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Topic: partner patterns
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Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 16, 2008 04:51 AM
Has anyone else noticed patterns in your ex partners when it comes to sun/moon/venus/mars/ASC.1st husband sun - pisces moon - leo venus - aquarius mars - scorpio AC - scorpio 2nd husband sun - aries moon - libra venus - aries mars - taurus AC - scorpio Father of my youngest sun - aries moon - taurus venus - aries mars - taurus AC - libra 1st love sun - sagittarius moon - taurus venus - capricorn mars - libra AC - pisces great love sun - aries moon - aquarius venus - pisces mars - cancer AC - aries current lover sun - leo moon - aquarius venus - leo mars - aquarius AC - pisces Is it just me or is there a pattern here with water AC, fire sun and either air moon/venus! I seem to attract a similar type over and over. Where would l find why that is in my chart please? What do l look at? Venus? mars?
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DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 131 From: oakville, ontario, canada Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 16, 2008 05:07 AM
lara you should prolly look at your mars and venus placemnts and houses and if they have any aspects to eachother. or check out your sun maybe it has some aspects to your venus and mars. alos there could be moon aspects to your venus and mars.IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 6678 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted October 16, 2008 05:10 AM
God no! I try to make them different each time. Don't need to repeat mistakes/patterns.IP: Logged |
buena36 Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Europe Registered: Jul 2008
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posted October 16, 2008 05:16 AM
Hi Lara,As I have started late with Astrology so I don't even know when my love - friends were born. I know: My fiancé (American) had (or has): Scorpio Sun, Capricorn Moon, Sagittarius Venus, AC unknown. My great love (my Karma): Capricorn Sun, Aries Moon, Scorpio Venus AC Libra (the same degree as I) Other love: 1. Aquarius Sun, Aries Moon, Aries Venus, AC Scorpio. 2. Libra Sun, Libra Venus Capricorn Moon AC Capricorn. 3. Libra Sun, Scorpio Venus Cancer Moon, AC Cancer. As you see, there is enough Scorpio and Libra. If I hadn't pains all the time, there would be Harem. Buena IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 16, 2008 05:33 AM
Interesting Buena! You have a similar pattern to me. Ok thanks DepTaurus, let me look. hehe PeaceAngel - it just happens, what can l say! IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 16, 2008 05:54 AM
1st husband (he controlled me) sun - pisces - opposes my pluto moon - leo - trine my moon/venus/saturn/NN venus - aquarius - sextile moon/venus/saturn/NN mars - scorpio - AC - scorpio - trine sun/pluto2nd husband (worst relationship ever!) sun - aries - conjunct moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine vertex, moon - libra - trine AC venus - aries - trine AC mars - taurus - conjunct sun, square AC AC - scorpio - opposes sun, conjunct juno, square AC Father of my youngest (nightmare relationship) sun - aries - conjunct moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine vertex moon - taurus - conjunct mars, trine pluto venus - aries - conjunct moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine vertex mars - taurus - conjunct mars, trine pluto AC - libra - sextile AC 1st love (so easy and wonderful) sun - sagittarius - trine AC moon - taurus - conjunct sun, trine AC venus - capricorn - square moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine pluto mars - libra - opp moon/venus/saturn/NN, conjunct IC AC - pisces - square moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine mars/pluto great love (easy but he became too boring) sun - aries trine my AC moon - aquarius opposes my AC/square my sun/juno venus - pisces mars - cancer trine my juno AC - aries current lover (amazing) sun - aries conjunct my AC/square my sun/trine venus & saturn moon - aquarius square my sun & juno/opposes my AC venus - leo square my sun & juno/conjunct my AC mars - aquarius sextile my moon & venus AC - pisces sextile my sun/trine my juno SO interesting that all the worst relationships had planets conjuncting my stellium! Anyone see this pattern? I thought conjuncts on personal planets were good. Seems like squares and oppositions are better for me... hmmm IP: Logged |
Green Fairy Knowflake Posts: 1024 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted October 16, 2008 06:46 AM
My crushes1] Pisces Sun, Moon, Venus & Mars 2] Pisces Sun/Cancer Moon/Aries Venus & Mars 3] Pisces Sun [I'd bet some Aries in his chart, he was a redhead after all] 4][currently] I have no idea about him, but I'd guess he has strong Saturn, Mars and/or Neptune in his chart. 5] Cancer Sun & Mars/Leo Moon/Gemini Venus/Scorpio Asc I blame my: 7th [I'm a Virgo Asc] and 8th H [in Aries]/Gem Venus/Cancer Mars. There's almost always a Pluto/personal planet square in my synastry charts. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: England Registered: Dec 2004
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posted October 16, 2008 12:44 PM
Pretty sure there's been hardly any link between the last three people I've fancied! Although there's a definite link in what keeps going wrong....! Must say I'm partial to the odd Scorpy influence... oh yes.1st person- long standing crush Sun- Capricorn Moon- Sagittarius Venus- Pisces Mars- Pisces ASC- Scorpio 2nd person- ex-boyfriend Sun- Sagittarius Moon- Libra Venus- Scorpio Mars- Pisces ASC- Aquarius 3rd person- last person was interested in/kissed etc. Sun- Libra Moon- Gemini Venus- Leo Mars- Leo ASC- Leo Wait, wait! I see the pattern. The moon sign of the person I've last liked is the Sun sign of the next! Good ol' Maths. IP: Logged |
amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 16, 2008 12:44 PM
Current: Sun - Pisces Moon - Leo Mercury - Aquarius Venus - Aquarius Mars - Taurus ASC - CancerUnofficial dude 2: Sun - Libra Moon - Libra Mercury - Libra Venus - Libra Mars - Virgo ASC - Leo Unofficial dude 1: Sun - Aquarius Moon - Virgo Mercury - Pisces Venus - Capricorn Mars - Aries ASC - Scorpio Ex boyf: Sun - Leo Mercury - Cancer Moon - Sagittarius Venus - Gemini Mars - Aries ASC - Virgo Ex ex boyf: Sun - Gemini Moon - Pisces Mercury - Gemini Venus - Gemini Mars - Pisces ASC unknown First love: Sun - Pisces Moon - Scorpio Mercury - Aquarius Venus- Taurus Mars - Capricorn ASC unknown Very all over the place. IP: Logged |
augentier Knowflake Posts: 893 From: KS Registered: Nov 2007
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posted October 16, 2008 01:11 PM
I inevitably draw and become interested in men with Venus in Cancer or Venus in Aquarius. everything else changes (except I have never really drawn a Gemini or Libra man). I think the Venus in Cancers like me because I am curvy and feminine but I also have a water Venus so we get each other. Venus in Aquarius...apparently I'm really weird ...they always say i'm "different". ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius Venus::Scorpio Mars::Pisces IP: Logged |
artemisss Knowflake Posts: 218 From: NY, NY, USA Registered: Feb 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 04:51 PM
YES!!!! Absolutely!First Love Ascendant = Scorpio Sun= Virgo Moon = Pisces Mercury= Virgo Venus= Leo Mars= Leo A 2 year informal “b/f” lover who has turned a best-best friend (6yrs now) Ascendant = Aqua Sun= Aries Moon = Scorpio Mercury= Pisces Venus= Pisces Mars= Cancer 8 month r’ship
Ascendant = Aqua Sun= Gemini Moon = Cancer Mercury= Taurus Venus= Leo Mars= Gemini Short lived:
Ascendant = Cancer Sun= Leo Moon = Scorpio Mercury= Leo Venus= Virgo Mars= Virgo Another short fling
Ascendant = Cancer Sun= Gemini Moon = Cancer Mercury= Taurus Venus= Aries Mars= Gemini Most recent heartbreak (ended in march, lasted 2 yrs)
Ascendant = Aqua Sun= Virgo Moon = Scorpio Mercury= Virgo Venus= Leo Mars= Scorpio Me: Ascendant= Aqua Sun= Sag Moon= Pisces Mercury= Sag Venus= Cap Mars= Aqua SOOO interesting.... IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 86 From: Australia Registered: Oct 2007
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posted October 17, 2008 09:12 PM
