Lindaland
  Astrology
  partner patterns

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   partner patterns
Lara
Knowflake

Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006

posted October 16, 2008 04:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Has anyone else noticed patterns in your ex partners when it comes to sun/moon/venus/mars/ASC.

1st husband
sun - pisces
moon - leo
venus - aquarius
mars - scorpio
AC - scorpio

2nd husband
sun - aries
moon - libra
venus - aries
mars - taurus
AC - scorpio

Father of my youngest
sun - aries
moon - taurus
venus - aries
mars - taurus
AC - libra

1st love
sun - sagittarius
moon - taurus
venus - capricorn
mars - libra
AC - pisces

great love
sun - aries
moon - aquarius
venus - pisces
mars - cancer
AC - aries

current lover
sun - leo
moon - aquarius
venus - leo
mars - aquarius
AC - pisces


Is it just me or is there a pattern here with water AC, fire sun and either air moon/venus!
I seem to attract a similar type over and over. Where would l find why that is in my chart please? What do l look at? Venus? mars?

IP: Logged

DepTaurus
Knowflake

Posts: 131
From: oakville, ontario, canada
Registered: Sep 2008

posted October 16, 2008 05:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
lara you should prolly look at your mars and venus placemnts and houses and if they have any aspects to eachother. or check out your sun maybe it has some aspects to your venus and mars. alos there could be moon aspects to your venus and mars.

IP: Logged

PeaceAngel
Knowflake

Posts: 6678
From: Australia
Registered: May 2008

posted October 16, 2008 05:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
God no! I try to make them different each time. Don't need to repeat mistakes/patterns.

IP: Logged

buena36
Knowflake

Posts: 485
From: Europe
Registered: Jul 2008

posted October 16, 2008 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for buena36     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Lara,

As I have started late with Astrology so I don't even know when my love - friends were born.

I know:

My fiancé (American) had (or has):

Scorpio Sun,
Capricorn Moon,
Sagittarius Venus,
AC unknown.

My great love (my Karma):

Capricorn Sun,
Aries Moon,
Scorpio Venus
AC Libra (the same degree as I)

Other love:

1.
Aquarius Sun,
Aries Moon,
Aries Venus,
AC Scorpio.

2.
Libra Sun,
Libra Venus
Capricorn Moon
AC Capricorn.

3.
Libra Sun,
Scorpio Venus
Cancer Moon,
AC Cancer.

As you see, there is enough Scorpio and Libra.

If I hadn't pains all the time, there would be Harem.

Buena

IP: Logged

Lara
Knowflake

Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006

posted October 16, 2008 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Interesting Buena! You have a similar pattern to me.

Ok thanks DepTaurus, let me look.

hehe PeaceAngel - it just happens, what can l say!

IP: Logged

Lara
Knowflake

Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006

posted October 16, 2008 05:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
1st husband (he controlled me)
sun - pisces - opposes my pluto
moon - leo - trine my moon/venus/saturn/NN
venus - aquarius - sextile moon/venus/saturn/NN
mars - scorpio -
AC - scorpio - trine sun/pluto

2nd husband (worst relationship ever!)
sun - aries - conjunct moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine vertex,
moon - libra - trine AC
venus - aries - trine AC
mars - taurus - conjunct sun, square AC
AC - scorpio - opposes sun, conjunct juno, square AC

Father of my youngest (nightmare relationship)
sun - aries - conjunct moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine vertex
moon - taurus - conjunct mars, trine pluto
venus - aries - conjunct moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine vertex
mars - taurus - conjunct mars, trine pluto
AC - libra - sextile AC

1st love (so easy and wonderful)
sun - sagittarius - trine AC
moon - taurus - conjunct sun, trine AC
venus - capricorn - square moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine pluto
mars - libra - opp moon/venus/saturn/NN, conjunct IC
AC - pisces - square moon/venus/saturn/NN, trine mars/pluto

great love (easy but he became too boring)
sun - aries trine my AC
moon - aquarius opposes my AC/square my sun/juno
venus - pisces
mars - cancer trine my juno
AC - aries

current lover (amazing)
sun - aries conjunct my AC/square my sun/trine venus & saturn
moon - aquarius square my sun & juno/opposes my AC
venus - leo square my sun & juno/conjunct my AC
mars - aquarius sextile my moon & venus
AC - pisces sextile my sun/trine my juno

SO interesting that all the worst relationships had planets conjuncting my stellium!

