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Topic: Gemini, Contradictory behavior w/ a Cancer???
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DainBramaged
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posted September 11, 2008 03:00 PM
  
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blue moon
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posted September 11, 2008 03:05 PM
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Love
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posted September 11, 2008 07:21 PM
<<< I make him feel uncomfortable because when I act that way I represent a way of feeling and behaving in him that he totally rejects and hates in himself.>>><<< And, as I've gotten to know him better, Ive found that when I am myself and am feling confident he responds extremely sweetly to me and is affectionate. >>> I think you've hit the nail on the head here. Everyone who triggers us is our mirror in some way. If you have karma together (and it sounds like you certainly do, although there are other indicators of that in a chart) then it's possible that part of the lesson is to be found in these mutual responses to one another. Just turn it around and see how he may be experiencing you in the same way you experience him. Continue to be conscious of how you are acting as a mirror for one another. Continue to look at the stuff that bothers you about him and then bring it back to yourself. <<< But if it turns out that he develops a crush on me one day, I may just start seeing him differently, simply because of the way He starts seeing Me. Get me? >>> This statement can be directly linked to having a composite Sun in Cancer. Being very Cancerian myself (Sun and Venus in Cancer, Mars in the 4th and ruler of the 4th being my Sun conjuncting my Venus) I understand this energy very well. Cancers feel safest being vulnerable once they know for sure that the other person likes/loves/wants/needs them. Again, your energy when together may be reflecting that desire to wait for assurance from the other before opening up. IP: Logged |
DainBramaged
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posted September 12, 2008 03:08 AM
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blue moon
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posted September 12, 2008 05:00 AM
Maybe he acts that way because he doesn't feel comfortable when you are acting shy and insecure. Hate to say but I know men in their 60s who do the pick on you when they like you thing. You might be over-estimating his emotional maturity. But like you say, you know him I don't. The shirt incident is quite revealing though. quote:
Cancers feel safest being vulnerable once they know for sure that the other person likes/loves/wants/needs them.
Is that an exclusively Cancerian trait? It sounds quite fitting for the human condition in general. He could feel the same way, which would explain everything. IP: Logged |
annaf
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posted September 12, 2008 05:39 AM
I dont think it is unusual to feel uncomfortable around very shy/insecure/nervous people. If he has the slightest bit of sensitivity he'll just pick up on your nervous vibes and mirror them back to you. I'm quite sensitive and my behaviour often tends to reflect the moods/behaviour of the people I'm interacting with. If someone is quite insecure around me I just feel uncomfortable, the interaction doesnt have a natural flow. But I really cant generalise, some shy people I just feel very maternal around, others just seem so awkward communicating, I feel awkward as well. From an astrological viewpoint the dynamics between you sound like a typical 'saturn'situation, making everything very rigid. IP: Logged |
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