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Topic: Venus, what trait do you find attractive but really shouldn't ?
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blue moon
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posted September 06, 2008 11:37 AM
 
There is something about pedantry I find secretly attractive.*Venus on my chart is Conjunct Mercury, both in Taurus. So I think there is a double whammy going on here ~ ponderous Mercury appreciates someone who cares about getting details right. And subconciously Venus thinks that a man who can instantly spot where an apostrophe is missing on a pub sign will notice if the accountant tries to cream a couple of spare millions off his bank account. * I juggled this sentence about a few times so that I didn't split an infinitive.
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Lucia23
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posted September 06, 2008 01:06 PM
Cockiness. (That probably isn't my Cancer Venus, though.) IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted September 06, 2008 02:14 PM
I find it incredibly sexy when a man manages his finances well. My venus is on the cusp of Aries and Taurus.IP: Logged |
JJ
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posted September 06, 2008 02:35 PM
Arrogance, Agressiveness, Hot TemperVenus in Taurus IP: Logged |
evander
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posted September 06, 2008 03:09 PM
hair. floppy or curly hair. there something so doable about it  and character wise. outsmarting me. getting me to admit i'm wrong about something IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt
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posted September 06, 2008 03:59 PM
I dated this guy who forgot to shower every day. I found that incredibly attractive But there was a reason for it, I just loved the way he smelled, it wasn't disgusting.. not to me. Then he started taking a shower regularly and we broke up, lol.IP: Logged |
augentier
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posted September 06, 2008 08:42 PM
aggressiveness, jealousy (to a point), truly carefree rebellion------------------
Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
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CoralFrequency
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posted September 06, 2008 09:08 PM
Damn - I really can't think of anything.Whatever I 'm attracted to, I always think it's OK to be attracted. I don't feel like I "shouldn't". Nothing is forbidden in my mind - If I like or want something, then it's GREAT in my book lol And if it wasn't great, I wouldn't want it in the first place. But I can say - none of the things mentioned so far ring a bell LOL They're all put-offs so far, specially aggressiveness - unless it's PURELY whilst having sex - which is fine - I'm an Aries Sun girl after all teehee. And definitely not cockiness *gag*. That either turns me to ice or makes me get nasty and emotionaly *harm* the guy (I try not to do this, but there are times when I just can't help myself).
I'm too moralistic about those things. I end up sounding like a nagging parent "NOW NOW you stupid little boy.. I'll so put you in time out! If you keep acting like a 2 yr old, I'll treat you like a 2 yr old"
And my Venus is on the Aries/Taurus cusp. IP: Logged |
Kismet*
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posted September 06, 2008 10:04 PM
I sometimes like when a guy acts superior in intelligence, like he just can't tolerate stupidity in others. Very sexy...Venus in Gemini  IP: Logged |
snohawk1
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posted September 06, 2008 10:44 PM
I agree with Coral Frequency.-aries venus
-cancer mars
-pisces 5 house cusp
-aquarius saturn -I think everything i think is acceptable IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
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posted September 06, 2008 10:48 PM
I'm the same as CoralFrequency...nothing is off limits, I'm pretty open-minded.IP: Logged |
peace
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posted September 07, 2008 02:49 AM
Venus in Libra 7th house.
Any info?.IP: Logged |
EighthMoon
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posted September 07, 2008 08:43 AM
Genuine humility...and I have Venus Aries. 8th IP: Logged |
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posted September 07, 2008 07:14 PM
Jock Behaviour/Frat boy- the negative of the sag. I have venus in sag/9th.Example of "fratire" http://maddox.xmission.com/
As for "gemini" behaviour impacting on venus in sag, it works but I have mars in gemini so I naturally find it attractive.
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amowls
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posted September 07, 2008 07:47 PM
Evilish typesLike, Venom & Carnage from Spiderman are kind of hot...
Also in my mind, Caligula is really hot too.
 I also like cocky as*holes. I don't know what would point to evil, but cocky a-hole can be explained by 10th house Venus perhaps? IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted September 07, 2008 08:01 PM
i love a hot temper too------------------
Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted September 07, 2008 09:27 PM
the class clown.
