posted October 05, 2008 05:30 PM         

There is so much of it - sorry in advance.
Only listing conjunct/trine/opposition within 3deg of important planets.

NATAL/NATAL
His sun conjunct my moon/venus/amor
His moon trine my pluto/destinn
His moon/mars opposes my psyche
His venus conjunct my moon/venus/saturn/NN/amor
his venus semisextile her mars
his mars semisextile her venus
His mars conjunct my mars/union
His mars trine my pluto
His Saturn opposes my moon/venus/amor
His pluto trine my moon/venus/Saturn/NN/amor
His NN square my sun/juno/karma
His chiron trine my mars/pluto/lilith/isis/union
His eros opposes my pluto
His eros trine my valentine
His psyche conjunct my psyche
His psyche trine my valentine
His lust trine my mars/pluto/isis/union
His lust opposes my valentine
His karma opposes my pluto
His karma/eros conjunct my DNA
His karma/eros trine my psyche
His valentine trine my venus
His valentine conjunct my Jupiter/amor
His union conjunct my mars/lilith/isis/union
his AC trine my eros
his AC sextile my AC
his MC trine my vertex
his IC conjunct my lust
his IC trine my sun
his MC square my sun/karma/juno

SOLSTICE/SOLSTICE
His sun conjunct my amor
his moon trine my destinn
his venus conjunct my moon/venus/Saturn/NN
his pluto trine my moon/venus/Saturn/nn
his mars/union conjunct my mars/union
his Saturn conjunct my eros
his Saturn opposes my AC
his chiron trine my mars/pluto/union
his atlantis conjunct my lust
his Aphrodite conjunct my valentine
his cupido opposes my lust
his eros/psyche trine my valentine
his amor conjnct my Aphrodite
his karma/eros conjunct my DNA
his lust opposes my valentine
his AC conjunct my Aphrodite

HIS SOLSTICE/MY NATAL
his sun/venus trine my sun
his Saturn trine my valentine
his pluto/valentine conjunct my sun/mercury
his pluto/valentine opposes my juno/karma
his NN opposes my mars/union
his DNA trine my karma/juno
his DNA conjunct my AC
his destinn trine my juno/karma
his destinn conjunct my AC
his Aphrodite trine my eros
his cupido trine my NN
his eros trine my eros
his eros opposes my AC (5)
his amor/AC opposes my destinn
(am l losing it or is that list just INSANE!!!!!!)

MY SOLSTICE/HIS NATAL
my sun trine his sun/venus
my sun conjunct his pluto/valentine
my moon trine his moon
my moon/venus/amor conjunct his IC
my mars opposes his NN
my Saturn/NN trine his moon
my juno/atlantis trine his sun/venus
my juno conjunct his pluto/valentine
my atlantis/IC conjunct his DNA/destinn
my Destinn opposes his amor
my cupido conjunct his amor
my eros trine his Aphrodite
my eros conjunct his eros
my karma opposes his valentine/pluto
my karma trine his DNA/Destinn/Saturn
my valentine conjunct his AC
My valentine trine his NN
My AC opposes his eros
My AC trines his Jupiter
My IC trines his vertex

posted October 05, 2008 05:49 PM         

DRACO/DRACO
His moon conjunct my valentine
His mars/union conjunct my lust
His NN conjunct my moon/venus/Saturn/NN/osiris/amor
His psyche opposes my lust
His lust opposes my vertex/eros
His karma conjunct my mars/Lilith/union
His valentine opposes my sun
His valentine conjunct my juno/karma
His IC conjunct my psyche
His AC trine my NN/saturn
my AC/chiron conjunct his lust/chiron
my IC conjunct his venus/sun/AC (WOW)
my AC/vertex/eros opposes his Aphrodite
my IC opposes his Neptune/Saturn/vertex

HIS DRACO/MY NATAL
Sun conjunct Aphrodite
Moon/mars trine juno/karma
Moon/mars conjunct IC
Saturn trine Saturn/NN
Pluto opposes osiris
NN opposes vertex/eros
Juno conjunct aphrodite
Destinn trine moon/Saturn/NN
Aphrodite opposes DNA
Karma conjunct sun
Karma opposes juno/karma
Valentine opposes moon/saturn/NN
Union opposes destinn
IC conjunct moon

