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flyin_free_70
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posted October 08, 2008 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for flyin_free_70     Edit/Delete Message
Funny, the man I'm dating now is 7 year older than me. It bothered him at first that I was so much younger until I told him that my ex husband was 6 years older than me and that ever man I'd dated between being married and meeting him had been 7 years older than me. In fact, the only guy I ever dated who was a different age was my HS boyfriend who was the same age as me. I don't "mean" to fall for men in this age range, it just seems to happen that way.

Is there something in my chart that would point to Why I'm attracted to men that age?

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flyin_free_70
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posted October 08, 2008 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for flyin_free_70     Edit/Delete Message
If I could figure out How to post a chart with that question I would but it never seems to work for me.

My birtdate is March 13th, 1970, 2AM, PST

Sun:Pices
Moon:Gemini
Venus:Aries
Mars:Taurus

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blue moon
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posted October 08, 2008 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
We could use a place of birth. If you don't want to reveal that information, best bet is to run it up on Astro, save it as a picture file, then crop the information off.

Use a free host service to download the picture and get a website link.

Are you looking for something significant with an outer planet rather than a question about age gap relationships? 6 or 7 years isn't really a large gap.

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PeaceAngel
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posted October 08, 2008 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
7 years is hardly a big age gap no matter what your actual ages are.

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Kick It
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posted October 08, 2008 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kick It     Edit/Delete Message
FF, you Gem rising?

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grandmothermoon
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posted October 08, 2008 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for grandmothermoon     Edit/Delete Message
There is 16 years between me and my other half - now **that** is an age difference LOL!

I don't feel that 6 or 6 years is really that significant.

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Glaucus
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posted October 08, 2008 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
As you are both over the age of 21 years old, 7 year age difference is not much of a difference

My mother was married to a man 25 years older than her.
She was also involved with a man 13 years older than her, and that man was my father. When I was born, she was 17 and my father was almost 31 years old

She was involved with other men that were 10 or more years older than her.


My Mom has Capricorn Descendant with its ruler,Saturn in Scorpio in 5th house sextile Mars in Capricorn in 7th.

You might have Saturn/Capricorn in connection to 5th house(whether placement or ruler)romance,7th house house (whether placement or ruler)relationships,or 8th house (whether placement or ruler)intimacy, Animus planets(Sun,Mars),or Venus in regards to love,relationships,attraction. Also there could be Saturn connections to Vertex in regards to fated relationships. There also could be Saturn connections to the lunar nodes as they involve relationships,meetings,and connections in general..especially of a karmic nature.


also attraction,love,romance indicators in synastry and composite are also factors

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deuxantares
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posted October 08, 2008 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for deuxantares     Edit/Delete Message
For me a big age gap is 10 years.
The difference is more noticeable when one of the partners is below 28-30 years old.

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savanna20
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posted October 08, 2008 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
I like older men. I have never fallen for anyone younger. The younget man I dated was 10 years older than me. lol. It must be the saturn-venus.

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amowls
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posted October 09, 2008 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
They say that if you have Saturn aspecting your DSC or DSC ruler, or if you're Gem or Cancer rising (which would be Sag or Cap on your DSC), you tend to like older people.

Which isn't true in my case, but w/e.

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CoralFrequency
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posted October 09, 2008 12:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message
So you're 38 and he's 45.. and it bothered him that he's older.

That's a bit strange, because like other people have said 6, 7 yrs is not a huge age gap. I'd see 14/19/25 yrs as a big age gap.. but there still are quite a few of those around.

I wonder why he thinks that...

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