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Topic: I Need Help From Tauri!
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meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 2503 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 12:47 PM
Alright, i need to know if aggressiveness and "coming on strongly" is a turn OFF or turn ON.Any other information you could offer would be beneficial as well ^_^ Thanks. IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 3087 From: Kyiv, Ukraine Registered: Dec 2003
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posted August 26, 2008 12:51 PM
For me it is definitely is a turn offIP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 4790 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted August 26, 2008 01:01 PM
For me it's a turn on BUT i have all that aries so... if l didn't, l would prefer the slow, steady approach!IP: Logged |
meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 2503 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 04:22 PM
So, is there a difference between taking the initiative and beginning the conversation versus "Hey, i'm really attracted to you. I want to know everything about you?"That's the kind of scenario that i'm currently witnessing at the moment. My current roommate is attracted to this fellow college sophmore who i'm CERTAIN has a lot of earth in him. But she's very, "let's get to it". IP: Logged |
meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 2503 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 04:22 PM
Double post >_<IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 3251 From: Registered: Apr 2005
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posted August 26, 2008 05:17 PM
re ** if aggressiveness and "coming on strongly" is a turn OFF or turn ON.**big turn-off here .. i don't even fancy so called gorgeous females either .. like this lass .. i.e. looks wise .. just does now't for me .. ~ http://images.askmen.com/galleries/other/Event/kim-kardashian/pictures/kim-kardashian-picture-3.jpg ~ ( http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/018847.html ) IP: Logged |
MainLine ModelD Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Philly, PA USA Registered: Mar 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 10:38 PM
If it's a Taurus guy...than it's a TURN OFF..DON'T DO IT... Think of a taurus male, as a very stereo typical male...almost...the man goes to work, the woman stays home with babies...the man provides and protects..the woman cooks and smells good. you jane, me tarzan....Not not that bad, but they are traditional guys, kind of conservative...So, if she's outgoing OK...but not throwing suggestions at him like "I want to jump your bones." Famous Taurus Males - Jerry Seinfield, David Beckham, Jack Nicholson (not sure he fits the mold though) If it's a Taurus female..aggression is OK, as long as you tow the line. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 9234 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 10:43 PM
metaany more sign info? asc? moon sign? generally for taurus sun male - aggressiveness is a turn-off. they like that whole sweet looking thing - girly, feminine. taurean males are really really sensual. i think taurean men are everything that scorpio men are supposed to be..... and then some. don't take it fast, don't take it too slow - just let it happen in it's own time. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 9234 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 10:49 PM
metai think that if that's your roomies tone then she'll get him - only for a night. taurus men are next to cancer men in the whole "f*ck me, feed me" basics (my experience/perception before i get pounced on). now, think about it - if you were going to seduce bono - how would you do it. besides, if he was into her - he'll be there. taurean men aren't backwards. IP: Logged |
meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 2503 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 10:57 PM
Perhaps i should have entitled this post "I need help from very earhty people!" instead.I'm not exactly sure if he's a Taurus. He's just earrthhhhyyy. I get that vibe from him very strongly. He's laid back, down to EARTH, softly spoken, very polite, and ruggedly handsome. Like, he has thick brown hair, a nice beard (not extremely thick or shaggy), and he always wears earth tone colors. Nothing outstanding. I know he has to have earth in him. Somewhere. Neither me or my friend know him well enough to ask for his birthday info. But when she talks about him, and what she wants to say to him... i get nervous for her. She tells me she's planning to go up to him and say, "Alright, look, i think you're really hot. Let's go somewhere and hang out." ... now i don't know if that's a turn on, or not. She doesn't want to marry him, just fool around a bit. Are Earthy men normally into "No Strings Attached" relationships? I know they're sensual but are they permiscuous? IP: Logged |
GemLover Knowflake Posts: 416 From: Registered: Aug 2008
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posted August 26, 2008 11:05 PM
Speaking as a Taurus female, I like the direct approach. I'd rather be the one who's more passive in the beginning, but after that I like it to be equal. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 3251 From: Registered: Apr 2005
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posted August 27, 2008 07:27 AM
re: ** "Alright, look, i think you're really hot. Let's go somewhere and hang out." **hang on a sec. .. that's not aggression :-) that's just plain talking .. to the point .. that's a complement plus a suggestion .. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 9234 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 07:31 AM
meta quote: Are Earthy men normally into "No Strings Attached" relationships? I know they're sensual but are they permiscuous?
to my knowledge sweetheart - most men (regardless of sun sign) are into promiscuous sex. ROFL. couldn't resist.