MY DRACO/HIS NATAL
Uranus conjunct IC
Pluto trine juno
Chiron conjunct karma
Vertex opposes karma
Vertex/Eros trine moon
Vertex conjunct Lilith
Vertex conjunct IC
destinn trine sun/venus/juno/valentine
Destinn opposes his destinn
Destinn opposes his DNA
Eros opposes karma
Psyche conjunct vertex
Psyche opposes sun/juno
Psyche trine destinn
Karma trine amor
Karma opposes venus
Union conjunct juno
AC opposes Lilith
AC trine uranus
AC conjunct karma
IC conjunct amor

( i put in the trines l thought were important and left out the rest!)

posted October 05, 2008 06:03 PM         

his 1st/4th opposes my 8th

my 1st semi sextile his 5th
my 1st conjunct his 7th
my 1st quincunx his 8th
my 4th conjunct his 5th
my 4th opposes his 8th
my 7th conjunct his 5th
my 7th opposes his 8th
my 8th opposes his 1st / 4th
my 8th quincunx his 5th
my 8th trine his 7th

posted October 05, 2008 07:37 PM         

But synastrically, I see you share the conjunction of 1st and 7th house, resembling a Venus-Mars-conjunction, wow! Definitely a strong sign of attraction.
Also a conjunction of 5th and 4th house, which is a bit like a Sun-Moon-conjunction.

Also strong interconnections between 7th and 8th house - Venus / Pluto.

Shall I go on?

posted October 05, 2008 07:56 PM         

quote:

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Well, the most important question would be: Do you still love him?

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posted October 05, 2008 07:57 PM         

DW’s UNDER 3 degs!
His moon trine my Pluto / His Pluto trine my moon
His venus conjunct my Saturn / His Saturn opposes my venus
my pluto quincunx his venus (1) / my venus trine his pluto (0) !!!!!
SURELY THIS MUST COUNT AS A TWIN SOUL ASPECT!!!
His mars conjunct my union
/ His union conjunct my mars
his venus semisextile her mars / his mars semisextile her venus

his solstice sun trine my n sun / his n sun trine my solstice sun
his solstice venus trine my n sun / his n venus trine my solstice sun
his solstice NN opposes my n mars / his n NN opposes my solstice mars
his solstice eros opposes my n AC / his n eros opposes my solstice AC
his solstice destinn conjunct my n AC / his sol AC opposes my n destinn
his sol pluto opposes my n juno / his n pluto conjunct my sol juno
his sol valentine opposes my n juno / his n valentine conjunct my sol juno
his sol DNA trine my karma / his n DNA trine my sol karma

SAME/SAME
His venus conjunct my venus
His mars conjunct my mars
His psyche conjunct my psyche
His union conjunct my union

His AC sextile my AC
his solstice mars conjunct my solstice mars
his solstice union conjunct my solstice union
his solstice venus conjunct my solstice venus
his draco chiron conjunct my draco chiron
my draco destinn opposes his natal destinn
his draco Saturn trine my natal Saturn
his draco karma opposes my natal karma

THE EXACT ASPECTS (under 3degs) BETWEEN SUN, MOON, VENUS, MARS, SATURN, PLUTO, NN, AC, VALENTINE, KARMA:
(according to IQ)
His sun conjunct my moon
His sun conjunct my venus
His moon trine my Pluto
His venus conjunct my moon
His venus conjunct my venus
his venus trine my pluto
His venus conjunct my Saturn
His venus conjunct my NN
His mars conjunct my mars
His mars trine my Pluto
his pluto quincunx my venus
His Saturn opposes my moon
His Saturn opposes my venus
His Pluto trine my moon
His Pluto trine my venus
His Pluto trine my Saturn
His Pluto trine my NN
His valentine trine my venus

I'm either going to throw up or cry... this is SO intense!
no exact aspect to AC or DW - but who cares right? This synastry looks so AMAZING!!!

