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Topic: Is there a reason why I always seem to fall for men quite a bit older than me?
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flyin_free_70 Knowflake Posts: 105 From: Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 08, 2008 08:53 AM
Funny, the man I'm dating now is 7 year older than me. It bothered him at first that I was so much younger until I told him that my ex husband was 6 years older than me and that ever man I'd dated between being married and meeting him had been 7 years older than me. In fact, the only guy I ever dated who was a different age was my HS boyfriend who was the same age as me. I don't "mean" to fall for men in this age range, it just seems to happen that way. Is there something in my chart that would point to Why I'm attracted to men that age? IP: Logged |
flyin_free_70 Knowflake Posts: 105 From: Registered: Jun 2008
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posted October 08, 2008 09:06 AM
If I could figure out How to post a chart with that question I would but it never seems to work for me. My birtdate is March 13th, 1970, 2AM, PST Sun:Pices Moon:Gemini Venus:Aries Mars:Taurus
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blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 08, 2008 09:26 AM
We could use a place of birth. If you don't want to reveal that information, best bet is to run it up on Astro, save it as a picture file, then crop the information off. Use a free host service to download the picture and get a website link. Are you looking for something significant with an outer planet rather than a question about age gap relationships? 6 or 7 years isn't really a large gap. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 6678 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted October 08, 2008 09:31 AM
7 years is hardly a big age gap no matter what your actual ages are.IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted October 08, 2008 11:34 AM
FF, you Gem rising?IP: Logged |
grandmothermoon Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: Apr 2008
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posted October 08, 2008 11:54 AM
There is 16 years between me and my other half - now **that** is an age difference LOL!I don't feel that 6 or 6 years is really that significant. IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 2761 From: Sacramento,California,USA Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 08, 2008 12:04 PM
As you are both over the age of 21 years old, 7 year age difference is not much of a differenceMy mother was married to a man 25 years older than her. She was also involved with a man 13 years older than her, and that man was my father. When I was born, she was 17 and my father was almost 31 years old She was involved with other men that were 10 or more years older than her. My Mom has Capricorn Descendant with its ruler,Saturn in Scorpio in 5th house sextile Mars in Capricorn in 7th.
You might have Saturn/Capricorn in connection to 5th house(whether placement or ruler)romance,7th house house (whether placement or ruler)relationships,or 8th house (whether placement or ruler)intimacy, Animus planets(Sun,Mars),or Venus in regards to love,relationships,attraction. Also there could be Saturn connections to Vertex in regards to fated relationships. There also could be Saturn connections to the lunar nodes as they involve relationships,meetings,and connections in general..especially of a karmic nature. also attraction,love,romance indicators in synastry and composite are also factors
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deuxantares Knowflake Posts: 1197 From: Meet Me in Sofia Registered: Nov 2006
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posted October 08, 2008 12:08 PM
For me a big age gap is 10 years. The difference is more noticeable when one of the partners is below 28-30 years old. IP: Logged |
savanna20 Knowflake Posts: 370 From: Malibu, CA Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 08, 2008 12:34 PM
I like older men. I have never fallen for anyone younger. The younget man I dated was 10 years older than me. lol. It must be the saturn-venus.IP: Logged |
amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 09, 2008 12:08 AM
They say that if you have Saturn aspecting your DSC or DSC ruler, or if you're Gem or Cancer rising (which would be Sag or Cap on your DSC), you tend to like older people.Which isn't true in my case, but w/e. IP: Logged |
CoralFrequency Knowflake Posts: 1432 From: Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 09, 2008 12:58 AM
So you're 38 and he's 45.. and it bothered him that he's older.That's a bit strange, because like other people have said 6, 7 yrs is not a huge age gap. I'd see 14/19/25 yrs as a big age gap.. but there still are quite a few of those around. I wonder why he thinks that... IP: Logged |