Anyone see this pattern? I thought conjuncts on personal planets were good. Seems like squares and oppositions are better for me... hmmm

IP: Logged

Green Fairy
Knowflake

Posts: 1024
From:
Registered: Feb 2006

posted October 16, 2008 06:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Green Fairy     Edit/Delete Message
My crushes

1]
Pisces Sun, Moon, Venus & Mars

2]
Pisces Sun/Cancer Moon/Aries Venus & Mars

3]
Pisces Sun [I'd bet some Aries in his chart, he was a redhead after all]

4][currently]
I have no idea about him, but I'd guess he has strong Saturn, Mars and/or Neptune in his chart.

5]
Cancer Sun & Mars/Leo Moon/Gemini Venus/Scorpio Asc

I blame my:

7th [I'm a Virgo Asc] and 8th H [in Aries]/Gem Venus/Cancer Mars.

There's almost always a Pluto/personal planet square in my synastry charts.

IP: Logged

The Mutable Night Force
Knowflake

Posts: 1489
From: England
Registered: Dec 2004

posted October 16, 2008 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message
Pretty sure there's been hardly any link between the last three people I've fancied! Although there's a definite link in what keeps going wrong....!
Must say I'm partial to the odd Scorpy influence... oh yes.

1st person- long standing crush
Sun- Capricorn
Moon- Sagittarius
Venus- Pisces
Mars- Pisces
ASC- Scorpio

2nd person- ex-boyfriend
Sun- Sagittarius
Moon- Libra
Venus- Scorpio
Mars- Pisces
ASC- Aquarius

3rd person- last person was interested in/kissed etc.
Sun- Libra
Moon- Gemini
Venus- Leo
Mars- Leo
ASC- Leo

Wait, wait! I see the pattern. The moon sign of the person I've last liked is the Sun sign of the next!
Good ol' Maths.

IP: Logged

amowls
Knowflake

Posts: 866
From: Richmond, VA USA
Registered: Dec 2007

posted October 16, 2008 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Current:
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Leo
Mercury - Aquarius
Venus - Aquarius
Mars - Taurus
ASC - Cancer

Unofficial dude 2:
Sun - Libra
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Libra
Venus - Libra
Mars - Virgo
ASC - Leo

Unofficial dude 1:
Sun - Aquarius
Moon - Virgo
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Capricorn
Mars - Aries
ASC - Scorpio

Ex boyf:
Sun - Leo
Mercury - Cancer
Moon - Sagittarius
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Aries
ASC - Virgo

Ex ex boyf:
Sun - Gemini
Moon - Pisces
Mercury - Gemini
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Pisces
ASC unknown

First love:
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Scorpio
Mercury - Aquarius
Venus- Taurus
Mars - Capricorn
ASC unknown

Very all over the place.

IP: Logged

augentier
Knowflake

Posts: 893
From: KS
Registered: Nov 2007

posted October 16, 2008 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for augentier     Edit/Delete Message
I inevitably draw and become interested in men with Venus in Cancer or Venus in Aquarius. everything else changes (except I have never really drawn a Gemini or Libra man).

I think the Venus in Cancers like me because I am curvy and feminine but I also have a water Venus so we get each other.

Venus in Aquarius...apparently I'm really weird ...they always say i'm "different".

------------------
Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

IP: Logged

artemisss
Knowflake

Posts: 218
From: NY, NY, USA
Registered: Feb 2008

posted October 17, 2008 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for artemisss     Edit/Delete Message
YES!!!! Absolutely!

First Love

Ascendant = Scorpio
Sun= Virgo
Moon = Pisces
Mercury= Virgo
Venus= Leo
Mars= Leo

A 2 year informal “b/f” lover who has turned a best-best friend (6yrs now)

Ascendant = Aqua
Sun= Aries
Moon = Scorpio
Mercury= Pisces
Venus= Pisces
Mars= Cancer


8 month r’ship

Ascendant = Aqua
Sun= Gemini
Moon = Cancer
Mercury= Taurus
Venus= Leo
Mars= Gemini


Short lived:

Ascendant = Cancer
Sun= Leo
Moon = Scorpio
Mercury= Leo
Venus= Virgo
Mars= Virgo


Another short fling

Ascendant = Cancer
Sun= Gemini
Moon = Cancer
Mercury= Taurus
Venus= Aries
Mars= Gemini


Most recent heartbreak (ended in march, lasted 2 yrs)

Ascendant = Aqua
Sun= Virgo
Moon = Scorpio
Mercury= Virgo
Venus= Leo
Mars= Scorpio

Me:

Ascendant= Aqua
Sun= Sag
Moon= Pisces
Mercury= Sag
Venus= Cap
Mars= Aqua

SOOO interesting....

IP: Logged

saronna
Knowflake

Posts: 86
From: Australia
Registered: Oct 2007

posted October 17, 2008 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for saronna     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Everyone,

Very interesting topic Lara! Thanks it's food for thought - relationship or spiritual connection patterns.