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Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1151 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 07:42 AM
Yeah, most are. The rare few dont do that at all Yeah, that line above sounds fine, but say it a little serious...dont be giggling as he might think you are joking. IP: Logged |
bvanzy Knowflake Posts: 379 From: Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 27, 2008 08:22 AM
Will this guy object to being offered no-strings-attached sex?Probably not. IP: Logged |
meta_4 Knowflake Posts: 2503 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 08:41 AM
Alright, maybe the words don't seem so bad, but her tone and her body language when she said it made ME blush! And i'm not even in the scenario!Oh, and by "Lets go hang out" she wasn't talking about taking a walk in the park folks... I'm just confused because i was under the impression that earthy men like to move slowly and don't want to put themselves out there blindly? .. But i guess that's when it comes to love. Not necessarily sex. I don't want to believe that all men are into casual sex! >_< I want to believe that most feel rather empty and lonely when they participate is something that has no emotional meaning...!! *tear* But i guess i'm being a weeee bit naive... IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 9234 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 08:55 AM
meta quote: I don't want to believe that all men are into casual sex! >_< I want to believe that most feel rather empty and lonely when they participate is something that has no emotional meaning...!! *tear*
ROFL - sure it may be empty sex - but it doesn't mean they won't participate..... or enjoy it. IP: Logged |
bvanzy Knowflake Posts: 379 From: Registered: Jul 2007
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posted August 27, 2008 09:02 AM
Men are built to spread it around if they get the opportunity. It's in the genes.If he doesn't want casual sex on offer it means: he doesn't fancy her at all, she's turned him off by scaring him, he's got a wife/girlfriend and wants to remain faithful, he's homosexual, he's got a better offer or opportunity in mind. Or maybe the men around here have other ideas as to why a man might refuse an offer, or they would like to refute these assumptions about men? IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 3251 From: Registered: Apr 2005
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posted August 27, 2008 09:03 AM
**Oh, and by "Lets go hang out" she wasn't talking about taking a walk in the park folks.**double talk .. or does "let's hang out" equal "let's f*ck" .. i suppose if he talks the same language it be different .. well if she wants sex with him .. just say to him .. " let's hit the sack and shag like rabbits" except then he might start to think .. 'well if she says that to me .. then she probably sais it other guys as well' and .. 'well maybe she's a walking STD factory' .. caution might take over .. and he might take a few steps backward .. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 9234 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 09:09 AM
happy dragon quote: " let's hit the sack and shag like rabbits"
the difference between a woman saying that to a man - and a man saying that to a woman? a woman would be repulsed. a man would be wondering why they're still standing there talking about it.
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Nightjar Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Registered: Sep 2006
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posted August 27, 2008 09:16 AM
"a woman would be repulsed."Or not. I'm sure there are plenty of women who wouldn't mind. Especially if they find the guy somehow attractive.
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PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 9234 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 09:27 AM
nightjarthat's just scary! ROFL! well, it wouldn't work for me. LMAO. IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1151 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 09:28 AM
Them earth signs can be filthy creatures, probably the down to earth quality. How do you know this guy is earth? Might not be!!! IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1151 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted August 27, 2008 09:32 AM
quote: Men are built to spread it around if they get the opportunity. It's in the genes.If he doesn't want casual sex on offer it means: he doesn't fancy her at all, she's turned him off by scaring him, he's got a wife/girlfriend and wants to remain faithful, he's homosexual, he's got a better offer or opportunity in mind. Or maybe the men around here have other ideas as to why a man might refuse an offer, or they would like to refute these assumptions about men?
Bvanzy, you missed out the bit where men dont do casual sex. It does exist as a reason, no matter how women are brought up to view men.
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Happy Dragon Knowflake Posts: 3251 From: Registered: Apr 2005
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posted August 27, 2008 09:33 AM
*** a man would be wondering why they're still standing there talking about it. *** LOL ..true ..IP: Logged |