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Topic: Cancerians
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 11:11 AM
 
l hate to judge butis it me or are cancerians prone to selfishness and being way too emotional? I have 2 cancerian friends and both are just such a pain in the butt sometimes.!  IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 23, 2008 11:20 AM
no its true were just big whingers and sooks! Thats why were selfish we need EVERYTHING to be about us cause we feel better then... lol )) (who doesnt)------------------
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 919
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted October 23, 2008 11:22 AM
don't get me started. Actually there are some cool cancers on here, but the ones I know personally are crazy as hell...and make no sense. One minute sunshine, happiness and light,,the next, moody and mouthy so bad I want to deck em right in the kisser. They can be fun, but they can be MEAN. Maybe it's just the ones I know, cuz like I said, cancerianmoon is cool and some on here seem very ok in my book. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 11:28 AM
Belgz,seriously... and im sorry, l don't mean to pigeon hole but l had such a nightmare with my cancerian friend yesterday. She is a psychic and she told my neighbours daughter, who is only 19 yrs old some negative things about her and her boyfriend. I told my cancerian that it was not a good idea to tell the teenager these things, especially as she hadn't asked her to!!! The cancerian went into the most unbelievable display of ego crushed emotionally and started blaming me.
Now we have fallen out and l am refusing to subscribe to her emotional crap!!! WTF? All l said to her is "All the sh1t you told ****** really traumatized her" and she just lost it on me and is now claiming to be really really hurt PLUS telling me my comment was below the belt and that she can't believe l have betrayed her. LOL Did l miss something? WW3 in her head maybe?? lol IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 11:31 AM
She hassun, mercury and venus in cancer, in 12th house.
moon in aries in 10th house.
mars conjunct IC in 4th/virgo. yeah, she's REALLY bossy and grumpy.
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Libralove09
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Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 23, 2008 11:31 AM
i like cancers, but they get offended too easily, they arnt born with a shell  IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 11:35 AM
exactly.. she's offended... and l did nothing wrong! lolcrazy chick  IP: Logged |
lovegoblin
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From: norfolk, virginia USA
Registered: May 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 11:54 AM
yes we are whiny pains in the butt!
It is because we are insecure.
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MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 689
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Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 23, 2008 12:17 PM
Yeah, I find them to be very selfish at times...emotionally selfish.
My ex mother-in-law was a double Cancer woman, and I wanted to strangle her. She was always very charming with me, but manipulated the &%#* out of her son...I guess the mother-in-law thing isn't uncommon, but this was especially bad. Calling up her son and bawling about how terrible his father is and how he should be more like his own son???? Ok.... CREEPY PERSON!!!
I do have female Cancer friends and when they are good, they are very very good, but when they are bad, ooooh, boy. They can be very draining. I feel like their emotional lollipop sometimes that's been sucked and then dropped into a drain covered with like....hair and lint LOL
But I really love Cancers, esp. the men because they know just how to squirm their way into my heart. The love of my life was a Cancer/Scorpio rising, and he was wonderful, but almost too emotionally security-conscious. I've noticed the same of many other Cancer/Cancer rising men...still love 'em though. They're highly attuned when they're evolved, and know the art of give and take...just so darn lovable, I wanna bake for them and snuggle them and give them big sloppy kisses ------------------
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 12:32 PM
quote:
I feel like their emotional lollipop sometimes that's been sucked and then dropped into a drain covered with like....hair and lint LOL
LOL
that's just how l feel
both the cancerians l know are women... and l really want to strangle them sometimes. They just don't think! They say emotionally retarded comments without thinking how they sound and then blame you for them lol IP: Logged |
blue moon
Moderator Posts: 4700
From: U.K
Registered: Dec 2007
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posted October 23, 2008 12:33 PM
I know a Sun Cancer, Moon Aries person very well.It's a clashing combination of sensitivity and asserting emotional needs. Everyone gets to know how she feels about things, sometimes, maybe, too much. She has a strong need for her feelings to be recognised and validated. She picks up on things that I not necessarily wouldn't notice, but wouldn't think worthy of commenting on, or getting upset over. Certainly not worth making an argument over, though that may happen. It's a combination that could be inclined to be selfishly emotional, but that's just when it goes awry. It's not all bad. You don't have to feel like you are drilling for oil for an opinion or some sign of feeling. There is an ability to listen and take notice of things. Generally speaking, Cancers seem to like their feelings recognised and an apology. Though for some reason, I've never upset a Cancerian. It's the Leos that I seem to upset.