Worst relationship - ex
Ascendant Gemini
Sun Capricorn
Moon Gemini
Mars libra
Venus Aquarius

First romantic relationship
Ascendant Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Venus Scopio
Mars Aquarius

Treated me like a Queen
Ascendant Capricorn
Sun Stagittarius
Venus Capricorn
Mars Stagittarius

Deep spiritual connection- Airport guy
Ascendant Capricorn
Sun Capricorn
Moon Pisces
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces

Soul Mate
Ascendant Scorpio
Sun Capricorn cusp Aquarius
Moon Tarus
Venus Sagitarius
Mars Scorpio

It's great to look at patterns on paper. First,I wrote out my details to have an overview look at patterns. I am amazed at how I am attracted to certain types of men! For me, I have discovered the best relationship is intense sexually,emotionally and spiritually. I want a committed (Venus Taurus) to spiritual growth, intense yet eccentric (Mars Aquarius) and independent ( give me alot of space and freedom)free and fun loving man. Of course, in addition, a man who has honourable character.

My info:
Ascendant Pisces
Sun libra cusp Scorpio
Moon Capricorn
Venus Taurus
Mars Aquarius

The worst relationship, destructive and abusive, has many air elements. No wonder, why I felt like the relationship was going no where but square one! Too much air for me. Yes, definitely in denial about this one (Pisces ascendant) with rose coloured eye glassess. Best decision I made was to leave. Not listening to my intuition cost alot. If I had listened to my intuition I would have left alot sooner instead of years later (Moon Capricorn and Venus Taurus fixed stubborness..lol). I had this dream that my Dad said, that something was wrong with his head. Right on..lol....no need to mix words. There was something definitely wrong with his head!

First romantic relationship was intense sexually but with alot of freedom and independence (both with Mars in Aquarius). I never felt jealous in the relationship. We were good friends. We are better off as friends than lovers. But, don't me wrong the sex life was fulfilling and raunchy! I have no complaints in the sex deparment. It's just that he knew we were not Soul Mates and was committed to finding his purpose in life, Soul Mate and studies! Bascially, he knew what he wanted and went after it ( Sun and Venus Scorpio). He was eccentric in a loving detached Mars Aquarius way. Best decision I made was to stay good friends.

The guy who treated me like a Queen is now married but we remain good friends. But the chemistry was one - sided. I didn't feel romantic chemistry with him but was really great buddies with him. We would have overnight discussions,debates ( Sun and Moon in Stagittarius ) and alot of fun. He gave me alot of independence. We use to live together as students - roomates but he was really hurt that I went out with another guy as he had strong romantic feelings for me. I thought he was my Soul Mate but I didn't understand why there was no sexual chemistry. I still love him but not in love with him.

But, fate had other ideas with the one who treated me like a Queen. With his moon in scorpio he was intensly committed to his studies and perserved and got his degree. He was only 21 years old when I met him but, he had an mature head on his shoulders
(Capricorn Ascendent and Venus in Capricorn). Very stable, serious, mature yet fun loving guy (Sun stagittrius).

Sydney International Airport guy I met just over a year ago that I had a strong chemistry and spiritual connection has Sun Capricorn and Ascendant in Capricorn. He seemed very serious about his studies and an old soul. With Moon, Venus and Mars in Pisces we had a very strong physic-spiritual-connection. But there was sexaul chemistry there too. However, what was missing was a deep soul connection meaning the windows of the soul - eyes connection. Sun conjuntion Moon connection and Sun trine Moon ( his Sun Capricorn conjunct Moon Capricorn and mine Sun Scorpio trine his Moon). Thanks 8th Moon you are right we have strong Sun Pyshic connection. You are really good without knowing Sun - Moon aspects!

Soul Mate - book shelf guy our Suns are compatible ( his - Capricorn cusp Aquarius -mine Sun Libra cusp Scorpio). With him, I have the best of both worlds seriousness,mature yet freedom loving,intellectual and eccentric. With Soul Mate his Mars opposite my Venus in Taurus there is definitely chemistry! In addition, with this aspect we both love ranchy sex! However, I have Venus in Taurus and want ranchy sex in a committmed relationship. Definitely, this above opposition is a soul -test regarding sexually committed relationship. Also, my Mars sexiles his Venus. His Sun conjuncts Mars (Mine: Sun conjucts his Mars) and there is a great deal of passion and sexual chemistry between us. However, I don't need astrology to know that we are Soul Mates it's just a knowing within. But, it's very interesting to chart relationship patterns to show the vaildilaty of astrology, insight of aspects indicators and intuition!

Hugs


IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2008

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a