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posted September 04, 2008 04:31 PM         

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Tell me what you know of this placement and what do they tend to find attractive in a mate. Experiences with people with this placement would be great.

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posted September 04, 2008 04:39 PM         

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a lot of my friends have had venus in aquarius..apparently because im a "weirdo" and they love strange things.

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posted September 04, 2008 04:42 PM         

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I know a few people with this placement. They need detachment, freedom and friendship with their partners. They are stubborn and form quick attachments with others, but they can just as easily break it off. They also need to keep the mental aspect of a relationship going, not just the romantic and sexual sides. They tend not to be possessive unless other placements in the chart modify that.

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posted September 04, 2008 05:01 PM         

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many moons ago I had a crush on V in Aqua. There was an attraction, but talk about frustrating with mixed messages. I never knew where I was, no matter how I tried to communicate.

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posted September 04, 2008 05:07 PM         

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hey this is me!

Astrolady is exactly right!

Venus Aquarius 14.26------->me

So finally I can say something here I actually know about!

Just don't push to hard or try to hard.
What would you like to know???

Kristin

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posted September 04, 2008 05:13 PM         

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oops sorry!
AstroLEOlady
my bad

I like a strong character, quick wit, someone who can converse with any walk of life at any given moment, I guess polished. I like a manly man who can fix things and yet be sensitive and someone who is not afraid to love. I can like or dislike someone istantly and when it is over, whether a friendship or more, it is over, my feelings don't linger. You can mentally seduce me, yes a good mind and deep conversation is a turn on!
Does that help?

I am a pisces though, sun and moon. I just have aquariaus once, in venus.

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posted September 04, 2008 05:28 PM         

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My friend has this, Venus in Aqua, also Mars in Aqua, and Sun Sag.

He seems to moan a lot about his girlfriend pestering him with phone calls and demands. "She won't leave me alone, I don't have any peace." He said the same about the last one.

Got to say, I am sympathetic to the sentiment, and also, it did seem to me that he had wound up with the not most mature and stable girls about.

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posted September 04, 2008 05:42 PM         

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ME.

and then i get ****** because they are detached. i am detached about most things in life EXCEPT when it comes to ~*~*~*~love

eta: me as in, venus in aquas like me. i have venus in pisces.

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posted September 04, 2008 05:55 PM         

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oops sorry!
AstroLEOlady
my bad

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No worries.

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posted September 04, 2008 07:56 PM         

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I have Venus in Aqu,

I seldom get attracted/fancy anyone. But when I go though brief phases of receptivness Im attracted to men who give me space, respect my need to live a separate life to them & who dont touch me often. I also like men who dont talk too much who are unique in some way. Another positive is someone who's open hearted, kind & who stands up for what they believe in what ever the cost. Strength of mind & character is also important. I also like men who dont expect me to be friends with their friends or get close to their family.

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posted September 04, 2008 10:07 PM         

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I'm a Venusian Aquarian. This is correct:

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They need detachment, freedom and friendship with their partners. They are stubborn and form quick attachments with others, but they can just as easily break it off. They also need to keep the mental aspect of a relationship going, not just the romantic and sexual sides.

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posted September 04, 2008 10:22 PM         

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what exactly is the "mental" aspect of a relationship? conversation? conversation about what? i have a severe lack of air in my chart, i dont get this! lol

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posted September 04, 2008 10:39 PM         

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my friend has this in venus and mars. she is loving and sweet and of course weird lolz many guys like her(she is gorgeous) but she always turns them down or just act like shes not interested i tell her if i had this many guys crushing on me id be on a date everyday..this is what she tells me lol

"oh whatever, the ones that i realli like never even pay me no attention i usually always see guys i like on the train anyway and what am i supposed to do shout out on a crowded train hey i like you!!!!". shes so crazii lolz

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posted September 05, 2008 02:05 AM         

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what exactly is the "mental" aspect of a relationship? conversation? conversation about what? i have a severe lack of air in my chart, i dont get this! lol

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For me, it's talking about how you feel and what you believe and analyzing things that happen to both of you. I always talk to my loved ones about things that happened to me, why I think they happened, what I learned from them, what I was proud about or what I'd change, what I think it means by connecting it to overarching themes... Maybe I just like to talk a lot. I'm endlessly curious and find everything can be endlessly analyzed and spun round.

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posted September 05, 2008 02:07 AM         

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. . . talk about frustrating with mixed messages. I never knew where I was . . .

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Oh dear, I hear this all too often.

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posted September 05, 2008 08:06 AM         

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Interesting, people always think I am "stuck up" when I am actually shy. I am older now and happily married but as my husband says "still a knock-out" and everyone thought I had lots of dates but I never did get asked out much.

I am a listener and I ask a lot of questions, there is nothing like a deep and interesting conversation to get me in the mood!

I always thought it was all the pisces in me that made me strange maybe not.

I am very independant but you had better come running when this damsel is in distress and defend me no matter what!

When my husband and I were "courting" he used to read to me over the phone and I loved it. I lived in Wisconsin and he in Tennessee and he read me stories of the history of his community. I thought it was very cool.

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posted September 05, 2008 09:38 AM         

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I have Venus in Aqu,
I seldom get attracted/fancy anyone. But when I go though brief phases of receptivness Im attracted to men who give me space, respect my need to live a separate life to them & who dont touch me often. I also like men who dont talk too much who are unique in some way. Another positive is someone who's open hearted, kind & who stands up for what they believe in what ever the cost. Strength of mind & character is also important. I also like men who dont expect me to be friends with their friends or get close to their family.

This is me as well..But I have Aqua moon,venus,rising and mercury so alot of times I have problems trying to figure out which Aqua planet is making me do what..LOL!!!

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posted September 05, 2008 12:50 PM         

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im venus in aqua. i like my space. there isnt a type of man i go for, but all my lovers have been unique in some way. i dont discriminate.

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posted September 05, 2008 12:59 PM         

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^ Yes, totally. I definitely don't have a "type."

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