I really hope that DD, VenusdeIndia and IQ can give their 2 cents worth on this... !

posted October 05, 2008 08:10 PM         

I will give my 2 cents, but really, really, don´t base your decision on the intensity of synastry, please?

I mean, look, I have the most intense, outstanding, amazing, sexy, loving synastry with Antonio Banderas, with several exact dw to the ASC, and yet, I certainly do not feel any of it, other than I loved him in "Evita".

On the other hand I also have quite good synastry with that guy, I really really like, but does that mean he writes back?
No way.
I have to accept that, and of course I do.
Yet astrologically we have Sun-Moon-conjunction, Venus-Mars trine and Venus-Mars-solstice conjunction, Venus-Jupiter-trine and following house ruler aspects:

Ruler of his 7th house conjuncts my ASC
ruler of his 7th house ocnjuncts my NN
ruler of his 7th house conjuncts my Mars
ruler of his 7th house conjuncts ruler of my 4th house
Ruler of my 7th house conjunct his Sun and Moon
Ruler of my 7th house conjuncts ruler of his 1st house
ruler of his 5th house conjunct my Sun
ruler of his 5th house conjuncts ruler of my 7th house
ruler of his 8th house opposing ruler of my 1st house
ruler of his 4th house conjuncts my ASC
ruler of his 4th house conjuncts my NN

But does that mean he wants to get to know me? Apparently not.

So, astrology can explain a lot of things, but we still have free will, and not every Sun-Moon-aspect or Venus-Mars-aspect will lead to a relationship.

posted October 05, 2008 08:11 PM         

We got together when l was leaving my really abusive marriage and he was getting over his painful divorce so it was very fated in that respect.

I really appreciate you looking DD and Kick It - this one means a lot to me because if it can work on paper and he is my twin then we can't run from each other anymore, we have to just be together

By that, l mean...
we first met in 1997
he was all over me but he was an alcoholic and l was an emotional mess
we then saw each other at parties for next 2 yrs.
Then in 1999 l got a wedding invite from him - i didn't go. I lay in bed really depressed. lol
Then l contacted him in 2005 to do some business with him and we didnt do any business, except for the business of having an affair and making a baby!!!

If this works out it will be a real love story because our child was conceived at my Uncle/grandmother's house in Spain where l holiday'd as a child and have fond memories.

I feel emotional just writing this... because l can't believe he's coming back to me.!!!!

"everything happens for a reason"

posted October 05, 2008 08:18 PM         

THANK YOU!!!!!

I just needed so much to hear that
I had a feeling it was AMAZING as l wrote it but l am not as proficient as you are at this.
Those DW's did make my head spin though

I know exactly what you mean by attraction and free will!
I have wonderful synastry with my ex husband and he verbally beat me to a pulp during our marriage so it's not always hunky dory... mind you, his saturn was bang in my stellium lol

Bless you... sweet dreams X

posted October 05, 2008 08:20 PM         

Ruler of his 7th house conjuncts my ASC
ruler of his 7th house ocnjuncts my NN
ruler of his 7th house conjuncts my Mars
ruler of his 7th house conjuncts ruler of my 4th house
Ruler of my 7th house conjunct his Sun and Moon
Ruler of my 7th house conjuncts ruler of his 1st house
ruler of his 5th house conjunct my Sun
ruler of his 5th house conjuncts ruler of my 7th house
ruler of his 8th house opposing ruler of my 1st house
ruler of his 4th house conjuncts my ASC
ruler of his 4th house conjuncts my NN"

posted October 05, 2008 09:47 PM         

Interestingly, and talking about venus mars -
we share this interesting pattern

his sun 25' aries
his moon 14' taurus
my sun 6' taurus
my moon 20' aries
his venus 21' aries
his mars 18' taurus
my venus 21' aries
my mars 21' taurus
lol

posted October 06, 2008 09:05 AM         

I wrote down my data in the other thread (on magi astrology), cause I got a failure notice when I tried to send you a mail.

