moon is square my moon and both our sun and mercury is square also! But im very attracted he is so yumm... i will put his pic up later.. Do you think it could work? His mars also opposes mine???? IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 25, 2008 12:02 AM
Here is his pic too can anyone guess what his asc might be i have no idea!!deleted IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 1508 From: Portland, OR Registered: Jan 2004
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posted August 25, 2008 12:41 AM
I have no idea what his asc might be, but he has a yummy mouth!IP: Logged |
etoile03 Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Allier, France Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 25, 2008 01:33 AM
me either no idea... send him over here for a while and I'll let you know hi hi - although on looking again he's young enough to be my child lol so maybe I jsut stick with what I've got!!Lucky girl is all I can say IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 25, 2008 03:51 AM
i cant be too lucky if our synastry isnt so great. Has anyone seen someone with bad synastry to have a good relationship still??IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 25, 2008 11:34 PM
I just looked at demi moores and ashotns synastry and theyre all squares so maybe it can work maybe its a go dthing having squares lolIP: Logged |
amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted August 26, 2008 12:35 AM
Since you don't know his actual birth time, his moon might not even square anything in your chart. It only squares your moon if he's born at noon.IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 1301 From: New York Registered: Dec 2006
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posted August 26, 2008 12:49 AM
why are you questioning a possible relationship with another guy when you have a boyfriend?IP: Logged |
lexia523 Knowflake Posts: 47 From: adelaide Registered: Mar 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 04:20 AM
hey has strong dark eyebrows he could be scorp risingand both your sun moons are in sync and so is the venus mars although they recomend the mans mars to be aspecting females venus.. that way he will allways lust you.. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 26, 2008 08:19 AM
Yes i have a boyfriend but i dont plan to marry him nor does he want to marry me so i kdeep my options open IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 1301 From: New York Registered: Dec 2006
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posted August 26, 2008 11:40 AM
well then you are a typical cancer.. cause only cancers are that insecure to not end a relationship until they find another person to be with. its an insecurity thing. dont want to be alone. like a frickin monkey, cant let go of one branch until youve got the hold on the next branch. bad stuff. IP: Logged |
winky_winky Knowflake Posts: 574 From: SPAIN Registered: Oct 2007
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posted August 26, 2008 11:46 AM
belgz,to be quite honest, i dont know if a "bad" synastry can hold people together, maybe people that enjoy a lot of stimulation, but i havent made up my mind.... Because, if u really like this person and it is mutual, then fine, but nowadays, with so much freedom, etc... unless there is a good balance i am inclined to be pessimistic... Experience tells me that much more is to be found in your own natal, than in synastry, so maybe comparing synastry with ur own natal or composite with ur own natal makes u understand better... otherwise tough, u cant gt into other people´s head sadly.... IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 26, 2008 08:05 PM
Its alot more complex than what it sounds. I dont deny cheating on my boyfriends. We have no intentions of marrying so why should i not keep my options open? Im only here in this life once so if im attracted to someone else i think its ok to be with someone else so as long as i havent made a commitment to another.Its not im insecure at all but maybe i could be missing out on a great relationship with someone else especially when the one im in now is a mess. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency Knowflake Posts: 1432 From: Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 26, 2008 08:34 PM
I think he's a Taurus Asc.And you could always be single, if you think your relationship is a mess. IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 1301 From: New York Registered: Dec 2006
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posted August 26, 2008 11:10 PM
being in a relationship calling someone a boyfriend or girlfriend is a commitment.and true.. if its a mess then end it.. dont let someone think everything is alright when your looking at other prospective boyfriends.. its wrong. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted August 30, 2008 10:23 AM
I just found out his mum said he was born Around 6am which makes him 15deg Aries rising... I didn't think he looked aries????IP: Logged |
evander Knowflake Posts: 195 From: east of eu Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 30, 2008 03:47 PM
he's hot and fit, large facial features.. whats not aries about it? my compliments for the dude. he's a real hottie . put in the real ac and post the synastry. i'm curious hope it works out IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 270 From: where I am Registered: May 2008
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posted August 31, 2008 10:16 AM
Belgz, you know what? There is absolutely nothing wrong with keeping your options open. I think what your doing is rather smart! Your accepting that your boyfriend may only be in your life for a season, which shouldnt or wouldnt take away from the relationship. If you were to accept things with this man and settle you would also be judged. Damn if you do, damn if you dont. At least you guys are being honest with one another about not taking this relationship to the next level. And people need people, and being that this is an ASTROLOGY website, not a therapist office, that would be more reason to not judge. Your chart may actually be the reason WHY you feel the need to shop, so what, your not a murderer, it could be worse. Best of luck. LIVE YOUR LIFEIP: Logged |
augentier Knowflake Posts: 893 From: KS Registered: Nov 2007
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posted August 31, 2008 12:05 PM
wait..he's not gay? that shirt fooled me >:OIP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 04:46 AM
Thanks im glad someone understands me. I think time is very precious and i cant ever replace the years i wasted with him , hes told me millions of times we will never marry so i just know that we will end when one of us move on with someone else until then were just hanging out kind of lolIP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 02:14 PM
My parents have Mars Opposite Mars. One of their friends gave their marriage 6 months, she was out by 40 odd years. I also have this on my synastry chart. It's safe to say my husband doesn't have a calming effect on me, the arguments kick off pretty soon as we set eyes on each other. But it is good for keeping passion in a long term relationship. On your chart you also have his Mars Trine your Venus which is a pleasant interaction, that softens up the argumentativeness. But I wonder if you really have that much in common? Like you mention, your Suns are Square, and also your Moons. More than that, the Moon Opposite Neptune makes a T-Square with poor old Moon in Pisces in the middle. I wonder if you both feel emotionally understood. Mercury is intertwined with the Sun Square action, so communicating how you feel and what you want might also be a problem. But of course I am looking at all the tense aspects first. I notice your Sun CNJ Mercury trines his Venus CNJ Saturn. I think you bring him out of himself a little, in some way. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 03:09 PM
belgz, my dear You do what feels right to you. Only you know what can make you happy and if your means to happiness is taboo or frowned upon - screw the spectators that frown upon it. There are so many people who are unhappy just because they are doing things "right" in an acceptable way. All I know is that, the same people who frown upon your behaviour won't be there when the going gets tough. So, live your life, okay! You don't need approval from anyone to be happy. You only need be able to be proud of yourself anough to look at yourself in the mirror without shame. YOU LIVE ONCE. So, suck the marrow out of this life. That NN conj Chiron screams some karmic healing for one or both of you. Sexual healing? hee. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 07:18 PM
You know what the funny thing is too me and this gu our timings are so wrong. Its like when he calls me i miss his call and when i call him he misses my call its really weird and were even in different moods at different times we cant kinda balance it. And yesterday he really turned me off him when he started the feel sorry for me stories i think this might be a pisces moon thing but i just said i had to go and havent spoken to him since yesterday. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 01, 2008 07:22 PM
Here is our synastry with his time of birth his moon falls in my 7th and his sun in my 1st. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 12:51 AM
Yes, I do think something will happen! Why? Because it's already starting to happen! If he's phoning, he's interested. Guys only phone in this situation if they are. Belgz - if you feel your current bf is wasting your time and you want to settle down and get married and he has made it clear that he doesn't want to, then go for someone else I say. No point in hanging around in a relationship permanently and loyally so. I know someone who did that for 7 years waiting on him, she was driven to insanity almost. And yeah, he's a libra dwad aries on my calcs just like me! Libra dwad aries are a bit softer in appearance. Where do you find these great aries examples btw? Can I borrow him as well IP: Logged |