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Topic: Venus in Libra
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SparklingSag
Knowflake Posts: 630
From: Kent
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 21, 2008 12:52 PM
 
Hey folks,am beginning to not like my venus (and mars) in libra. It makes me feel like my life is not complete if i dont have a boyfriend, to which my saggie sun is like, " no..its fun to be free, independent". Am feeling all angsty at the moment Sparkling IP: Logged |
Astra
Knowflake Posts: 553
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Registered: May 2007
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posted September 21, 2008 02:35 PM
I know it's tough, SparklingSag, but all you have to do is find someone who you not only like, but will also give you space. Avoid people with strong Cancer influences. I think you'd be happy with someone who has strong Aries or Aquarian influences since these are two very independent signs. IP: Logged |
venusmars
Knowflake Posts: 287
From:
Registered: May 2008
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posted September 21, 2008 02:59 PM
I know what you mean. I also have venus marsconjunction in libra with a saggi moon. 
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PlutoLove
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted September 21, 2008 06:18 PM
Hi, I also have Venus in Libra (opposing my Mars in Aries) and I, too, often feel that I need an SO to feel complete. My Venus, squares my Neptune fairly tightly, intensifying this feeling. Though I am a scorpio sun I am fiercely independent so I really understand how you're feeling. But no need to fret, you must always remind yourself that no one can make you complete - but you. Just relax, and enjoy life..and you're young ( like me). You have plenty of time to settle down with someone, so for now, just have fun! ( just not TOO much - don't want to regret anything here, lol) IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 21, 2008 06:43 PM
My ex who i was with for years was a libra with venus mercury and every other planet in there and he was a sag rising and had mars and neptune in first. NOW im a cancerian and we had the best relationship i dont think all cancers are clingy. We master is by the time were older, his moon was in scorpio trine my sun and mercury and mars. I think when you havent found the right person you get bored with them and you become restless ------------------
Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Moderator Posts: 7410
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted September 21, 2008 06:45 PM
Sun, Venus, Saturn, Neptune in Libra here.....
For me, it's less a feeling of "incompleteness" than a desire to have someone special to SHARE life with -- to engage in emotional, physical, mental and spiritual give and take.....
I'm a complete, whole person, and I like who I am. I'm proud that I've taken care of myself for many years. But I wish to explore the depths of another complete, whole person -- and finding that special man has not proved easy.....
I've Uranus sq Sun so I get you Saggie-influenced natives  -- a certain amount of personal freedom is essential.IP: Logged |
missneptune
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Feb 2006
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posted September 21, 2008 06:56 PM
I can relate Sparkling Sag, I have Sagittarius ascendant which like you said, always makes me feel that I don't give a **** if I'm single. But there is this internal feeling I have, which keeps telling me that I really want to find someone. I suppose this could be my Pisces moon, But I've also got Gemini Venus, an air sign like your Libra venus, and Aries Mars also. What's your sun sign?------------------
Sun - Leo
Moon - Pisces
Ascendant - Sagittarius IP: Logged |
missneptune
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: Portland, OR, USA
Registered: Feb 2006
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posted September 21, 2008 06:58 PM
what I meant to say is what's your ascendant, Sparkling Sag? IP: Logged |
Dervish
Knowflake Posts: 463
From: California
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted September 21, 2008 09:10 PM
I have a Venus (and Sun) in Libra (along with other planets), and I can relate. (Perhaps because I also have a Moon & Mars in Sag?) However, I'm recovering from a really bad breakup, but yesterday was one of the best days I've had in a long, long while, as I spent it with a really good friend. Just because we're not romantically involved didn't diminish any enjoyment I got at all. IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
Knowflake Posts: 630
From: Kent
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 22, 2008 08:08 AM
Hey everyone,thanks for your replies...it has cheered me up! Miss Neptune - I have a cappie Asc/Leo moon/Sag sun/libra venus and mars. I've been attracted to libra and leo men. My experiences with scorpios made me head for the hills! But i also have my leo moon to contend with, lots of fire! But my libra venus and mars is very charming, friendly and sociable. But yes, having both love planets in it is a double whammy. But i was also wondering about the desc? mine would be cancer...some part of me likes softness (I feel quite hard a lot of the time)in a man. anyways, thanks for your supportive comments, made me feel less alone! Sparkling IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
Knowflake Posts: 630
From: Kent
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 23, 2008 06:34 AM
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deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted September 23, 2008 07:43 AM
I have Venus and Mars in Libra, sharing the 5th house with Uranus and Pluto. I need to have a mental connection with my partner. Having Venus in Libra (and all that Venus in my chart) makes me a sucker for "pretty boys", unfortunately, most of the time they don't have much to offer in the mental connection department.  My sun and moon are in Scorpio, which means I need intensity and depth in a relationshhip. I need to be with someone who is my equal, who I have respect and admiration for (puts me in my right place) AND who will not allow me to treat him as a doormat. All in all, I need to be in a relationship or in the pursuit of one. I think I am okay with a long distance relationship (or any arrangement that does not stifle my need for freedom), but of course the relationship has to be built on a good foundation first. My big problem is how to reconcile my need for a relationship and my need for freedom. My bigger problem is that my Libra placements make me indecisive about love matters. And this contradicts my Scorpion need for a relationship right here right now on an all-or-nothing arrangement. I am too much to handle. I wouldn't want to have a relationship with someone like me. Really.  ------------------
Sun:Scorpio, Moon:Scorpio, Asc:Gemini IP: Logged |
SparklingSag
Knowflake Posts: 630
From: Kent
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 29, 2008 02:33 PM
okay folks,was told on the weekend that i'm a pushover! i was offended ...very much so since my fiery nature is not in any way a pushover. It was my cappie sun/saggie moon/asc guy that said it though! he was winding me up...but venus in libra does like harmony and i was tired so didnt want to argue over something silly so i agreed with what he said. but yeah, i dont want to seem like a pushover... Sparkling IP: Logged |
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