posted September 02, 2008 10:03 AM         

As the topic says, I am annoyed - and den'sum... but the catch is, there is nothing that triggered it to my knowledge, unless of course I am in denial about whatever happened today that annoyed me.

I was fine yesterday. Actually, I started cracking yesterday where I just wanted to be alone, where people's voices were just a little louder than I can take, where I made it a point to avoid people. Today, the irritability is full blown.

Nothing caused it. The only thing I did that was different from all the other "happy" days was that I had a tot of gin as part of a ritual ceremony (don't ask), and maybe I haven't eaten as much as I should... I dunno.

Here's my chart below. I see a lot of 12th House action from transiting planets that could cause me to be like this, but it's not like they started transiting my 12th house yesterday - which makes me think that it might be the tMoon up to no good by doing a number on my nMoon. (??)

Could you please tell me what transits make people annoyed for no apparent reason?

Thank You.

posted September 02, 2008 10:40 AM         

i'm fairly prone to 'angry days' .. and it's usually a Mars transit that sparks it ..
weird thing is .. i've began to notice my temper level is much much worse under certain minor aspect type transits from Mars .. i had one of them recently .. it was aspecting natal Pluto .. .. i was literally in a murderous mood for a couple of days ..

anyhow .. a 'hard' Mars transit .. when one is allready under an outer planet transit of a challenging nature .. well .. in short .. it will have a tendency to 'trigger' the outer planet transit ..
.. if that makes any sense ..

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on the other hand .. and totally off topic .. maybe it's all in ones genetic makeup ..
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posted September 02, 2008 10:57 AM         

Strangely, referring to the temper tantrum thing, people wouldn't believe that I can't raise my voice loudly. I usually tell someone his/her apples with the same tone that I would say "That's nice". Passive aggression is what it is, I suppose.

posted September 02, 2008 05:26 PM         

Uranus seems to be spurring all of my late degree Virgo peeps these days!

Did you check out transits to your progressed chart? Another possibility...

Hope that things are "sunny side up" for you soon!

posted September 03, 2008 08:45 AM         

I'll will look at what you guys said closer. By the sounds of it, I've been handling this period very well.

but yes, I'm highly impatient with a lot of people and things. I just can't stand waiting for someone fumbling over what they want to say. I always feel like just walking away and asking them to call me when they are ready to speak. Rude. Rude. Rude. But I haven't said that to anyone, but I've acted it by escaping.

my thing is, if you can say it in one word, why the paragraph? Another thing I'm saying a lot in my head is telling people to get to the point. I'm not in a hurry so I don't get it.

I am avoiding people who aren't straight forward and brief. Vagueness annoys me these days. People being dramatic annoy me. People feeling sorry for themselves annoys me to. I just can't stand it. But all my life I could stand it. It's making me feel selfish.

posted September 03, 2008 08:56 AM         

Feeling like this scares me. It's like I'm cold. Actually I am cold. I can only be nice to homeless people. I still talk to them, give them food and stuff. They have no ego issues. They feel like equals. There is no power struggle with them.

posted September 03, 2008 09:15 AM         

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

posted September 03, 2008 12:04 PM         

prSun, prVenus, prMercury RX are in the 12th House. The prSun is about to conjunct nMercury.

prMars in 2nd is square my PoF in 11th. (if I am correct)

evander - I answered you Q on the previous post.

astrolady - Thank you, Thank you Thank you for the time you took to look at the chart. Much appreciated.

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There was a transiting Moon/Mars conjunction in your 12th house yesterday at 11:58 pm EDT. Today, transiting Mars is squaring your nodal axis in the 9th and 3rd houses. Transiting Mars squaring the nodes is a time when people can be angry, frustrated and irritable. With the focal point in the 12th, you may well want to be alone and keep to yourself more. On the 8th, there will be a Mercury/Mars conjunction in your 12th as well.

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posted September 04, 2008 05:32 PM         

anyway, i'm still irritable. I thought it would pass quickly but I seem easily ticked off. Oh, and I'm really feeling those people who call to drain me by talking about the least interesting thing, themselves.

I just recommend people like that, who just love talking about themselves, to start blogging like the rest of us self involved people instead of defiling my precious ears. Gosh.

It's people set on telling me about the progress they have made in their lives like I asked. Gosh. I everytime I hear about that stuff I'm so tempted to turn it around and tell them about how I have it good. But I listen. And listen. And get bored. I am happy for people's successes but it looks like there's a conspiracy and everyone I know has to tell me about having done something I did in the past.

You know what it is? It's like people are competing when there's no competition. We live different lives. I'm self centred I suppose because I don't care about what people are up to because I've got stuff to do. So, one friend started having a breakdown about some good news I had. So now she calls all the time to hear me say good stuff about her and play myself down because that makes her feel better.

I mentioned in passing that I got invited to an award night, just saying that I'm not going because it is too far and my money is for more important needs and not partying. Her reaction made me learn to never tell her about places I get invited to or who invites me because I got venom. So much so that I was close to calling her on it when I decided to go breathe.

posted September 04, 2008 05:42 PM         

It sounds to me like you're in a growth period and you're "outgrowing" your crew.

Someone taught me an amazing little tidbit...don't judge others by how funny they are, handsome/pretty, nice, etc. Judge those in your life by what they bring you. If they are bringing you down, don't feed into their energy.

For example, if your friend is talking to you about something you don't agree with, don't even say "uh huh." If you do, you're accepting her negative energy and she'll stick around. If you only speak what you believe and acknowledge what you think is right, (not respond to things you think are wrong) these kinds of people will miraculosuly start to phase out. The reason is that they can't feed off of you anymore, and they'll move on.

Works like a charm for me every time.

posted September 04, 2008 05:54 PM         

Real friends don't need to show off. I had this problem a few years back where work colleagues were starting to become "friends" of mine. These so-called friends would constantly brag about their next move, what they had and what they were going to achieve. Then they would support cliques to advance themselves and still brag to you but leave you out. I think that's lack of maturity as well a lack of confidence. That is what I have picked up in what you have written. They feel intimidated by you and feel the need to brag to you about what they are doing. These aren't real friends. A real friend is someone who is willing to be a shoulder to you during hard times and likewise you to them. I say get rid of them. I did, it did me no harm. Plus, you are self-focussed, you have all your planets in the Eastern hemisphere, maybe people sense you self-focus and envy that you are able to do it.

posted September 04, 2008 05:58 PM         

Also I noticed that saturn is moving through your 11th which means that you might be quite serious in regard to your friends or some restrictions. Maybe you might lose a few even. When it transited my 11th as a teenager, I had few friends myself, I just wasn't interested in the nonsense. Likewise, you might have "friend" issues when saturn transits your 12th and conj merc (ruler of 11th), again, there might be issues.