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Topic: Why am I feeling so blue??
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plutoprincess Knowflake Posts: 93 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2008 05:33 PM
Currently, Mars is conjunct my asc, Venus conjuncts my Moon/Pluto and finally I'm getting rid of Saturn's oppositions ... Why am I still feeling so blue ??? I had a great weekend, but currently, pessimism is the best word to describe me, although I really, really, really want to stop whining This day has been hell since morning I'm blue du be de da be daaaaaaa IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2008 06:03 PM
Progressed Moon is Opposite Mercury, making a Grand Cross where you normally have a T-Square. It's separating and on it's way to being out of orb.
At those tough times of life I have found cutting down on my personal expectations helps me through. That includes not pressuring myself to feel happy or normal or not miserable. Just get through the basic tasks that need doing. At it's worst, that has meant telling myself to get out of bed and do the one or two essential things that must be done ~ because someone else is relying on me to do it. I don't know if this will work for you ~ but if you just try and get through the day without piling on worries about whether or not you should be feeling happier or if things are going to get better, I don't know, that might help for a bit until the feelings pass. IP: Logged |
Happy Dragon unregistered
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posted October 07, 2008 10:51 AM
re: ** Why am I still feeling so blue ??? **not realy studied the chart .. but what really stands out re that query is .. transiting Chiron at a square aspect to your natal Moon-Pluto conjunction .. t.Chiron is 'applying' via Retrograde movement .. ( it's currently under 1 degree from your moon-pluto conjunction by square aspect ) it will soon turn direct .. ' Urns/Nep/Plut/Chiron .. retro/direct dates .. ' ~ http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006052.html ~ btw: when a planet goes from retro. to direct .. there's usualy a period of it being 'stationary' .. and when that occurs .. it can feel much stronger in effect .. IP: Logged |
bunnies Knowflake Posts: 346 From: u.k Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 07, 2008 11:46 AM
Nothing to do with charts but I once read a book which said something that resonated with me "Never allow yourself the luxury of one negative thought" And I thought "Yes we do determine how we think" So if I ever feel negativity creeping in I say in a very stern voice, like you would talking to a very naughty child or a bad dog!"Stop right there negativity! And go away now!! It works! You simply reprogramme your brain to think another way. But you know what else pluto? Being 19 isn't all it's cracked up to be. You've always got an agenda. Find the right guy/ job/ career path/college course. Please your parents/ boyfriend/ friends. Be witty attractive at all times and why does everyone else seem to be having a better time than me? Bloody exhausting. No wonder you feel down. Here's a little secret. No one is immune to that. Everybody on the planet feels the same. So you are not alone just overwhelmed. Just relax. YOU don't have to be anywhere or anything. Just your little old self plodding along in the scheme of things. Have fun xx IP: Logged |
deuxantares Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 07, 2008 12:49 PM
Bunnies, I really wish you'd write a book or maybe a regular column! Something along the lines of "The Word According to Bunnies" or something like that. Or better do it in 365 parts (card or calendar format), 1 for every day of the year. Ok, that may be too much work. I suggest you co-write with Blue Moon. You two are
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koiflower Knowflake Posts: 1984 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 07, 2008 05:15 PM
Nice suggestions bunnies!!hope you can pick yourself up pluto princess!!! Give an old friend a call right now, and have a good ol' chat!! IP: Logged |
plutoprincess Knowflake Posts: 93 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted October 07, 2008 05:38 PM
Thank you all!!! you realy made me feel better! Blue moon thanks for the chart! Bunnies...you reallly DO have a talent in writing... you should indeed write a book IP: Logged |
missneptune unregistered
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posted October 07, 2008 07:11 PM
I can relate plutoprincess, I'm close to your age, and I am going though a nice venus square uranus, and pluto opposition venus transit, which means I'll never actually find anyone, not to sound so gloomy, IP: Logged |
bunnies Knowflake Posts: 346 From: u.k Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 08, 2008 05:58 AM
Thank you my sweets! As they say hindsight is 20/20 vision but I have never forgotten what it actually feels to be that age or in those lovelorn positions. I have worn many T shirts in my time!!IP: Logged |