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Topic: Need help determining who I am more compatible with.... Help
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aquarisweirdo
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: philadelphia, pa, usa
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 10, 2008 12:20 AM
 
I have no idea with which two of these gentlemen I am most compatible with... any insights? I am the outside person in red.  
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 10, 2008 04:32 AM
Dump both of them and run away with me. Your Moon/Venus/Mars in Pisces is Opposite my Moon/Pluto, and I am partial to Aqua weirdos. At first glance Bachelor Number 1 seems more like you with a smiliar condensed chart. All your planets fit into one half of the sky. His Scorpio Sun Trines your passionate Pisces Venus/Mars, creating an inherent harmony in your relationship that helps with the less harmonious interaction it makes with his Moon. I cheated for Moon Square Neptune, but if you don't know this synastry site, check it out. I really like it. http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/moonsynastryaspects.htm
quote:
Moon square Neptune:
What does it mean to your relationship when your Moon is square with your partner’s Neptune? Your romantic relationship can feel confusing when you attempt to nurture your romantic partner. You find him/her inspiringly illusive and mysteriously attractive but you have an underlying intuition that all is not quite the way it seems. You never feel certain of where you stand today, will stand tomorrow, or what intentions lie beneath his/her changeable surface, yet you feel a powerful spiritual connection. If your romantic partner’s Moon is square your Neptune, he/she feels emotionally sensitive to your moods and whims. He/she is so tuned in to your energies, including your imaginative and creative energies, that your partner may find it hard to distinguish where he/she stops and you begin. The spiritual takes precedence over the physical and you both will be challenged to accept and letthings take their natural course.
Bachelor Number 2 has Saturn opposing your Pisces stellium. That pulls in the reins on your passionate and romantic tendencies. Now that isn't necessarily bad, maybe it offers a channelling of energies that is helpful, and if you engage on any artistic activities together it could provide structure. But it could also be a real drag, and ultimately divisive. Sun Square Pluto is also a challenging aspect suggesting power struggles, to be honest it is a bit of stinker. It's workable, but not my favourite. Mercury opposite Mercury does not help communication. I'm going to pick Bachelor Number 1.
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koiflower
Knowflake Posts: 1258
From: Australia
Registered: Jun 2008
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posted September 10, 2008 06:32 AM
Me too. Purely for that Venus conjunct Pluto for SHEER attraction!!!!!!!!!IP: Logged |
aquarisweirdo
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: philadelphia, pa, usa
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 10, 2008 09:02 AM
Wow! Thank you so much. It's so funny. I was with #2 for 3.5 years and although there was a lot of love we just did not at all live on the same planet. He thought I was too emotional to compassionate. He would call me sybil because of my intensity. #1 is a totally new relationship but its ridiculous how similar we are in our sensibilities although I'm a bit meaner than he is. Thank you for your insights. Is there anything in there that is an indication of stability? IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 10, 2008 05:12 PM
His Saturn is Trine your Moon. Here Saturn is more supportive than restrictive. This is an emotional stabiliser, it's understanding. Saturn is in Scorpio, a water sign that understands emotions. quote:
Moon trine Saturn
This comparative combination is helpful for cooperation in serious responsibilities, business matters, and domestic affairs. It is not an indicator of romantic attractions, but it certainly improves the durability of a relationship by conferring a practical, responsible approach to everyday issues and problems. You may tend to rely on each other for security or stability. Saturn tends to be the restraining or disciplining influence in the relationship.
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html#Moon%20trine I've got Moon Trine Saturn on my natal chart, btw. Best thing I've got going. Sense and sanity. IP: Logged |
Kick It
Knowflake Posts: 1032
From: Leeds
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 10, 2008 09:04 PM
With the 1st one, you have your DC ruler conjunct his DC ruler. That seems excellent for a long term relationship at least.IP: Logged |
LadyNeptune
Knowflake Posts: 419
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Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 10, 2008 10:26 PM
I say 1, too. I like his planets in your 7th and his jupiter in your 10th. And what everyone else said, too. IP: Logged |
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