Hi Everyone,Very interesting topic Lara! Thanks it's food for thought - relationship or spiritual connection patterns. Worst relationship - ex Ascendant Gemini Sun Capricorn Moon Gemini Mars libra Venus Aquarius First romantic relationship Ascendant Scorpio Moon Scorpio Venus Scopio Mars Aquarius Treated me like a Queen Ascendant Capricorn Sun Stagittarius Venus Capricorn Mars Stagittarius Deep spiritual connection- Airport guy Ascendant Capricorn Sun Capricorn Moon Pisces Venus Pisces Mars Pisces Soul Mate Ascendant Scorpio Sun Capricorn cusp Aquarius Moon Tarus Venus Sagitarius Mars Scorpio It's great to look at patterns on paper. First,I wrote out my details to have an overview look at patterns. I am amazed at how I am attracted to certain types of men! For me, I have discovered the best relationship is intense sexually,emotionally and spiritually. I want a committed (Venus Taurus) to spiritual growth, intense yet eccentric (Mars Aquarius) and independent ( give me alot of space and freedom)free and fun loving man. Of course, in addition, a man who has honourable character. My info: Ascendant Pisces Sun libra cusp Scorpio Moon Capricorn Venus Taurus Mars Aquarius The worst relationship, destructive and abusive, has many air elements. No wonder, why I felt like the relationship was going no where but square one! Too much air for me. Yes, definitely in denial about this one (Pisces ascendant) with rose coloured eye glassess. Best decision I made was to leave. Not listening to my intuition cost alot. If I had listened to my intuition I would have left alot sooner instead of years later (Moon Capricorn and Venus Taurus fixed stubborness..lol). I had this dream that my Dad said, that something was wrong with his head. Right on..lol....no need to mix words. There was something definitely wrong with his head! First romantic relationship was intense sexually but with alot of freedom and independence (both with Mars in Aquarius). I never felt jealous in the relationship. We were good friends. We are better off as friends than lovers. But, don't me wrong the sex life was fulfilling and raunchy! I have no complaints in the sex deparment. It's just that he knew we were not Soul Mates and was committed to finding his purpose in life, Soul Mate and studies! Bascially, he knew what he wanted and went after it ( Sun and Venus Scorpio). He was eccentric in a loving detached Mars Aquarius way. Best decision I made was to stay good friends. The guy who treated me like a Queen is now married but we remain good friends. But the chemistry was one - sided. I didn't feel romantic chemistry with him but was really great buddies with him. We would have overnight discussions,debates ( Sun and Moon in Stagittarius ) and alot of fun. He gave me alot of independence. We use to live together as students - roomates but he was really hurt that I went out with another guy as he had strong romantic feelings for me. I thought he was my Soul Mate but I didn't understand why there was no sexual chemistry. I still love him but not in love with him. But, fate had other ideas with the one who treated me like a Queen. With his moon in scorpio he was intensly committed to his studies and perserved and got his degree. He was only 21 years old when I met him but, he had an mature head on his shoulders (Capricorn Ascendent and Venus in Capricorn). Very stable, serious, mature yet fun loving guy (Sun stagittrius). Sydney International Airport guy I met just over a year ago that I had a strong chemistry and spiritual connection has Sun Capricorn and Ascendant in Capricorn. He seemed very serious about his studies and an old soul. With Moon, Venus and Mars in Pisces we had a very strong physic-spiritual-connection. But there was sexaul chemistry there too. However, what was missing was a deep soul connection meaning the windows of the soul - eyes connection. Sun conjuntion Moon connection and Sun trine Moon ( his Sun Capricorn conjunct Moon Capricorn and mine Sun Scorpio trine his Moon). Thanks 8th Moon you are right we have strong Sun Pyshic connection. You are really good without knowing Sun - Moon aspects! Soul Mate - book shelf guy our Suns are compatible ( his - Capricorn cusp Aquarius -mine Sun Libra cusp Scorpio). With him, I have the best of both worlds seriousness,mature yet freedom loving,intellectual and eccentric. With Soul Mate his Mars opposite my Venus in Taurus there is definitely chemistry! In addition, with this aspect we both love ranchy sex! However, I have Venus in Taurus and want ranchy sex in a committmed relationship. Definitely, this above opposition is a soul -test regarding sexually committed relationship. Also, my Mars sexiles his Venus. His Sun conjuncts Mars (Mine: Sun conjucts his Mars) and there is a great deal of passion and sexual chemistry between us. However, I don't need astrology to know that we are Soul Mates it's just a knowing within. But, it's very interesting to chart relationship patterns to show the vaildilaty of astrology, insight of aspects indicators and intuition! Hugs
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