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Topic: Men with close venus pluto aspects
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scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 56
From: Houston, Texas
Registered: Aug 2008
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posted September 07, 2008 08:34 PM
 
I guy I am seeing has an exact venus pluto square. My exact sun pluto conjunction falls on his pluto thus squaring his venus exactly. His venus is in Cappy. He is extremely sexually aggressive. Almost scary. His sun is in Sag with moon and asc in Scorpio. Is this due to the venus pluto square?IP: Logged |
Astra
Knowflake Posts: 553
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Registered: May 2007
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posted September 07, 2008 08:40 PM
In my opinion, yes. Venus square pluto is very intense and sexually-charged. I've got the opposition, so I sort of know what it feels like. And your sun-pluto conjunction aspecting his pluto definitely heightens his sexuality. Make sure you don't get too caught up in the physical aspect of this relationship. It will be a passionate one without a doubt, but make sure you connect on an intellectual and emotional level with him as well if you want a long-term relationship. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
Knowflake Posts: 13873
From: CA, USA
Registered: May 2005
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posted September 07, 2008 08:50 PM
A Sag Sun with Scorpio rising also implies that he has a 2nd house Sun throwing in a little Taurean spice. My Sag/Scorpio Rising friend is pretty kinky. (He's very good with money, though.)IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 07, 2008 09:27 PM
If its about sexual aggression, Aries on the 8th is most likely. Look at the aspects to Mars and what sign it is in.
Go on, tell...
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scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 56
From: Houston, Texas
Registered: Aug 2008
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posted September 07, 2008 09:38 PM
Mars is in virgo conjunct jupiter 0 deg, but they fall in my 5th house conjunct my venus 2 deg. This relationship is so freakin intense! I'm fixing to be 28 and never felt anything quite like this. We are both obssesive with eachother especially him. He calls or texts me 3 dozen times a day. I live in Texas and he's in Phoenix, Arizona, he wants me to move to be with him asap. I know this may not be smart since we have only known eachother 4 months, but I can't seem to think with any reason where it concerns him. I've been in really abusive relationships in the past. I know I need to be thinking with more caution than this. His birth info 12-16-79 Columbus, Ohio
3:37 a.m. Mine 10-15-80 Houston, Texas 7:50 p.m.IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency
Knowflake Posts: 1432
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Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 08, 2008 03:22 AM
His Mars/Jupiter conj is closely conjunct your Venus.You would feel this aspect strongly since, being a Libra - Venus is pretty important in your chart. Jupiter is important in his.
And there is that old adage that women act out their Venus and men their Mars, sexually. Take a step back and think about whether you really want to throw unconditional love at his Mars? Sure, it's good to encourage the guy - and he would feel perfectly sexually comfortable with you.. but sometimes with the conjunction he could get a bit too comfortable and do things he wouldn't do otherwise - simply because he knows you're THAT accepting of him. This is great sexually. He really thinks all his dreams could come true, because you wouldn't say "no".. but, not sure how to put this. He may accidentally *break you* in the process. The Mars person can look a bit like an Ape to you. King Kong might be a better analogy. Big. Strong. Blunt and sometimes scaringly forward. You need a bit more detachment to make the Venus/Mars aspect work for you.. Mars can try to steamroll over Venus and Venus can be too lost in love to realize what's happening.
Keep your eyes open. Ask yourself this question if you're in doubt: If ANY other guy I know did this, or behaved this way towards me, would I like it - would I accept it - would I basically be OK with it, or not?
He may be too rough for you. Venus is very sensitive and sensual.. Mars is all sexual instinct. It sounds GOOD but it needs adjustment in practice. It can be an amazing connection to have but you both have to work at it – and HIM especially, needs to try to understand you. It's easier for the Venus person to compromise. Mars will always want his way. He needs to change some things, basically.. and take what you WANT into account. IP: Logged |
Black_Lily
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Belgium
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 08, 2008 12:10 PM
quote:
I guy I am seeing has an exact venus pluto square. My exact sun pluto conjunction falls on his pluto thus squaring his venus exactly. His venus is in Cappy. He is extremely sexually aggressive. Almost scary. His sun is in Sag with moon and asc in Scorpio. Is this due to the venus pluto square?
Could be that and/or it maybe has to do with his Draconic Mars/Jupiter in Aries (loosely) conjuncting your Dr Venus in Aries. So sexual stuff happening in Aries, like someone else mentioned before... Also his Dr Mars in Aries is squaring your Dr Mars/Uranus in Cancer. ------------------
Asc: Scorpio Sun: Leo
Moon: Taurus IP: Logged |
darkdreamer
Knowflake Posts: 3991
From: Germany
Registered: Aug 2006
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posted September 08, 2008 12:15 PM
I`d say the Venus-Pluto-square alone doesn`t make your sexually aggressive (throw in some Aries or Mars-placements here).I have Venus square Pluto and I definitely am not like that. And it`s a very dominant square as it spans from 1st to 10th house. IP: Logged |
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