posted October 16, 2008 02:46 PM         

http://www.flickr.com/photos/31471955@N02/2947704116/
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I have listed some of our composite aspects below. Pretty much a lot of conjuncts!!!

posted October 16, 2008 04:57 PM         

I'd watch out for Neptune on the ASC, though. Robert Hand says that when this happens, one or both might have problems in the relationship, but the other partner doesn't know.

posted October 16, 2008 08:09 PM         

Sun Conjunct Moon
With Sun conjunct Moon in the composite chart, the two of you will have a single- mindedness of purpose that is usually lacking in other relationships. This aspect is especially good in the chart of a love relationship. It indicates that you are truly complementary partners.
Your relationship has the potential for bringing something new into the world. This position indicates that you are somehow more complete as a partnership than as individuals.
Sun Conjunct Mercury
The conjunction of composite Sun and Mercury signifies that there will be a great deal of mental activity in this relationship. This aspect is good for verbal communication between you.
You both should be wary of the tendency to intellectualize your emotions rather than deal with them at the gut level.
You have an unusual similarity of thinking, or at least a better than average ability to understand each other's thinking.
Mercury is a planet of travel, not always in the literal sense of the word, but in the metaphorical sense; that is, you like to be continually exposed to new ideas and experiences together.
One of the most positive attributes of this aspect is the ability to be detached from what you are discussing. Because of this detachment you may even be able to talk about your relationship and arrive at understandings that will help you both to get more out of it.

Moon Conjunct Mercury
The conjunction of the composite Moon and Mercury can contribute many strong and useful features to a relationship. Very simply, it means that the two of you can talk about your feelings instead of keeping them bottled up inside. The Moon conjunct Mercury may have two different kinds of effects.
If the lunar tendency triumphs, you will be able to discuss your emotional situations, but you will be very emotionally involved and subjective. On the other hand, you will really live and feel your emotions, so that something real is communicated between you.
If the mercurial tendency dominates, you will be more detached and rational but also less involved.
Obviously the best tactic with this aspect is to create some kind of balance between these two extremes.

posted October 17, 2008 09:56 AM         

Mama Mia:
It seems so many positive aspects might be a good thing. What caused your relationship to breakdown? Was it too much intensity? Did you get inside each other's head a lot?

My last significant relationship was very intense. We understood each other a lot and for the first time I felt really understood by someone. She gave me the support that I needed when I needed it.
But she also caused so much instability in my life. There was the constant quarelling. A word or a sentence would ruin things for days. I couldn't live like that so we broke up. I don't want to end up the same way here.

amowls:
I was only looking at Mars conjunct saturn. Saturn square NN seems like another important placement.