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Topic: Love Expectations & shocks
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Cappadora Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Hawaii, USA Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 13, 2008 10:26 PM
Hi everybody!Just out of curiosity, in terms of real-life experience, is there anyone out there who really wanted or planed on getting a certain astrological combo in a mate and then was surprised when they fell for someone different then expected? Then afterwards, you look at your chart and the attraction makes sense, and your like “why didn’t I see that before?!” For example, you really thought you wanted a Sag/Aries sun/moon combo but then you go for a Gem/Scorp… On the other side of the coin, are there some people out there who had a certain astrological combo in mind for a mate, and then got exactly what they hoped to get anyway… Like you always knew you’d fall for a Sag/Scorp combo and then one day you meet one and you do… I’d love to hear about people’s personal experiences, and of course the astro info involved. I kind of exploring the notion of what people think they want versus what they get.
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VirgOh Knowflake Posts: 236 From: JC,NJ,USA Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 13, 2008 10:59 PM
I was dying to try Scorpio, I heard its a good match for me, low and behold I met her at work, looked at her and asked, are you a scorp? She said yes, we went out for 3 years then broke up, it wasn;t what it's cracked up to be, now we are best friends though IP: Logged |
librasunleomoon Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Registered: Feb 2008
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posted October 13, 2008 11:38 PM
Oh My God that has happened to me so many times. I even admit to having become more interested in and begun dating people based on seeing a good chart. I do not recommend this. And then I suddenly end up falling for someone I have an average, but unremarkable, chart with. And it's so much better than the "planned" one. Love goes beyond the stars, to be honest.IP: Logged |
librasunleomoon Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Registered: Feb 2008
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posted October 13, 2008 11:40 PM
Also, I once met someone I had the *perfect* chart with. I could hardly believe it. We remain good friends, but it never had that spark and passion I had imagined it would. It is so interesting how these things happen. As I said, love goes beyond the stars.IP: Logged |
Cappadora Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Hawaii, USA Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 14, 2008 05:24 PM
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 689 From: processing destination...... Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 15, 2008 08:39 PM
You know that is interesting I think, because I look at relationships which look good/lasting and even also exciting astrologically, but then they don't work in the long run at all...however, there is that kind of nice, friendly element, where I am able to be close to them no matter what.It's true, sometimes the doomed or even boring synastry combos for me have been pretty great. Weird. IP: Logged | |