posted August 25, 2008 12:22 AM         

Get over it..

posted August 25, 2008 01:35 AM         

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted August 25, 2008 03:48 AM         

Everyone seems to puzzled by us for no reason. I mean im puzzled by why most signs as well like why cant geminis stop talking or why do pisceans have to be such sooks and lost..

posted August 25, 2008 05:40 AM         

I have a problem with Geminis for some reason, they should be the sign I get on with the best. That isnt the case.

posted August 25, 2008 06:04 AM         

The thing that stands out about threads on these two signs is that they come in waves. Suddenly, there will be 5 or 6 posts on Cancers usually by someone romantically interested in them trying to understand their behavior. Same thing with Aquas!

Certain Moon aspects? Uranus? Hmmm...

posted August 25, 2008 07:56 AM         

I am one of the guilty parties for a cancer thread. Yes, at this moment, this pisces is lost (as someone put it ) and I do not know how to deal with this cancer man.

Moody, elusive, mysterious and very inconsiderate of my feelings. I am beginning to thing that crabs have a split personality and we just say they are moody to be nice.

How do you really know a crab loves you when they are cutting you a piece of pie one minute and wiping the corners of your mouth off then the next minute they are shoving the pie in your face and walking out the door.

The thing is, is that when its good with a crab.......its really really really good but when its bad......its almost unbearable.

I dunno, bi-polar is starting to come to mind..........

posted August 25, 2008 09:44 AM         

A few months ago there were like a million Aquarius threads, and before that it was Libra's turn.

Chill out.

posted August 25, 2008 10:29 AM         

We dont get moody over nothing obviously you people do something to provoke it!

If were so moody and weird why do nearly all cancerians get along very well?

Were in tune with each other but just not with other signs maybe?

I have a cancerian friend and i feel and know evertthing she feels before she even talks i can tell by just looking at her for a second what shes thinking and her typical reactions and i know what they mean maybe you people should learn too so we dont need to have ALL these threads bagging us out..

I personally hate criticisim!
If you dont wanna see the repercussions later dont throw insults at us because we store it in memory and it will come out when u trigger us later on..

It might not come out then and there because we might be hurt or still in thinking mode about whatever youve done wrong AND THEN when were not in loving mood and u make another mistake then GAME OVER!

We get insulted when you do inconsiderate things and dont care about us.. WHY??

Because we care about u and would do basically anything for you whether its cooking cleanign blah blah and then when you act like you dont care we get defensive and try and be tough like YOU people but it doesnt work and people thing we suffer from mood disorders.

We love spending all our time with our loved ones .. WHY? Because we love them and why on earth would we wanna be anywhere else doing other things? Same with our boyfriends (cancers loves libras) because theyre all about the relationship and do everything with their partner and cancer loves that.

When were screaming and carrying on we dont care about you its probably because weve been hurt so much by you thats weve built a protective barrier and weve subconciously turned ourself off you to protect our hearts. Maybe were trying to not cling so much or move on but most likely after long term relationships we have gotten used to u and we stick to you like glue still after we think were so tough and can move on.

Anyways im not in a mood but i feel i was provoked with what everyone was saying. Its ok to laugh about it when u see it once or twic but honestly read above and think about what youve done wrong not what ur cancerian friend/partner has done..

posted August 25, 2008 07:28 PM         

Thankyouuuuu... I am smiling now..

posted August 25, 2008 09:15 PM         

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and then when you act like you dont care we get defensive and try and be tough like YOU people but it doesnt work and people thing we suffer from mood disorders.

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When were screaming and carrying on we dont care about you its probably because weve been hurt so much by you thats weve built a protective barrier and weve subconciously turned ourself off you to protect our hearts.

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Makes sense.

Actually all of these Cancer threads have really helped give me some perspective on how Cancers are. It is quotes like these that help.

I currently have a thing for a Cancerian guy, and I'm pretty sure he has a thing for me. However, he's been a doing a lot of now I like you, now I'm going to pretend like I don't like you to distance myself.

Of course, it's not much better than the thing I'm doing, which is: let me act all aloof and distant so I won't show how much you're getting to me with the opening of doors and the holding my hand, etc, etc.

Honestly, Cancers are easy. Simply heavily reinforce the good behavior (with appreciation and compliments, etc) and completely ignore or call them out on the bad behavior. The Cancer guy I have an interest in seems to become more enamored with me when I don't take his crap and I simply call him on his fake "woe is me" routine. (There is a difference between the fake woe is me and the real woe is me routine, and it pays to pay attention and learn the difference). Let the moodiness slide by letting him be by himself... In fact, you should disappear for a few days yourself and get involved with your OWN life, just so he'll wonder where the hell YOU are, and that will make him nervous enough to want to find you again and make amends. From what I've observed, the more grabby and snappy you get, the more elusive they become, but make sure to still be moderately accessible or they'll think you don't want them around.

Honestly, reading through some of the Cancer bashing threads was sad, because some guys (or gals) are just JERKS and it really has nothing to do with sun sign. Sun sign is how a person expresses the energy of their true self... So if inwardly they are true jerks, they will express the negative traits of WHATEVER sun sign they are.

Instead of trying to bash the general sun sign and/or read their minds, maybe people should try to understand the individual person and talk to them. Doesn't that make more sense? From what little I know of Cancers, they react very favorably to sensitivity and understanding (as do MOST people).

Anyway, that's my ten cents. I'm not trying to offend anyone who did start up a Cancer bashing thread, because I understand the need to vent and also to maybe get some help from other people on how to deal with the sun sign, but... If all you're going to do is bash a sun sign, what's the point?

posted August 25, 2008 10:05 PM         

I love the intensity that comes with love and why supress it?

I personally feel relaxed and only ever trusted my taurus boyfriend because he never got over me (as stupid as it sounds) so i dont ever doubt his love and hes the most special person in my life who id never hurt.

All my other libra exes move on and it makes u think what thaaaaaaa?

LOL

posted August 25, 2008 11:29 PM         

But this time is really hard, i never had someone up and leave and block all communication. i mean that is a serious shell he is hiding in.

I think that since i have a pisces sun/moon and a libra asc that i can't imagine being away from the person i love without trying to make it right. i think libras try to fix things and people. when he retreats I feel like i am left hanging.

why doesn't a cancer see the pain they cause when they just clam up? I can see a day or two to gather your thoughts but a week or two seems like too long to not get over what ever the problem is.

I love cancers.......i just wish i could tweak them a little.......not be so caught up in their own world and feelings and see that they can cause something to go from bad to worse when they hide in silence.

posted August 28, 2008 12:09 PM         

c'mon belgz... cheer up.