posted August 25, 2008 05:54 AM         

I have from my school days always younger men than me. I was 18 years old and my platonic love was 16 years (blond and from other school).
Later nobody was older even one day. The oldest from all (most important in my life) was 8 months younger.
After that came 9, 18, 24 and finally 30 years younger men. Terrible! Of course I had nothing with them. As I was on the reception (had to leave because of my pains) they didn't know my age but I knew their age. Only my doctor for acupuncture (18 years younger) knew how old I am but he didn't care about that. It was me (in that time with terrible neuralgias) that has refused any closer contact to him.
Consequences: I have dreamed about him four years long.

My friend for about 10 years was 9 years younger.

In one Forum one Astrologer told me, that my Mars in Leo is sign for younger men. His comment was: what do I have against younger men? I have nothing, but people around me could have.

Other signs:

1. Mercury in 7th (I have them in 6th in conjunction with DC) - I know one man with Mercury in 7th and his partner (woman) is 12 years older.
2. Venus in 7th.

Do you have such an experience and where in your Natal Chart you can see that?

Buena
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posted August 25, 2008 09:19 AM         

Finally one male member here! I thought we are all female.
About men and older women is clearer;

AC Cancer (Capricorn on the cusp of 7th)
Venus in Cancer,
Moon in Cancer,
Saturn in 7th (but it is not the rule).

About older women is the question: how much older? Somebody says that 12 years is maximal! If some woman looks younger than she is in fact, how can man know is she 30 or 40 years old?

posted August 25, 2008 09:28 AM         

Whats this bit about?

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If some woman looks younger than she is in fact, how can man know is she 30 or 40 years old?

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posted August 25, 2008 10:33 AM         

Age is just ind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

posted August 25, 2008 10:49 AM         

I don't believe that you are going to ask a woman you like, how old is she?
First of all is not nice to ask ladies for their age and
Second: if you like her, why would you ask for her age?

That was my problem:
I was talking normally with young men and at the same time my ears were ready to hear:
by the way, how old are you? On the beginning I told wrong age, but lies have short legs (we say so) and soon or later they know the truth. Later I didn't say anything and my luck was that they didn't ask me about that.
Since I have relocated and left tourism, I am more quite and less happy.

posted August 25, 2008 10:57 AM         

She has mercury and venus in 7th conjunct DC and she has always dated virgos!

Mercury type people.

I was one who said id never date younger until i turned 24 now i dont care.

posted August 25, 2008 10:59 AM         

- I met him when he was a baby of 19, thought he was 25, he thought I was 22.Age -

All that you say is the truth!
Unfortunately I have computer in my head and count always. I am just like that.

I remember my neighbour: she is 12 years older (he looks older and she looks younger) and she told me so: if he doesn't care about my age, why should I?
By some people very simple and very easy.

I am complicated person, so is my life!

posted August 25, 2008 11:08 AM         

- Now it’s whatever makes me happy -

You are very right.

I think that in my case are those neuralgias that make me so unsure. If I wouldn't have that problem, I would be much different.

From other side, I think all happens to us, is some kind of destiny.
If there is right person, you don't think at all and you just go with him or her. If you start to think and analyze there is nothing.

posted August 25, 2008 12:27 PM         

Don't blame me as I was between many people and can't tell everybody my age. In fact not many people have asked me for that. It was more in younger age than now. Now I am doing Natal Charts to nice people (for free) and they know how old I am. We are not going to get married that I have to hide something to them. I know that with the truth you can come further, than with the lies.
Now I am asking for the date of birth just because of Astrology and nothing else. In fact I don't care how old somebody is. The most important thing is that this person is charming.
My best friends now are 32, 33 (females) and 30 years (male) and we feel like the same age. Only deep in me I am not very lucky about that. They like me and say DU (German) to me, but as I told you in my head are always numbers.
I would be happier if I was somewhere on the lonely isle without Astrology, without date of birth, just me and ....

posted August 25, 2008 02:18 PM         

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

posted August 25, 2008 09:29 PM         

Virgo/Pisces Asc/Des
8th house Aries Sun/Mercury
Leo Mars
Uranus-Venus opp (on Asc/Des axis) square Gemini Midheaven

rarely have I gone with older men, since I was a kid they've always been younger and the gap only gets wider as I get wiser

posted August 25, 2008 09:32 PM         

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon