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Topic: What makes you run for the hills, Venus?
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blue moon
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From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 05:02 PM
 
What makes you run for the hills in a relationship? As mentioned elsewhere, in a rambling commentary on the influence of Uranus in my life, Possessiveness is the quality that would make me run off fastest. And I have Venus in Taurus. Opposite the Ascendant (Scorpio). But Square Mars in Aqua who asserts himself all over my chart, barging into everyone except Saturn. Maybe the influence of Venus without undue interference is my distaste for Bad Manners. I'm sure mine aren't always perfect, but I do appreciate people making an effort. Any deal breakers illuminating the effect of Venus on your chart? IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 02, 2008 05:05 PM
venus in virgo checking in - uncleanliness
body odor
pretentious theres a start
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evander
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From: east of eu
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 02, 2008 05:14 PM
neediness, being too emotional in general and bad hygiene venus in scorpio. but i think the sagie sun is the deal breaker here IP: Logged |
Lara
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From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 05:20 PM
indecisive men with no balls and inability to keep me interested... most of the time I fall asleep before I start running 
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 05:32 PM
Just for sunshine_lionA friend of mine was once married to a man who one year took just two showers. That's right, that was him and hygiene for that year. Though, he was quite insistent that he cleaned his teeth once a day. How she could bear sleeping with him I don't know, whether that is sharing bed space or the other. Well she had a child by him so she must have done. IP: Logged |
Inner depths
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From: The Greatest Outdoor Show on Earth City!
Registered: May 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 06:37 PM
Hmmmmmmmmmmm Venus in Pisces in the 10th square to Jupiter/Neptune in Sag.....Most of the time my T-square with Sun-Mars and Uranus is active so most of the time I REALLY REALLY try very hard to avoid relationships altogether! Venus in pisces goes too much on a pity trip and collects men who are bad for me.....settling for somebody who I shouldn't be settling with.......but yeah, most of the time my Cardinal T square is mostly active with relationships.....ID IP: Logged |
EighthMoon
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posted September 02, 2008 07:16 PM
Yup...I'm with Lara! Venus Aries here as well...more like a weakness of character is a turn off for me. That and smothering and acting fatherly...egads. 8th IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4497
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 07:20 PM
I have an unaspected venus on the galactic centre (in sag/9th). Jupiter its depositor is in the 1st (conj AC). Coincidentally venus is the ruler of my libran DC. I cannot stand religion bashers and narrow minded people. What I mean by religious bashers is that anyone who bashes the philosophies any form of religion/theories/metaphysics and who can't separate human action in relation to religion from religious theory/philosophy. I also hate middle class ideals and morals too. A snob I am indeed. If you are a girl and would like to talk to me about Sex & The City with your square cut french nails or a guy who wants to talk to me in your Quiksilver Boardies with a copy of Ralph or Zoo in your hands, expect me with a sawn-off shotgun at your house in a few days time. Sophisiticated and broad minded males need only apply. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4497
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 07:23 PM
Lara - what would happen if Mr future Lara has mars in libra that opposed your venus. Mr future Lara might be a bit indecisive with his Libra mars. IP: Logged |
Kick It
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From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 02, 2008 07:26 PM
Only thing that would make me run is if they are not a nice person to be around. ie. A ***** . (or female dog if that got bleeped out)Can take other bad habits as its more the person that Im interested in. Not what they do or do not do. IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 4497
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 07:29 PM
Yes a*holes and b*ches are hard to take. That would be criteria no. 1 for me, then the saggie stuff (I suppose that's my libran DC in action). IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes
Knowflake Posts: 184
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 09:42 PM
venus/aqua/12thclingy-ness
overly affectionate
too much forced romance ------------------
*Christina*
Aquarius SUN
Gemini MOON
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Dragoon
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Saturn
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 09:55 PM
i don't run for the hills, the hills run from me.IP: Logged |
augentier
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From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 09:58 PM
venus in scorpio in the 1st house, conjunct ASC, trine mars & jupiter.
narrow-minded pig-headedness, nasty hygiene, shallow/superficial/materialistic.
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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 10:14 PM
hygiene virgo rising
clinginess gemini moon
me not being his world lol leo venusIf theyre not so into me then im just not into them IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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From: Portland, OR
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted September 02, 2008 10:45 PM
Venus in Libra here...Where should I start. namedroppers, arrogance, narrow-mindedness, racism, double-standards, crudeness, intolerance, insensitivity, me-me-meism IP: Logged |
augentier
Knowflake Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 10:48 PM
belgz, i agree w/ you there..i also want lots of attention (and affection)..not sure why, maybe that's my sag moon. or my scorpio venus wanting constant intensity  IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 11:01 PM
yeah i hate the ones that are also too self contained and play games by playing hard to get and backing away from the relationship just for the sake of playing cat and mouse. I hate those sort of games. I love fun games in a relationship ones where im smiling and he has me thinking but i hate being paranoid and it ruins my mood if hes trying to make me chase him.. Id tell him to get over himself and show him the door eventuallyIP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted September 02, 2008 11:12 PM
23...
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I cannot stand religion bashers and narrow minded people. What I mean by religious bashers is that anyone who bashes the philosophies any form of religion/theories/metaphysics and who can't separate human action in relation to religion from religious theory/philosophy. Of course, I had to get involved with one (and his family) who are spiritually constipated/religiously zealot.I also hate middle class ideals and morals too. A snob I am indeed. If you are a girl and would like to talk to me about Sex & The City with your square cut french nails
What if Sex and the City IS my religion!?!?!!!
mostly kiddding
Libra with Venus conjunct Uranus in Libra,
and my IC in Venus ruled Taurus...
I guess in a vague and general way it would be if the guy isn't too smart, is without integrity, and (shhhh.... ) doesn't pay enough attention to me.
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Knowflake Posts: 4497
From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 02, 2008 11:14 PM
Oh well its ok if you're into Sex & The City but if you do all the girly stuff with it like a hairdresser might, then I'll still kill you. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 7410
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted September 02, 2008 11:18 PM
 in  BT covered a good chunk quote:
namedroppers, arrogance, narrow-mindedness, racism, double-standards, crudeness, intolerance, insensitivity, me-me-meism
With a Leo Asc, I can understand the Me-o Me-o Me-o angle and it doesn’t repel me totally unless it’s to a narcissistic degree. Unnecessary crudeness is a total turn-off. You’ll hear me say “pardon my ‘French’” at times when I’ve turned the air blue with passionate language, but someone who cannot complete a sentence without a rude expletive in it is a verbal cripple whom I will ignore thereafter. Inconsistency can drive me crazy, although I’ve been known to get used to it I want someone to keep their word if they give it, and not change their mind every day – I like stability (but that doesn’t negate spontaneity). Rudeness and inconsideration of others is an immediate turn-off. If you’re rude to the waitress, Goodbye. Don’t patronize me or try a patriarchal tack – I already have a father. If your mind isn’t at least somewhat open to new ways of thinking, I’ll be on my way.IP: Logged |
capnsag
Knowflake Posts: 177
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Registered: Jun 2007
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posted September 02, 2008 11:24 PM
Aqua Venus in the 12th, conj. Asc.Dripping with overthinking and emotional - be a MAN, thank you very much... Although I don't run for the hills. I get more aggresive and masculine, wanting the guy to buck up and face me down. (Considering I'm 5'2" and 115 lbs.) Sigh. That could be my Sag moon though. Or Cappy sun? SOMEONE's gotta wear the pants! lol. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 4586
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted September 02, 2008 11:43 PM
Ok, you're all witness to that death threat, right??? *goes to check the locks on my doors...* Ok, well, I think I've done my nails before while watching but if that puts me on the death list then uh... no...
no...
no girly stuff at allllll...... I'm too 8th house to be totally pink and fluffy,
*though it is a fine disguise...*
*raises the villain eyebrow* so I think you would let me live...
*or I would let YOU live* *eyebrow* IP: Logged |
amowls
Knowflake Posts: 866
From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 03, 2008 12:01 AM
Stagnation in a relationship/not reaching any new levels.Plus flakiness/fickleness. I like to know I'm loved. And I hate to say it, but if I feel like you're going no where in life, I'll probably leave. I have Venus in the 10th in Pisces square Saturn/Uranus (0 degrees) and Mars (8 degrees) and my ASC (2 degrees). Venus rules my 5th house (Libra) and 12th house (Taurus). DSC in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Aries in the 11th. Interestingly enough I can deal with narrow-mindedness and stupidity, even though it's everything I try not to be (Sun conj Mercury in Aqua in the 9th, Gem rising). My Venus is in a perceiving sign (to use Myers-Briggs terminology), so I try to understand narrow-mindedness. I mean, as long as the person has other redeeming qualities. But I am not attracted to poor dressers (don't really care about hygiene) or people who wear boring clothes (Leo ruling 3rd house of expression? Moon in 5th in Libra). I like flashy guys (flashy in an untacky way obviously). I guess it's the Venus in the 10th. I'm snobby when it comes to externalities (things people can help like clothing style and taste in entertainment & buyer behavior), but not people's personalities. IP: Logged |
Dragoon
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: Saturn
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 03, 2008 12:15 AM
wait, has anyone else got a Sagittarius venus here? how do you feel?IP: Logged |
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