posted September 16, 2008 04:39 PM         

Anyone know someone with stong placments in these two or similarly fickle signs?

I know a man who is Libra sun with a Gemini moon (to scrape the surface there)!

He is... well, changeable in his attitude (at least towards me..) but this has only just become apparent.

Just wondering if any of you Libras or Gem moons (or those of you close to some) could let me know how often this change in mood/opinion can last?
And what's the deal??
And any other information???

My bucket load of seady Capricorn and impatient Aries moon can't take it much more!

posted September 16, 2008 04:53 PM         

A catch phrase I use often when talking to my mother (very patiently). With her SUN/MERC/PLUTO conjunction in LEO, she is always ready to change her mind when a stray fact heads her way that might alter her objective perception.

And suprises, she loves them! Turn up unannounced and take her out for the day without telling her what you have organised. She'll love it! She'll be so grateful!

posted September 16, 2008 05:02 PM         

The man in question has
Libra sun, Gemini Moon, Virgo Mercury, Leo Venus, Leo Mars and Leo Ascendant. Does that paint a better picture?

posted September 16, 2008 05:07 PM         

Libras, of course, only seem fickle because they weigh out decisions and are never sure that they made the right one. They can see both sides to every situation and so they are never quite sure.

posted September 16, 2008 05:20 PM         

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showing people you like them then not responding to contact= bad

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posted September 16, 2008 05:22 PM         

I guess I managed his instability pretty well, our friendship lasted for some time, then he started not liking me anymore- like he usually does with people.. And I love challenges- I have Aries moon and Scorpio sun- so I was rather upset when it was over. Our friendship was based on 'Not caring about anyone, even each other, but let's get together when there's some exciting event and hang out afterwards as well.' Also 'Noone is cool other than us, so let's ask each other for advice.'

He probably would have described me as 'The girl who just didn't sleep with me despite all my attempts to get closer.' Especially when you start counting the 1793 girlfriends he has had.

He called me a couple of times after a year or so like nothing had happened. But naa, I've had enough of him.

Also he based his opinions about people on other people's opinions about those people. Which I always hated.

posted September 16, 2008 05:23 PM         

As for Gem moons... yes, all humans can be fickle, but you would hardly expect a Taurus moon so buy you flowers one day then ignore you the next (without reason), whereas I wouldn't be a surprised if a Gemini moon did.

I mean, I'm Aries moon and when we like people we usually make it clear in an I'm-going-to-keep-persisting-until-you-realise-I'm-the-love-of-your-life way. And then feel burning embarrassment and anger when they don't.

posted September 16, 2008 05:29 PM         

I suppose I should make something possibly relevant clear..?

He is my mum's work colleague. Right now they're sitting opposite from each other.
She knows we've had a sort of kiss on every possible occassion thing going on. She even knows I have slept next to him at someone's house.

Oh, btw, he's not my mum's age! haha thought I should clear that up. He's 24, I'm 18.

Anyway, yeah, seeing how awkward this is now, as he didn't come to my birthday party and didn't even say whether he could or not, after we had been corresponding happily for a fair bit.

So, my mum texts his friend to tell him to pass on what bad manners he has.......

posted September 17, 2008 10:35 AM         

For sure , needs someone to stear him but here again , i believe he might have problems in power sharing owning to his own inscurities .
i also know some one with gem sun and libra moon , somewhat same situation . i need someone to anchor them .

posted September 17, 2008 10:46 AM         

I'm Gemini Sun (24˚ ), Libra Moon (14˚ ), and Gemini Mercury (25˚ ).

What is it that you need to know my friend?

(rest of my placements are in my sig)

posted September 17, 2008 10:47 AM         

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posted September 17, 2008 10:53 AM         

My longest relationship was with a very stable tough skinned Virgo, who could brush off my monthly declarations of, "I want to break up, this isn't working for me"! He would wait patiently until I came to my senses, (which was about a few hours) and all was happy again!

posted September 17, 2008 10:58 AM         

If your guy is constantly changing his mind, its probably because something is adding up logically (since we are logical people more than emotional). He needs 1 + 1 to equal 2 all the time. If 1 + 1 is equaling 3 or something else, then we start analyzing everything to better our understanding of the situation.

Just remember, what may seem like a fickle back and forth mentality is just him seeing all sides of the situation and trying to figure out the best solution.

posted September 17, 2008 11:18 AM         

Now in love, thats a different story. Also, We are natural humanists. We see the good in people right off the bat more than we see the negative in people (though we can spot the negative just as fast as we can spot the positive). If you suspect he is being friendly with people at first and pulling back later, ask him what he thinks or feels about them. I bet you he will tell you he has a better idea of what type of person/people they are.