posted September 16, 2008 06:36 PM         

Can you help in their chart interpretation?

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synastry:
Girl (inner)
Boy (outer)

Composite:

posted October 13, 2008 11:44 AM         

The girl's inside? She has Moon in Aries.
Square Saturn in Cancer. There's the trust issues written on the chart:

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Moon square Saturn:
What does it mean to your relationship when your Moon is square with your partner’s Saturn? You are very sensitive to your romantic partner’s criticism, often feeling discomfort, fear, and insecurity with your relationship. This forces you to become withdrawn and fend for yourself. If your partner’s Moon is square to your Saturn, you can feel challenged by your partner’s emotional response to your advice and offered support. He/she will withdraw in the face of difficulty.

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Two people with Moon in Aries. That's something strong in common. Where his Saturn Squares her Moon, his Moon opposes her Uranus, which shakes things up.

Mars Opposite Pluto is very intense, but carries the possibility of dredging up things that maybe should be left to rest. But, hard to say, it could be this is what is needed here ~ Mars is the inside person, that's the girl, right?

It seems to me like much as he might try to keep things steady, she really is a dramatic force in his life.

posted October 13, 2008 12:38 PM         

Yes, you are right... even though it is very "new" relationship it is somewhat intense.
1. It started fast (actually out of nowhere)
2. It is progressing fast
3. The girl wonders "Does she need to stay in a relationship?"
Even though she fells very much attracted (physically and emotionally) to a guy.

posted October 13, 2008 06:36 PM         

Boy's and girl's respective Moons are conjunct the other's Chiron ... deep (maybe buried) emotional wounds are triggered in both of them. For the girl this occurs in her 4th house, the "base" of her personality. For the boy it occurs in his 7th house of meeting people, communicate with them (and maybe: fall in love)

Girl's Sun, Juno and Venus are conjunct in her 3rd house: So all matters of love and relationship are a very personal topic for her, she takes these matters to her heart and maybe, to some degree, is defining herself through her relationships. Communication plays a decisive role for her in realtionships, she seeks deep, cordial understanding with her partner, flawless communication 3rd house: Her nearer surroundings/friends/relatives/colleagues sort of influence her in this regard - or she seeks their advice on these matters. His BM Lilith closely conjunct her Sun/Venus/Juno - beware of a mutual demonization. Projection overload, much illusions possible - taboo areas of the soul/mind might be triggered - not easy to handle, intense. They both might "overrate" the other in a way ...

His Mars cj. Mercury in her 12th house - squaring her Venus in 3rd house: She may feel "intruded" by him, he might act too rash and sort of aggressive (even if he doesn't mean bad), she might feel "run over by a truck" by him, uncomfortbale when he addresses her, she might feel threatened and finds it very hard to trust him, he comes across in a way that triggers her deep seating fears. Some erotic fascination might grow from that tension - but all in all his style of approaching her is way too aggressive for her to feel calm and self-secure. (She might be sensitive to all kinds of "stalking" and may be very touchy in this regard ... )

His Sun cj. her Neptune: Who's fooling whom? Who falls prey to the other's (or his/her own) illusions?

Her Moon trine his Venus: Some deep appreciation - he might see some female ideal in her, the perfect woman - she might feel nurtured by his affection for her.

Interesting, but not an "easy" Synastry. She is way more sensitive than he is - at least that's how she might feel in this pairing.

posted October 14, 2008 09:20 AM         

You are right she is way too sensitive.
He.... I do not know him well. But it seems he truly likes her. But I could see how she is pulling away from him. He does not "belong" to a certain "mold" of men she used to date.
1. He is younger (5 years)
2. He is way too talkative ) Even though she had a vast experience of dating Saggies this one beat all of them in a "talk" department. hehehe
You are right, even though there is a definite connection and physical chemistry ( how she/he look at each other, their body language) She wonders "is he truly likes her... or he is just being "nice" "
It is funny.... because she has never had this before. She was sure of herself in other relationships. But this one .... hmmm