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Topic: Horrendous Timing!
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Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted October 30, 2008 09:50 AM
What could cause this in a romantic relationship, especially when it comes to sex? Two people who are obviously hot for one another, everyone can see chemistry between them but whenever they have sex, try to be together or whenever they plan to get together, everything goes up in smoke. I'm talking about car accidents which causes one party to be in recovery for months, death of family member which forces one party to change residence, and being in a relationship when the other is single. Sex is also dramatic with one party freaking out from nerves or big emergencies which always ruin sex like car alarms going off, business establishments going on fire or family members being rushed to hospital- all things which spoil sex. All these moments are years apart but that's just how far between moments of reconcilliation tend to be. What's funny is that love and attraction is not a question. There's compatibility in everything but sex and dates are stamped with an awful seal of fate. Tell me about your bad timing case and your theory on what could have caused it. IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted October 30, 2008 10:00 AM
I have lots of times with events which have included bad timing. Mostly because its not the best time for me. I like to plan things and fit them in...Im meeting such and such at this place at this time? Good, I will be there. Possibly a little off-shoot from your original question, but I guess its down to a lack of clear communication.Your example sounds a little extreme, like mainly based on external events...outside the relationship. Though you did mention one of them in a relationship and the other one not being. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted October 30, 2008 12:04 PM
Kick It. - Very good point. Some bad timing examples are due to external events affecting people while some aren't. Some bad timing is caused by neglecting control of a situation while some is out of one's control. I need to put that factor in my reasoning. Thanks. I didn't think of it in that angle. These aren't all my experiences, in case you were wondering. I've had the car accident bit though where on his way to meet me he almost got himself killed and we never did have a date because I went to hospital instead to just check on him. I was leaving town too. Location is not a problem with me because I'm always darting all over the place, so I can go on a date before I leave town. It's just that if I don't meet you, unless you're the reason, I'm unlikely to visit your part of town anytime soon. The hospital emergency and car alarm also happened to me. Maybe it's me and my natal Venus square Uranus. The fire bit was a wacky Cap friend of mine. Ha. IP: Logged |
Kick It Knowflake Posts: 1032 From: Leeds Registered: May 2008
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posted October 30, 2008 01:11 PM
Yes, its a good point you make that my point was very good. Always is.Maybe something in the composite will indicate troubles of that kind. Always read that a Cappy ASC can indicate some type of delay. Maybe Cappy on the 8th if involved with sex. Events beyond control is normally about Pluto. IP: Logged |
EighthMoon Knowflake Posts: 1400 From: Registered: May 2007
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posted October 30, 2008 04:39 PM
"Events beyond control is normally about Pluto." Yup. I'm also starting to see that connections to Black Moon Lilith are showing up a little too frequently for my comfort. Two people that I know lost their girlfriends w/ significant transits from "her."
With your Venus/Uranus square, maybe something in transit was hitting them? Or...a crazy composite. (You know I'm the poster child for that play! Ha!) 8th IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted October 30, 2008 04:46 PM
I think it's right maybe to look at the outer planets as mentioned as they are more influential on everyone and these things seem to be out of the control of their own hands.However, my first instinct was to look at maybe a Venus square Mars type situation, where the timing is always wrong BUT that's more a personal interaction rather than outside effect. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted October 30, 2008 05:23 PM
Kick It- lol8th- you're just special. hehehe. 23-in one of my cases, my Mars was square his Venus. Hmmm. IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2160 From: Born in S.Africa Registered: Jun 2007
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posted October 30, 2008 05:23 PM
Kick It- lol8th- you're just special. hehehe. 23-in one of my cases, my Mars was square his Venus. Hmmm. IP: Logged |
EighthMoon Knowflake Posts: 1400 From: Registered: May 2007
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posted October 30, 2008 05:41 PM
What's Uranus doing in composite? Just curious.... 8th IP: Logged |