posted September 30, 2008 08:26 PM         

His Saturn (in his 3rd) cj. your NN in your 2nd house - classical interpretation would be something like: He carries valuable lessons for you to learn, he might express these in a rather stern, seemlingly distant or strict way ... his communication style tends to be serious and rather dry - but it can give you some hints on your personal evolvement (dealing with your own self-worth, affecting it one way or another). Not necessarily a comfortable feeling deriving from this strong connection betw. Saturn and NN ... but: May be valuable one day in retrospect.

His Sun (in his 4th) cj your BM Lilith (in your 3rd) - Pheewwww. I am sorry, but from a very personal and very hurting experience I must say: Beware. Power struggles overload. Man/Sun tends to feel offended or aggravated by woman/Lillith, woman feels intimiated and at the same time magically drawn to man. Underhanded games, dark, brooding, exhausting - definitely some "ghosts in closets" will be awakened. Good luck with this one! It ended miserably in my case. I was BM Lilith as well ... and I guess I was more "obsessed" than he was. His Sun shed a light on my deepest insecurities and fears - I was able to face these and feel my own strength - but only for the price of leaving him - and deriving or: re-gaining my personal power from that again.

Thre outer planets are conjunct, due to your close birthdays ... Jup. cj. Jup - and some similar Jupiter-squares in your respective natal charts .. bouncing enthusiasm and a tendency to slightly "overdo" it, haha - reinforcing this tendency in each other. Also your Plutos and Uranusses conjunct: You experience upheavals and revolutions at a similar time. For you this occurs in your 7th house - outer influences (from your partners) trigger these. For him, it's in his 8th - more personal, hidden, deep emotions involved.

Your Moons aspect each other nicely.

Venus square Venus in Synastry: Strong attraction and repulsion at the same time.

Your Saturn square his ASC: He might feel stifled or critized by you easily, in his personal expression. Alos his Sun square your ASC: You might feel run over and surpressed by his strong ego.

Sun square Mercury - both ways (double whammy): Communication quite stressful and aggressive - but may be inspiring.

First impression seems: Fiery, probably exhausting, maybe short lasting hot affair, much, much temper, seldom a quiet moment - but might have long lasting (internal/mental) effects on both of you ...

Please - take all of this with a grain of salt. Have I been too influenced by your short sketch of this story...? ;-) It DOES look stressful to me, indeed. Sorry. ;-) As if ... emotionally you COULD be very close. But your respective modes of expressing yourselves ... is quite contradictory... verbally, mentally, aesthetically and as far as ego-drives go.

posted September 30, 2008 08:48 PM         

I had that too... bleeding nightmare... pain, hurt and lots of karmic stuff.

posted September 30, 2008 09:03 PM         

Venus-Mars aspects are too intense!
And so many aspects between each other's personal planets and Lilith!
Lots lots lots of heat there!!!
And no doubt you can "sense" him so easily..there are so many aspects between his personal planets and your ASC, that "head over heels" would be the best words to express your state...
But Saturn aspects are so harsh ...
You might "woohoo" together, but you'd better not rely on him for more ...
He can hurt you easily and since you're a Pisces...it could be rough
So,maybe you'd better be careful with this guy ...

posted September 30, 2008 09:03 PM         

He told me in a relationship I have to have total control over a person mind body and soul..I Laughed HA well honey you got the wrong gal..LEt me tell you it has been something since we re-connected back a couple weeks ago..He and I went to highschool together and he liked me then..

As far as the Pisces thing goes I am the strongsest outspoken Pisces I know, no ******** allowed..I told him coming in the door what I Was on..We were on our Almuni website and he came on talking all this mess about women and relationships, lets just say when it was all over with by the end of that day he had taken down all that he had said and he was calling my phone and apologizing to me..

But yeah I know already not to mess with him, he sounds like a real headcase to me when we do talk..However there is this strong attraction/pull that I feel and was wondering what that was and why..

posted September 30, 2008 10:23 PM         

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Virgo again !?!?!?!?!?

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posted October 01, 2008 06:14 AM         

Trust your intuition remember?

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February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio...