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Topic: My Imaginary Relationship
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stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 609
From: TX. USA
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 03:47 PM
 
I had the strangest time with this guy for roughly two weeks during the evac. We slept in the same room. There was so much going on between us intuitively and telepathically. I've experienced things like this before but not to this degree. Everyone else, our friends who shared our room seemed completely oblivious and had no idea. I was so frustrated and started to think I'd imagined the whole thing when he said something to me under his breath as he was walking past so I know I didn't dream it. He said "you don't like me". From the beginning he would act like he was interested in me and then he wasn't. I'd catch him looking at me, listening in on my conmversations, etc. But when I'd talk to him he would completely ignore me or say something sarcastic. Then the day I had to leave he became really realy friendly. Turns out I had to go back and stay for a few more days but it was the same as before. Then somebody else showed up and he started to talk when she and this other guy were there. He'd address her while looking at me. He even asked us to go out with them that night but I felt really shy at the time. Anyway to make a long story short,it started the whole cycle all over again. I had to come home yesterday. What do you see here? Is he just really shy or playing games or both? Do you see this psychic non-verbal thing we had going?
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blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 04:40 PM
I see.... your Venus/Mars in Cancer conjunct sitting on the Saturn end of his Saturn/Pluto Square. That's got the potential to dredge up some deep emotions. Is his time of birth accurate? If so his Moon is Trine your Virgo stellium ~ which includes Mercury and Pluto. So if you are picking up on some instinctive way that you are in tune you might not be wrong. It looks like his Neptune is outside of the Square to Mercury. His Moon might be Opposite your Neptune, though. http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/moonsynastryaspects.htm quote:
Moon opposition Neptune:
What does it mean to your relationship when your Moon is in opposition with your partner’s Neptune? Your partner wants you to fit his/her romantic ideal which makes it difficult for you to express your true feelings. If your partner’s Moon is in opposition to your Neptune, he/she doesn’t fit your idealization of your romantic expectations. Idealism, fantasy, and imagination permeate the atmosphere between you and your desire leads you to believe what you want to believe. Your souls are spiritually linked, you have two approaches to romance and relationship and this is one of the reasons you are together.
Do you have a natal T-Square with Sun/Jupiter/Saturn? If so, he is triggering that off with his Sun sitting on the Saturn end. He might see you as repressive in some way, maybe that might explain the 'you don't like me' line. Or perhaps he is wary of the heaviness of the relationship. There is a potential for learning here, but probably at a price.
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Geocosmic Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 994
From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 04:47 PM
Yes, his Neptune square your Mercury. I'm thinking that the reason you didn't quite like each other is your Saturn conjunct his Sun, it's as if it didn't allow his Aquarius wild side to shine. Not that he's wild, but his core life energies were restricted around you.Also, his Saturn is conjunct your Venus-Mars conjunction. It's not so much that Venus' social nature can be frozen by Saturn, but Saturn on Mars doesn't really feel good. He may have been right that you both didn't like each other, you blocked or frightened each other somehow, maybe even tried to discipline each other or something. I hope everything was alright for you when you got home. I was actually thinking about you yesterday and now that you wrote today it reminded me that you were in evacuation mode. Geocosmic Valentine ------------------
"Everybody is a star!"
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Geocosmic Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 994
From: New York, NY
Registered: Sep 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 04:50 PM
It's fascinating that Blue Moon and I picked up on different patterns in your charts to reach the same conclusion. It just goes to show you that the chart echoes and repeats itself in many different ways, like an artist shading in certain areas of a painting.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 609
From: TX. USA
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 05:42 PM
I think it's a fascinating chart with all the pluto/moon/mars/venus at work. We both have saturn in the 8th retrograde. I don't know about the T-square.
It's just amazing that ALL this was going on unspoken. I got the feeling that he liked me. His interactive chart says he is extremely shy when he first meets someone. But when he would act the way he did I'd get pi-sed off and resentful and I started telling him off psychically. LOL. Then I progressed to saying it so that only we could hear it. I was sitting at the computer and he was two feet away with his nose in a book and I made a remark about Clay Aiken coming out. He completely ignored me and didn't acknowledge me at all. That's when I said "well, screw you". That was what finally got a rise out of him a few minutes later when he said I didn't like him. I just wonder what would've happened had I stayed longer or came out more openly and actually said something straight on.
Thanks for thinking of me, Geo. I got home fine but I think I'm taking a financial hit cuz it looks like FEMA and the school is going to screw us raw on reimbursing the $80 night motel.
I met another guy there. A Leo. The sweetest guy I've ever met. Literally. I'm going to post his chart shortly. I think I will see him again.  I really had good time all in all and met some cool people. The girl has turned out to be a dear friend already. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 609
From: TX. USA
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 07:33 PM
His natal. I think the Mars in Cap is what attracted him. It really shows. I guessed before I did his chart.  IP: Logged |
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