However, I think it`s important that you know you really love him and that he will be a good father.
People can change (but you have to be sure, he really has changed) and if they do, they deserve our forgiveness, no matter if they are our Twins or not.
And only you can know if you can really forgive him what he did to you and perhaps more important that you can trust him again.

But putting all that aside let`s look at the astrology.

"His moon trine my Pluto / His Pluto trine my moon"
Pretty intense I`d say, in a harmonious way.

"His venus conjunct my Saturn / His Saturn opposes my venus"
Probably this is the most karmic aspect ever, especially as a dw made up from opposition and conjunction.
And a very binding one, even though at time it may also feel difficult and restrictive.
Saturn is a strict teacher.

"my pluto quincunx his venus (1) / my venus trine his pluto (0) !!!!!
SURELY THIS MUST COUNT AS A TWIN SOUL ASPECT!!!"
You know me, and how I am not convinced that a Venus-Pluto-dw will without a doubt show a Twinsoul, due to the generational character of Pluto.
But in this case, it is really very tight, and yes, it could be pretty intense, even though the quinkunx is a minor aspect. But then again there are different point of views on that one.

And in magi astrology it would be seen as a "obsessive linkage", wouldn`t it? More sexual than a sign of true love?

"his venus semisextile her mars / his mars semisextile her venus
"
Sorry, I still don`t think semisextiles are all that strong.

"his solstice sun trine my n sun / his n sun trine my solstice sun"
As far as I know you only look at conjunction and opposition (and one German astrology school also includes the squares).

"his solstice NN opposes my n mars / his n NN opposes my solstice mars"
A SN-Mars-solstice conjunction. SEems there was much heat in a past life, maybe even anger and resentment, and either you were struggling with each other (against someone else) or against each other. And maybe you are supposed to solve that unresolved business of anger. Or you``ve had a very passionate love affair, that had been burning too hot to last.

Have you checked the SN in the composite? I have the Forrests`s book on the composite, and really, the way they look at it, you can watch a story of a relationship unfold before your eyes.
And when I did that with the composite between Paul and me, it was an exact image of that nightmare / past life memory I had, where he played a role, too.

I am mentioning that because our composite SN falls into Aries in the 2nd house, which makes a scenery rise up inside my mind of two people needing to fight for their naked survival.
But that is not about him and me now.

"is solstice eros opposes my n AC / his n eros opposes my solstice AC"
You know me. I like this one.

"His venus conjunct my venus
His mars conjunct my mars
His psyche conjunct my psyche
His union conjunct my union"
You definitely share some qualities, and this could be a sign of compatibility, depending on the other influences on each Venus or Mars. But on its own it`s a beautiful aspect.

posted October 06, 2008 09:05 AM         

"His sun conjunct my venus"
You love him and his masculine self.

"His venus conjunct my moon"
He loves your femine self (more in an emotional, maternal way instead of the sexual you)

"His venus conjunct my venus"
He also loves your femine self in a more sexual context.

"is venus trine my pluto"
Intense. It may not necessarily indicate twinsouls, but it surely indicates some passionate exchange.

"His venus conjunct my Saturn"
you structure him and can give him some firm hold, but sometimes he experiences you as too distanced and even cold, or rather careful.

"His venus conjunct my NN"
His love is part of your lifepath.
Or his ideas of love and beauty become vital for your lifepath.

I share the same conjunction with Jude Law, and I think that maybe it means in our case that his artistic self (his Venus conjuncts his ASC) somehow influence my lifepath (both his Venus and his ASC are conjunct my NN).
So, you see it doesn`t need to mean a personal romantic relationship, even though in most cases this will be the interpretation.

Maybe it also relates to soulmates who are destined to become romantically involved with each other (again or for the first time).
If Venus conjunct SN indicates a karmic love relationship, then Vneus conjunct NN could indicate a love relationship in this life, couldn`t it?

"His Saturn opposes my moon
His Saturn opposes my venus"
This could be a difficult aspect. Maybe you are sometimes afraid he will reject you and your emotions.
Saturn aspects are needed for a lasting relationship, but the opposition to both of your most emotional planets could sometimes get too much, too heavy, too lonely.

