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Topic: virgo just crushed aries heart...
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etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 06:55 AM
 
well it happened, mr virgo broke the news to me that in his words...
"as you see i have put some space between us. everything has been so quick between us and thats made me scared. I dont want to hurt you because you are so kind with me and as well you're not well at the moment (signed off work ill)
i dont want you to waste time with me who doesnt know what he wants. im not ready for the moment to give any more. Im sorry to do this but i prefer to say it now rather than to hide it."so there you go, it hurts soooo much.... from i love you so deeply to this in 4 days... virgo men expert at U turns....????? IP: Logged |
writesomething
Knowflake Posts: 2376
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted September 25, 2008 06:57 AM
if he broke up with you during the mercury retrograde, theres a chance this isnt the end with you guys. google: mercury retrograde.
virgos are ruled by mercury, so these transits effect virgos more.IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 07:14 AM
yes it was this morning, about 2 hours ago... but ive felt it coming for 10 days now, would that still make sense??melanie IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 09:29 AM
ive just checked his chart against the transit for today and mercury is conjunct his venus in 4th but at 5.22deg a so not sure if that counts... other transits today to his chart
transiting venus is conj natal my name astroid 2a and conj n jupiter 0a
tr pluto conj n eros 2a
tr nn and chiron exact trine his n moon and n venus
tr lilith conj n vertex
tr juno conj n vertex
tr eros conj n uranus
tr my name asteroid conj n asc
dont know how to play this one... we really did/do have something and i cant believe todays turnup....
any more advice anyone?, please.....
sad melanie IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted September 25, 2008 10:02 AM
quote:
everything has been so quick between us and thats made me scared.
Has it really been "so quick"? I think "speed" is a Virgo-Aries problem. Virgo is slow in love, even if there is great emotional or sexual connection to begin with. He is an earth sign after all. IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 10:13 AM
well i guess it depends on your definition of quick, obviously, we met online 13th july, met in person 2 august, have met several times since (we live far apart) spoke on phone evry night, texts frequently each day, he told me he loved me quite quickly ie first 3 or four weeks but i felt the same so it didnt feel quick, just right... we clicked emotionally before we even had met physically, it just felt *right* i started to feel the pulling away vaguely about 10 days ago, although he was still just as loving and then this week its just ground to a halt culminating in todays text... confused and sad melanie IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted September 25, 2008 10:26 AM
I think that's quick.  Did you have a fight or misunderstanding? There must have been something that triggered his behavior. IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 10:42 AM
as far as i can see there was nothing, certainly no arguments, we spent the weekend together 13th and 14 sept with my daughter there, week following he was still lovey dovey, this weekend ok but not so much (we didnt see each other) then since the start of the week bof pulling away, then todays text...IP: Logged |
deuxantares
Knowflake Posts: 1197
From: Meet Me in Sofia
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted September 25, 2008 11:34 AM
I'm sorry I don't have an answer. All I know is that Virgo guys are one of the zodiac's astronauts. They like going on "space missions".  (Wait, I think all men could very well be astronauts).Just respect his decision. Like what Writesomething said, this could all be sorted out after the Merc retro. IP: Logged |
tatyh
Knowflake Posts: 31
From:
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted September 25, 2008 06:06 PM
Oh my oh my. I just got dumped by a virgo man and he sounds just like yours! It's the whole, "I'm not right for you" crap. I'm a gemini by the way. He obviously had interest in other girls as he kept staring at them, everytime we drove around, went some place, etc. He constantly told me that he could find someone else. I got mad a couple of times about how he says things like that because it makes me feel uncomfortable and also makes me feel like I have to do things I don't want to do to keep him. He dumps me every time I get mad and gives me the "I don't make you happy speech". We usually got back together by my asking, but this time he ran off to Antigua for medical school so there's no chance of us getting back together. Can you imagine what will go on in his mind when he becomes a doctor? Thinking back, I feel a little ashamed to have asked for him back as I feel a little used. Just wanted to post this because I feel your pain. I don't know how you can handle a situation like this but just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. Hope you feel better. IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 06:18 PM
thanks for that tatyh its a bit of a bummer thats for sure.... this guy one the surface at least was totally into me, now he says hes asked himself so many questions he doesnt know where his heart is (sorry if it sounds a bit weird, hes french and so im translating what he said) I know where mine is... in my boots! oh well tomorrow is another day for this arian! damn my wishy washy lovey dovey pisces venus grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr IP: Logged |
augentier
Knowflake Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 07:01 PM
etoile - *hugs* i know exactly how you feel...this summer i fell hard for someone who, on the surface, was so very into me and apparently loved me and wanted so badly to be with me..but after i showed my feelings for him, he turned cold..i dont know exactly what happened but he lost the loving feeling for me. now he barely talks to me..sometimes these things happen, and it's hard to deal with..my best advice is to be patient and have hope that he will come around but dont keep your heart stuck on him..allow yourself to be open to others, too..because you don't know if you're wasting your time or not. good luck to you! and there are always others who love you IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 07:59 PM
awww thank you for that augentier and in fact everyone for your love...my jury is out on my virgo... time will tell whats what. a calmer melanie IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 699
From: Bay Area, California, USA
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted September 26, 2008 01:46 PM
Sorry. I know it must hurt.But be grateful he is being honest with you instead of playing with your feelings and breaking your heart later. Better now than later after you would have invested more time and money and emotions in the relationship. IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 26, 2008 02:39 PM
my head knows youre right...my heart just screams why?????????? its not faaaaaaaaiiiiiir! just like a 6 year old whos lost her favourite teddy bear... IP: Logged |
Motherkonfessor
Knowflake Posts: 1170
From:
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted September 26, 2008 03:43 PM
Maybe its a Virgo/Mercury Rx thing right now.I am a Virgo woman, but just had the "I think we should split up" conversation with the boy last night. Maybe we (as in we Virgos) need some space right now to REview and REflect on our lives. Thanks, Mercury.... IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 26, 2008 04:48 PM
sorry to hear your having probs as well motherkonfessor... could the effect of merc rx ing start being felt say 2 weeks ago?? merc rx was transiting his venus yesterday conjunct 5.22 deg applying.... mel IP: Logged |
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