posted September 21, 2008 10:44 AM         

First of all this is not true.
Biggest love of my love has a venus in gemini.He used to treat me wonderful,he was so romantic and warm.We broke up because we live in different countries.

posted September 21, 2008 02:43 PM         

Venus opposition saturn: you have little confidence. Depending on other aspects in your chart, you may strongly project this lack of confidence, which can scare off potential boyfriends. This aspect, unfortunately, puts a strain on relationships. The key is to try to maintain an upbeat attitude. You are just as good as everyone else and just as talented, so there's no reason to doubt yourself!

Venus opposition uranus: you are torn between being completely committed to a relationship and wanting to leave a relationship. You need independence, but sometimes this independence can make you end a relationship very abruptly. The key is to find a balance between being in a relationship and maintaining your identity.

posted September 22, 2008 12:35 AM         

i know a leo sun/gemini venus/aries mars. we had a summer fling (both camp counselors together), but on the most part he was very distant. he did believe that sex made friendships stronger but that love doesn't exist in the world. he was a sag moon too, so i've often wondered why he seemed so cold. i mean - he was fun to be around but he wasn't exactly the person you go to for a heart to heart. (lol, reading what i just wrote makes me wonder why the fck i even involved myself with him. que sera sera) perhaps its the cap asc, who knows. at this point i might as well just post his whole chart. we're not really close anymore now that we're back at our respective cities, but we're amiable. i doubt i'll see him again, and i'm 10000% sure that he's slept with a ton of his female friends when he got back home because, well, he told me. i know this may read as me kinda hating him, but i gotta keep it real. he's kinda... i dunno... unfeeling at times. i'm not saying he's like this because of his gemini venus, but he's the only guy i've "been with" who has gemini venus. also, to stay on topic, he is ALWAYS single. But a lot of things contribute to that.

as for myself, i have gemini venus in the 9th house. it's my chart ruler too, but i'm not completely aware of how it manifests. i have a keen interest in foreign languages and literature (comparative literature major, woot woot) and i'm far better with the written word than oral communication. my love life is a normal one, although i've been dating casually not because i like it but because i'm moving out of the country for a teaching internship... can you say VENUS IN THE 9TH? otherwise, in any other situation, i usually cut men off right when i know we'll cross the line between just friendship and courtship. often my lovers were once my friend, but not often do i let a friend become a lover... and i never date more than one guy. i did for a short while when i was 18, but nowadays i only have one reserved spot when it comes to romance. it doesn't matter if it's just a short fling or a deep meaningful relationship, i only concentrate on one guy.

my romances end pretty quick, though, so some may perceive me as date crazy which is definitely not the case. i've had more ex-bosses than ex-boyfriends. i just know how to end something amicably, renew myself, and pick up quickly and go. maybe it's the whole new york lifestyle, but it's just the way it is for me. gotta keep going.

hmmm, my venus is conjunct mercury too. not sure how that manifests either. i do love to write. i have a soft spot for filmmakers. not so much actors, but directors and screenwriters i love. who knows why.

posted September 23, 2008 09:36 AM         

Unfortunately I find that most guys expect me to have all the initiative in the "relationship" which probably acounts for why things are always slow to get off the ground or everything becomes a game (arrrgh!): I'm a cancer sun, I just *can't* initiate things...BIG fear of rejection. LMAO

I do find that I happen to attract and (am verrrry attracted to) Gemini men, and not so much Aries men...but I do still like athletic or "active" guys. *shrugs*

posted September 23, 2008 02:30 PM         

I have a 3rd house Venus (does that count)Opposite Saturn & Square Uranus & I've never been in a relationship (Im in my early 30s) & cant envisage myself in one. Romance seems to be an alien concept to me.

posted September 24, 2008 08:35 AM         

It is hella annoying though, but I never thought that guys fear rejection more considering its been proven that they don't overanalyze as much as we do. Man, it does not help that I have a virgo moon and mars in the 3rd ontop of this gemini venus. GAAAAH, too much mercury!