"no exact aspect to AC or DW - but who cares right"
Well, IQ would care, I think.
I think maybe you are not Twinsouls (but better listen to your feelings than to my babbling), but you most definitely are very close soulmates, who have some karmic business to finish.

BTW I forget, do you have a connection between 7th house and 4th house through the ruler and cusp?
Because that is the one aspect that seems to pop up so often in soulmates and Twinsouls. I think I haven`t found one example in my celebrity-list of soulmates, where there wasn`t either such a connection from 7th to 4th house or from 4th house to 4th house.
I wouldn`t go so far to say, it is needed in Twinsoul-relationships, but I`m a little bit tempted to do so.

posted October 06, 2008 09:59 AM         

Let me read through this when my kids are in bed cos they are all over me... just wanted to say that we have these aspects. Not sure l understand what you mean about "cusps" though

MY 7 H RULER VENUS CONJUNCT HIS 4H RULER SUN (3DEG)
MY 4 H RULER MOON CONJUNCT HIS 4H RULER SUN (5DEG)

In DRACO
HIS 4H RULER VENUS SEXTILE MY 7H RULER MERCURY (5)
HIS 7H RULER SATURN TRINE MY 4H RULER MERCURY (3)
HIS 4H RULER VENUS VENUS SEXTILE MY 4H RULER MERCURY (5)

I would like to talk to IQ about this because every psychic friend of mine has told me, independently that he is my twin soul, not soul mate... and l have never mentioned him being potentially my twin soul to any of them.

I do totally know him naked, in that l can read him without restriction and we are transparent to each other on every level.

Magi see the Quincunx as a major aspect so l would love to know why IQ thinks it is not good enough, at such a close orb.

I only used trines because IQ says to use trines

I will write longer later... sorry, just too manic here to think !

posted October 06, 2008 10:06 AM         

Butt in all you like

We never had a relationship in 1997. I would not go there because of his drinking and l was already involved with another man.
He chased me for 2 years though, until he met his future wife... and l couldn't bring myself to go to the wedding. Now l totally know why l couldn't.

He hasn't drunk for 9 years now... he was lonely then. I have done 10 years of work on myself and am now a multi-dimensional being !
I had left my husband when l met him in 2005 - he had an on/off girlfriend but it wasn't serious.
Twin souls normally meet when they are going through very bad times and the times were very bad for us in 2005.

We are both single now and as for challenges/obstacles, l only see our kids and particularly my ex husband being a problem, plus the fact that we live abroad but that is ok as l wish to move abroad anyway!

I always ignored that he was my twin soul because he hurt me and l didn't wish to believe it.. but now we have met again as more than just parents to our child, the feelings and knowing is back once more and it feels just like it shows on our synastry.

We are very respectful of each other now and when l said to him "I am not going to be your sex object" he replied "you are not my sex object, you are the mother of my child" which was a pretty strong statement from him.

posted October 06, 2008 10:22 AM         

I think Deuxantares posed some very valid questions.
Far more important than the question if he is your twinsoul is the way he act around you. Does he treat you good? Is he in love with you? Are you both free to have a relationship as equal partners?

However, I am not surprised to find that oyu share these aspects, too, and very strong ones (conjunction). It`s interesting, I made a little survey of some celebrity couples, and they all had serveral interconnections of 7th and 4th house, even though not all through conjunctions.

I would look at following connections:
IC - IC
IC - ruler of IC
IC - DC
IC - ruler of DSC
ruler of IC - IC
ruler of IC - DSC
ruler of IC - ruler of DSC
DSC - IC
DSC - ruler of IC
ruler of DSC - IC
ruler of DSC - ruler of IC

I think the conjunction, opposition, trine and maybe antiscia conjunction / opposition may be the strongest aspects here.

At least those were the aspects that were in all comparisions I did, especially the conjunction and the trine. So maybe we could even limit it to the conjunction and trine?

