posted October 14, 2008 05:37 PM         

Can anyone help me understand this?

First off all I don't know his birth time!

I'm worried about the uranus squares in the composite... I know there are quite good aspects but the venus square uranus...ouch

There is a strong atraction... his sun, venus and jupiter are in my 7th house, but with the uranus square... ouchhh! We have saturn sextile uranus... does this help or it is just one against 3?

His mars is in my 5th house and in the synastry I've got planets that give him the missing point for a grand kite and he's got it too.

What about the double kite? I can't find any information about the planets involved and I'm so lost because I don't understand what's the sense in having double kite knowing there are those uranus squares... what will the good stuff do against the uranus? Wiil the uranus aspects prevail? I'm so lost cause I think I've never found someone so compatible with me.

I'm starting to study the magi astrology but I'm not able to write about it now...

Can anybody help me with this? I'm lost with all the information I've found on the Internet and I need the oppinion of people with some practice analising this.

Thank you so much (and sorry for my english)

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posted October 14, 2008 05:41 PM         

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posted October 14, 2008 07:05 PM         

Stop worrying.

Forget about the Composite Chart for right now.

Forget about kites, they are not magic and they don't CAUSE anything to happen, the aspect lines are only there to guide your eyes and make the planetary relationships clearer.

Now, the reason why I tell you not to worry is because worry is getting in your way of presenting your situation with this man clearly. Are the two of you even in a relationship yet? Are you dating or just friends right now?

I see the potential for lots of feelings of affection between you both and some sexual chemistry, with his Sun trine your Venus and his Venus opposite your Moon. There could also be intense emotional feelings for each other with the "double-whammy" Plutos opposite each other's Moons.

I say "potential" because you are both probably already used to that in your own personal lives since you both own it natally. Although we can't be sure for him because we don't know his exact time of birth, we do know it for you.

Now before I tell you this next part, I want to remind you that YOU HAVE FREE WILL and it's the two of you who decide how far you want this relationship to go. Now that I've said that I want to explain that this chart does not suggest a long term stability because of the Saturn aspects. Your Saturn only trines his Chiron and Saturn only squares his Neptune. Neptune dissolves Saturn or makes it very weak, so whatever bonding it was trying to make, Saturn is left with no strength to do it's job.

The charts suggests that you will both have intense discussions and competition, especially because you both have the Moon in Aries which gives you both the reigning need to be NUMBER ONE!!! There can only be 1 number one.

Another sign of competition between you both is your Pluto conjunct his Sun, that suggests power struggles in the realm of relationships and social issues. Also, your Saturn conjuncts his Nodal Axis which suggests that you may have known each other in a past life and that you were meant to meet again now to review past issues and try to resolve them in the present. But that measurement also suggests that he may feel controlled, cold and ultimately lonely within the relationship.

The positive side of the competition that I see is that you both might end up enjoying it. I see that you both have a Mars conjunct Jupiter in the Leo. That is a "brothers in arms" kind of measurement and may help you to bring your competitive power struggles into the arena of fun and play, especially since it happens in your 5th house of fun, creativity and romantic sexuality.

I want to also mention some of the "Magi Measurements" and tell you to study them with caution if you are not well skilled in traditional astrology yet. Magi Astrology will tell you that the Saturn trine Chiron aspect is a bad aspect. Early Magi writings (some are still online) will tell you that all Saturn aspects are bad, especially Saturn to Chiron. I don't believe it and have seen that they are mostly stabilizing in a trine or sextile measurement. So when you read that in the Magi information, don't panic.

They will also tell you that Uranus opposite Chiron translates to "A reluctance to marry." I've seen several charts of couples who have that measurement in their synastry charts. These couples definitely have a strong taste for freedom in their individual lives, but they also lovingly give each other the freedom they desire, and it looks different for each couple.

I can understand what you mean when you say that he is very compatible with you. You both have measurements of strong, smooth mental affinity. His Mercury trines your Sun and your Mercury trines his Uranus. You both probably have amazing conversations and in many respects, communication can be the magical pill in a good relationship, not the sex or the romance. Without good communication and mental affinity, the sex doesn't work. That communication also contributes to a good romantic or sex life.

That's all for now. I hope I was of some help, and please clarify what the status of this relationship is, are you already together or is it just a potential right now? PLease let us know.

And other astrologers here, please feel free to chime in.

Geocosmic Valentine
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posted October 15, 2008 02:44 PM         

We're not dating... it's a potencial relationship. I've never felt these feelings for no one not even for my ex-husband: I loved him so much but there wasn't this strong inicial attraction. It's been almost a year and I feel so happy whenever he's around and so lonely and empty when he goes away.

As you said I know I shouldn't worry but this is already letting me down. I've just been in a relationship for about 6 years (also a libra man) I have a toddler and I don't need the pain.

With this guy now I think it's a mutual attraction and knowing it wont last... it's hurting me but I can't let go. I would like to but I justr can't. I know I have venus in gemini but many times I act in a diferent way from venus in gemini, I don't act like moon in aries neither like asc in aries.. I don't need to be the number one in a competition since I run away from competitions :S I don't know if it is because I near the pisces asc...

Thank you so much

posted October 16, 2008 05:22 PM         

I've got planets that give him the missing point for a grand trine and he does it to...