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 23, 2008 07:51 PM
Im like this too i wouldve got offended if you yelled at me i mightve made a mistake and maybe you yelling kinda at her made her realise she made a mistake and kinda took it out on you.You probably made her feel bad but it may be the way you approached her. Aries moon have a quick temper more than anything i think and mixed with cancer probably makes me and your friend similiar i have a gemini moon same short temper and emotional responses are too quick and it can get out of control sometimes
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 07:57 PM
but l didnt yell... it was banter... l have aries moon too though IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 4700
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 23, 2008 09:39 PM
Well I imagine that being both square by sign, and double-cardinal, that cancer sun/aries moon isn't exactly an easy combo to deal with. I also imagine that with the aries moon, that maybe emotions can be a wee bit explosive? I am a cancer who doesn't feel the need to wear my emotions for the world to see (virgo moon is good like that :P ) so when I'm *truly* upset with someone I don't show it, I just freeze the person out. Rarely do I call the person out, unless I feel it's justified and their behavior has warranted it. My actual temper *usually* only comes out in stressful situations. For instance, like when Im irritated, on the road, I'm in a bad mood already and feel pushed, etc. Even that isn't pretty as its pretty much out of the blue like a stroke of lightning but I guess that's the beauty of having an aries mars. *shrugs* IP: Logged |
librasunleomoon
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Registered: Feb 2008
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posted October 23, 2008 11:21 PM
well, except for belgz, all cancers are whiny bitches just kidding just kidding i have some cool friends that are cancers but im just biased because my ex is a cancer and totally acting immature in a way that really is HURTFUL, and some relatives too
grrrr i know there are good ones though... IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 689
From: processing destination......
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 23, 2008 11:36 PM
LOL. Librasunleomoon, you crack me up!!!------------------
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Lara
Knowflake Posts: 3274
From: London
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 24, 2008 02:49 AM
yes she is behaving immaturely and I'm gobsmacked at just how I secure she is!I have even apologised and she still wanted more !!! IP: Logged |
Ranti
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: Chiangmai Thailand
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted October 24, 2008 03:00 AM
they just try to mother you - and probably anyone within their arm length - those cancerians! IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 2085
From: Arizona
Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 24, 2008 03:42 AM
Cancer women are pretty cool and have their moments...but Cancer men are really bad with mood swings(and self absorbed), its to much ughh.------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer "I was born when she kissed me. I died when she left me. I lived a few weeks while she loved me" IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 689
From: processing destination......
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 24, 2008 03:57 AM
Awww. I love Cancer men. I don't mind their moods. I just leave the room after asking what's wrong 100 or so times and get no response LOL. There's got to be a direct correlation here about the gender though...a lot of people seem to be more tolerant of the sign if it's in the opposite sex ------------------
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libraschoice7
Knowflake Posts: 2085
From: Arizona
Registered: Jul 2006
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posted October 24, 2008 04:04 AM
Oh I adore Cancer men, they have their sweet moments, I just don't care for their happy one minute and then gloom and doom the next attitude. ------------------
Sun in Libra
Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer "I was born when she kissed me. I died when she left me. I lived a few weeks while she loved me" IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted October 24, 2008 07:05 AM
You know i have sooo many cancer friends and ive never had the tiniest conflict with them i have never seen any of their moody sides and i dont think theyve seen mine. My 2 cancer friends have lots of leo planets, they both have moon in leo and they seem ok and ive never had an issue with them. I love aries its my fav sign for a girl but i never get along with pisces for some reason i have never come across a pisces girl who has liked me LOL ------------------
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cancerrg
Knowflake Posts: 2819
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Registered: Dec 2004
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posted October 24, 2008 11:50 AM
exactly thats the same with me too .
i have had so many cancer friends but i have never had any such problems . i remember a cancer gal's profile at social site described something as ( i dont remember the exact words ) 'They all smile at me bcos they think i am different '.
'I laugh at them bcos i know they are all the same '. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 4700
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 24, 2008 12:07 PM
^^^You know Rg, I don't know if this is the year if the CANCER for me, but I'm loving every cancer I meet this year. My latest celebrity obsession is even a cancer hahahaha.Not that I had difficult realtionships with cancers to begin with, actually. Come to think of it, (the only truly difficult relationship with another cancer I've ever had is the one with my father) but I don't know why I've never known the cancer men offline like I do now. For instance, while I was working at Applebees' here in NC I met this incredibly handsome and sweet man....who turned out to be gay (*SOBS*), but still, out of all the people I worked with: I had like the easiest/most effortless relationship with *him*. I think it was the connection/intuitive understanding itself, plus the fact that everything was completely platonic that made it so easy between us.  And then there's my bestfriend's boyfriend, he always make me want to go awwwwwww.  They have their issues, but he's still sweet to her. He has a cancer sun and sag moon conjunct her sag sun. IP: Logged |
savanna20
Knowflake Posts: 370
From: Malibu, CA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted October 24, 2008 12:13 PM
Some of them annoy me! Plain and simple. =/ No offense. They're moodiness annoy the heck out of me. My sister in law is a Cancer and she took everything literally! Everyday was a different mood and I hated that!!!Scorpio Sun, Taurus Moon, Libra Rising IP: Logged |
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