---venus in gemini
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scrappydog
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From: Houston, Texas
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posted September 07, 2008 09:43 PM
Danger or "dark" types. But I don't think this is my venus in virgo in 5th square neptune. I have scorpio on the Desc and sun conjunct pluto, so it must come from this. Just goes to show you what your attracted to has a lot more to do with than just venus.IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 07, 2008 10:43 PM
Coral - Wise attitude.  I agree it's best not to fall into self-loathing over these types of things. On the other hand, it's enjoyable to feel like you're sometimes violating your own principles. A benefit of having conflicting values is that you get to feel all naughty when the "forbidden" side owns you.  IP: Logged |
jane
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posted September 07, 2008 10:55 PM
For me, I have Venus in Cap. I like it when a man buys me things and is a good provider. This conflicts with my self-reliant side that wants to earn everything on my own. (I have a busy 10th house and have been a workaholic for most of my life, the exception being the past 2 years when I've spent a lot of my time caring for a sick family member.) Growing up, money was always short in my house, so our parents couldn't spend much on me and my siblings for anything frivolous (toys, new clothes, entertainment, etc.). Once we became old enough to work, we used our paychecks to buy all of our own things and also contributed some of our paychecks to pay the household bills. I'm glad things were like that because none of us is spoiled. We all value hard work and expect to earn things on our own. And because of those values, we achieved financial security at relatively young ages (buying our own houses, cars; earning scholarships; saving money). And yet...I LOVE it when we're out with a group, and I overhear my man telling the waitress, as he looks in my direction, "She's with me," so she knows to put everything I order on his bill. I love when he pays for what we do as a couple, and when he gives me gifts. Too much of this would aggravate the more self-reliant side of myself, but in moderate doses, it's an aphrodisiac. And I know I would be turned off by a man who didn't do those things. I don't fall for a guy because of what he has, but after we're involved, I admit I enjoy whatever "toys" he brings to the relationship. Maybe this due not just to my Cappy Venus but also my Taurus Descendant, making me attracted to my partner's things. An ex had a movie collection that made me weak in the knees. Discovering my SO's gorgeous bathroom and extensive library persuaded me to spend most of our time at his place. I'm not that into cars, but I have been even further seduced when I've learned that the guy I'm into owns a motorcycle. I really enjoy watching my SO pay the bills.  It's a good thing I don't work in accounting because I would be slapped with many sexual harassment lawsuits by co-workers. Something about watching a guy being fiscally responsible that makes me want to give a lap dance or, if short on time, nibble on the back of his neck. I'm a twisted, disturbed person. **Hangs head to hide wicked grin** I also like waking up to a wad of bills on the night stand. (Along with a note, that "last night was dope.") Although this paragraph is a joke, I actually would greatly enjoy this but only because I'm corny and love early 90's rap. Besides all that materialistic, providing, good with money stuff, I'm also attracted to a man who teases me, and keeps going even after I beg him to stop. By "teasing," I mean with humor, of course. I probably enjoy roasting type of humor b/c I have Venus in my 3rd house. That teasing has sort of a friendly, sibling type of feel to it. And then when I plead for mercy b/c my laughter has me on the floor and is making my abs burn, I like it when he keeps going. The Cap influence may make me enjoy the very mild form of masochism that comes with being overpowered by someone else. Similarly, I also really love being the recipient of masterfully planned practical jokes. Another thing I'm attracted to but "shouldn't" be is priests. I was raised Catholic. I don't even believe in hell, but some of the fantasies I'd have about my priest during mass were so inappropriate and filthy, that I wouldn't be surprised if hell was born in that moment just so that I could be sent there. I think a partial explanation for this attraction could be that my Cappy Venus in the 3rd house is attracted to someone speaking (3rd house) wisely (Cap). (I guess that makes me attracted to Coral Frequency, as well! Dress up like a priest for me.  ) Anyway, this attraction has been confined mostly to Catholic priests. Protestant clergy have never really done anything for me. I've liked a few rabbis. The Jesuits are the best...educated teachers and priests...overwhelmingly hot. IP: Logged |
Kick It
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From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 07, 2008 11:07 PM
Good write up. Certainly sounds more like Taurus DC. If you turn the chart so the 7th house becomes the 1st house, this describes your partner. So his personality is Taurean. His 6th house (your 12th house) is Sagittarius, which can describe his job.Many ways to look at it, but Sag/Jupiter relating to the 6th can indicate a priest. My 12th/her 6th is Capricorn. I like bosses amongst other things, or business women. Works for me. A few other options too IP: Logged |
23
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posted September 07, 2008 11:13 PM
More proof that JT was meant to be mine? IP: Logged |
Dragoon
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posted September 07, 2008 11:14 PM
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I really enjoy watching my SO pay the bills.
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jane
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posted September 07, 2008 11:27 PM
quote:
i aint sayin she a gold digger...
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jane
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posted September 07, 2008 11:29 PM
Kick It - Actually, my 12th and his 6th his Libra. But it's interesting that you should mention Sag b/c the MC of my partners has most often been Sag. Sag is on my 2nd, so that would be his 8th, right? So he makes money from others in Sag ways. That fits.IP: Logged |
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