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lovely lioness
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posted October 05, 2008 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely lioness     Edit/Delete Message
Hello all. After having separated from my Gemini, I've been wondering if astrology can lend a bit of insight.

My Gemini said he sees no future for us now, but wants to be friends. He says he loves me and he cried for the first time in 7 years over this break up. I don't understand. If he is that upset and that in love with me, why push me away? If his heart says one thing, why is he letting his mind take over? I am so crushed. I feel like I ruined it and now he doesn't even have hope. All I've ever wanted to do is help him, be there for him, support him and have that in return. But instead, when things got bad he withdrew and shut down so I was helpless and didn't know what to do to make anything better.

I feel awful. I tell myself I will get over it and move on because obviously I have no choice.....but I am completely heartbroken and devastated. He broke my heart and my trust. I don't know how we could ever really be friends....at least not now. He was going to be my husband, we were going to share our lives together, have children...I just don't understand. He said he doesn't think he will ever marry now and he doesn't think he will ever love anyone as much as me.....I just thought, DON'T tell me that! it makes me want to cry just thinking about it....why is he doing this this?

A part of me feels like we will be drawn back together again, but maybe I'm just in denial. He is moving at the end of the month to be closer to his job and maybe I'll never see him again. I just don't understand how you can love someone SOOOO DEEPLY, but decide no matter now much it hurts or feels wrong you end the relationship anyway. I feel like he is ending it out of fear of failure or fear that it is doomed, but there is NO WAY to KNOW that unless we tried again. REALLY TIRED. showed each other it could and would be different. I guess he doesn't have the strength to do it again. SIGH. forgive me, I'm rambling. Is this it or could we still save our relationship??
Thanks for reading or for any help.

LEO
planet sign degree
Sun Leo 18°31'08 in house 12
Moon Taurus 6°38'18 end of house 8
Mercury Virgo 5°08'08 in house 12
Venus Cancer 26°25'37 in house 11
Mars Scorpio 4°40'34 in house 2
Jupiter Scorpio 3°15'43 in house 2
Saturn Libra 17°48'09 in house 2
Uranus Sagittarius 0°34'40 in house 3
Neptune Sagittarius 24°26'33 in house 4
Pluto Libra 24°31'05 in house 2
True Node Cancer 12°45'19 in house 10
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Virgo 14°07'01

GEMINI
planet sign degree
Sun Gemini 4°54'23 in house 9
Moon Gemini 14°13'29 in house 9
Mercury Gemini 0°57'39 in house 9
Venus Taurus 10°35'34 in house 8
Mars Taurus 7°54'46 in house 8
Jupiter Leo 4°22'04 in house 11
Saturn Virgo 7°19'52 in house 12
Uranus Scorpio 18°18'15 in house 3
Neptune Sagittarius 19°31'05 in house 4
Pluto Libra 16°41'06 in house 2
True Node Virgo 13°48'16 in house 12

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Virgo 20°24'31

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Lucia23
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posted October 05, 2008 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Hi. Your double Gemini is freaking out.

As a fellow lioness, here's my advice: If you want to give it another chance, don't YOU freak out! (Which, you're doing here.)

Tell him that you adore him and are delighted and thrilled that he wants to be friends. Then, BE friends. Hang out with him as a friend. Be happy, fun and sparkling. Bring him into thrilling social scenes and have fascinating conversations. Throw yourself headlong into doing everything you're best at.

Let the Gemini see you being happily independent...spend lots of time as friends...look, smell and taste as sexy as possible, and let your "friend" time turn into hooking up time.

Just cut off ALL heavy, intense romantic emotions (even his), and heavy, intense stuff about spending your lives together. That makes the Gemini feel like he has to plan his whole life right now, this second...which makes him freak out and have to dump you.

If you do those things (unless he has fallen in love with someone else or out of love with you), the Gemini will come back to you. Never mention the future again, and he might even marry you someday.

Fixed people can seem SO heavy and demanding to mutable people, even when they love us...but Leo-Gemini matches work. You just have to put on a little show for him, of your sunny, living-in-the-moment, FUN side.

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lovely lioness
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posted October 06, 2008 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely lioness     Edit/Delete Message
thanks so much Lucia....I am trying, but it's a struggle to say the least.

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