I don`t know if they really point towards soulmates, but they seem to be meaningful.Theoretically they could be a sign of soulmates as the soul (IC / 4th house) is connected to the relationship-needs (DSC / 7th house) of the other one.

But on the other hand, how many soulmates do we have?
I had a short overview of just some of my crushes (the more important ones) and they all fulfill that condition:

Paul:
his 4th ruler conjunct my IC
his 4th ruler trine my 4th ruler
his 7th ruler conjunct my IC
his 7th ruler trine my 4th ruler
(all aspects are between 0° - 2°)

Jude:
his IC conjunct my IC
his IC trines my 4th ruler
(both aspects are 3°)

posted October 06, 2008 10:52 AM         

ruler of IC - IC

my IC ruler trine his IC (out or orb)

ruler of IC - DSC

my IC ruler trines his DC (out of orb)
his IC ruler opposes my DC (out of orb)

ruler of IC - ruler of DSC

his IC/ruler conjunct my DC/ruler (4)

DSC - IC

My DC sextile his IC (0)

DSC - ruler of IC

His DC trine my IC/ruler (out of orb)
My DC opposes his IC/ruler (out or orb)

ruler of DSC - IC

my DC/ruler trine his IC (out of orb)

ruler of DSC - ruler of IC
my DC/ruler conjunct his IC/ruler (3)

posted October 06, 2008 03:25 PM         

sure l can Deux

Here's the synastry whilst l am on photobucket

posted October 06, 2008 04:42 PM         

his pr sun conjunct my pr sun/mars/union/AC
his pr moon opposes my pr Neptune
his pr venus opposes my pr vertex
his pr jupiter conjunct my pr venus/isis
his pr Saturn opposes my pr saturn/NN
his pr neptune opposes my pr Saturn
his pr pluto trine my pr Saturn
his pr vertex opposes my pr sun/venus/isis/AC
his pr eros opposes my pr juno/karma
his pr psyche conjunct my pr psyche
his pr psyche opposes my pr amor
his pr cupido opposes my dr lust exact
his pr AC conjunct my pr cupido
his pr IC conjunct my pr valentine (4)

his pr moon conjunct my n mars/union
his pr venus conjunct my n sun
his pr venus opposes my n juno/karma
his pr Saturn opposes my n moon/venus/Saturn/nn
his pr pluto trine my n moon/venus/Saturn/nn
his pr eros conjunct my n amor
his pr psyche conjunct my n juno/karma
his pr amor conjunct my n valentine
his pr lust opposes my n valentine
his pr IC conjunct my n vertex exact/eros/AC
his pr IC opposes my n chiron exact

my pr sun/union conjunct his n amor
my pr venus/isis conjunct his n AC
my pr mars conjunct his n amor
my pr jupiter conjunct his n valentine
my pr Saturn conjunct his n venus
my pr pluto opposes his n eros/karma
my pr juno opposes his n sun/juno
my pr juno conjunct his n vertex
my pr valentine conjunct his n IC exact
my pr AC conjunct his n amor
my pr IC conjunct his n IC (5)

posted October 06, 2008 06:01 PM         

ARABIC PARTS

his LOVE
trine my eros (0) vertex (2)
my LOVE
conjunct his karma (2) eros (4)
trine his psyche (0)

his LOVERS
trine my eros (1) vertex (1)
opposes my lust (2)
my LOVERS
conjunct his NN (0)

his KARMA
square my sun (0) juno (1) karma (0)
trine my eros (2)
my KARMA
conjunct his karma (0)

his SEXUAL DESIRE
trine my mars (0) union (1) isis (exact)
conjunct my pluto (0)
my SEXUAL DESIRE
conjunct his IC (2)

his SEXUAL DRIVE
conjunct my eros (2) AC (3)
my SEXUAL DRIVE
trine my juno (3)

his MARRIAGE
opposes my valentine (1)
trine my mars (2) union (1) isis (3) pluto (3)
my MARRIAGE
trine his moon (0) mars (3)
opposes his karma (1)

his DESTINY
opposes my cupido (1)
my DESTINY
trine his mars (0) union (0)
conjunct his chiron (1) lust (2)