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Topic: Good girl reputation..
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Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2828 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 02, 2008 02:24 AM
Follows me where ever I go...Men so see me as innocent and pure..I am 40 years old and these guys still see me as if I am 15. I was out tonight at a party and it was nothing but ppl there from my highschool days, and I told one guy I am going to get me some wine. He says don't mess up your good girl reputation. i am not upset about that I guess I am just babbling bc I have had a glass or two of wine..ITs just crazy this guy that I had been feeling lately told me I was like sweet polly pure bread..LOL!!! I guess men are so used to raunch ass women..I guess us good girls finish last for real... IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 6678 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 02:46 AM
Well this is an interesting thread, because, oddly enough, I have this thing happening too. I've spent a lifetime being told I look "innocent" and "wholesome" when I'm the biggest mischief maker in any room.I can't find anything that would denote that in my chart. I have Aries Ascendant so I shouldn't look innocent - especially with Ascendant opposite Uranus. IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Pennsylvania Registered: Dec 2005
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posted November 02, 2008 03:02 AM
"raunch ass women", indeed.And they seem so proud of themselves. Sick. Cherish your good girl reputation, because blatantly scandalous women are everywhere. Evil hearted girls have contributed terribly to my increasing distrust of women. It's very depressing, when all I want is to find a good girl. IP: Logged |
aqua/scorp Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Middle Earth Registered: Jun 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 04:09 AM
I get this alot too! Everyone thinks i could do no wrong..sometimes when men have this view point it can have its down sides but ultimately its good thing to have said..As there are a calibur of women out there that do the female race no favours. Me personally I just just have good self respect and morals. I'm also an Aries rising so I don't know how i even look innocent.. Maybe it makes us look younger and youthful appearence is often associated with innocence even when that is not the case.IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 04:19 AM
Yes I'm a good girl too. I am an Aries Rising with Jupiter on the ASC. However, people also see the cheeky side sometimes too - Mars in Gemini. Anyway, I'm happy to be a morally upright girl , I know I'm better than the rest. IP: Logged |
aqua/scorp Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Middle Earth Registered: Jun 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 04:25 AM
yay! 23!IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 04:43 AM
I think Aries rising is very strange. It's both very innocent and incredibly sexual in appearance. I can't explain it. I often look at pictures of people like Colin Farrell who I think is Aries ASC (thanks PA) and see a purity in him. Maybe that's what us Aries rising conveys, a youthfulness or naivety. Anyway, no shame in being a good girl. Karma always comes back to those who are bad. IP: Logged |
23 Knowflake Posts: 4497 From: Outside, to watch the nightfall in the rain Registered: Aug 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 04:44 AM
oops DPIP: Logged |
Green Fairy Knowflake Posts: 1024 From: Registered: Feb 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 05:07 AM
I'm a good girl too. Sometimes it can be a pain in the ass tbh.[too much of that Lunar energy going on]. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 6678 From: Australia Registered: May 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 05:45 AM
23The fact that you could look at a pic of Colin Farrell and see something pure has something to do with your psyche more than him I suspect. Ummm, I can't print what I think of when I see Colin Farrell. Well, there seems to be some Aries consistency happening here. Youthful Aries could be it. I always think I look older than I am, but people tell me I look younger. I like them more when they do that. So maybe they're all just lying or amusing themselves because I'm so gullible. Another lovable Aries trait, I believe. IP: Logged |
aqua/scorp Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Middle Earth Registered: Jun 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 05:46 AM
Oh yh i'm a strong believer inKarma and chain reactions which is why when anyone wrongs me i don't get back at them with revenge as this is lowering myself to their undesirable level but i just sit back wait for time and the universe to take its toll. But yes i think as Aries is the first sign of the zodiac i would believe it reps a a clean slate, fresh beginings so purified. Also i beleive Aries, 1st House cusp is meant to represent the "child"? I remeber reading this somewhere..
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Peri Moderator Posts: 2648 From: Kyiv, Ukraine Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 02, 2008 05:58 AM
to me reputation is another way of manipulation, so you should not get upset and do what others expect of you, do what you feel is rightIP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 06:35 AM
i'm a good girl too but im passionate and my sexuality makes everyone think i'm a bad girl... lolI'm loyal, truthful and faithful - if thats what you mean by good girl IP: Logged |
deuxantares Knowflake Posts: 1197 From: Meet Me in Sofia Registered: Nov 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 07:40 AM
Wow, I thought I was the only good girl here. IP: Logged |
AquaGuy Knowflake Posts: 143 From: NJ Registered: Jun 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 07:52 AM
Mama Mia - it's not a put-down - it's a compliment... ------------------ February 3 1968... Sun = Aquarius... Ascendant = Libra... Moon + Saturn = Aries... Venus = Capricorn... Jupiter + Uranus + Pluto = Virgo... Mercury + Mars = Pisces... Neptune = Scorpio... Email = theaquaguy@optonline.net IP: Logged |
Libralove09 Knowflake Posts: 560 From: Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 07:55 AM
theres nothing wrong with it, you should be proud of it! its actually important to women in this sexist world. (you know, women who sleep around get labled a you know what, and when men do it, they get labled a stud or some ******** )so be proud of it! although i have to admit, i got a little thing for women who don't look innocent. IP: Logged |
Quinnie Knowflake Posts: 1193 From: on a chair beside a window Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 02, 2008 09:17 AM
Men can also project the good girl/bad girl image onto you. If they know you like a sister for example, you are a good girl, if you are wearing a sexy dress and they have never met you before then you are a bad girl!Truly if he said you are a good girl it means you are girlfriend material to him. Bad girls are more for just one night stands. It's just all projection. Put on a mini skirt and heels and see how his reaction changes! IP: Logged |
Quinnie Knowflake Posts: 1193 From: on a chair beside a window Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 02, 2008 09:20 AM
I love Colin Farrell!!!Aries ascendant you say! Thought so. IP: Logged |
VirgOh Knowflake Posts: 236 From: JC,NJ,USA Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 09:42 AM
I am very well known for my bad girl reputation and I love it.LOL IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 3274 From: London Registered: Mar 2006
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posted November 02, 2008 09:51 AM
can't you be both.. wear sexy and be a good girl in the loyal and faithful department?I mean at home it's best to be a very bad girl!!!! IP: Logged |
VirgOh Knowflake Posts: 236 From: JC,NJ,USA Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 02, 2008 09:57 AM
Lara at home and in bed I like my babes to literally be either go go dancers or prostitutes.LOL IP: Logged |
Deliverance Knowflake Posts: 440 From: Bolloxville, Nutbush Registered: Mar 2005
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posted November 02, 2008 10:08 AM
I don't know if I fit into either good girl or bad girl. Im good in the sense that I'm not promiscuous & uninterested in sex n all that. But I'm bad because Ill fight back. If I get a wolf whistle or nonsense like that, I'll scowl & lay down some caustic cusses.I guess I'm a tough good girl BTW - I agree with others, its the ultimate compliment to be a "good-girl" not too keen on the term "girl" but the meaning behind it is definitely positive. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 553 From: Registered: May 2007
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posted November 02, 2008 10:47 AM
I can definitely relate. Everyone thinks I'm so innocent and that I can never do anything even remotely wrong. I'm human and make mistakes, too and when I admit my mistakes, people don't believe me. I really am a good girl, but I've been told that some guys are afraid to date me because they're worried that they'll hurt me. I can't help but laugh when I hear this because I'm far from fragile. I'm not the most sensitive person out there.I have a feeling that the cause of this (at least for me) is my Neptune conjunct ascendant, which allows people to see what they want to see when they look at me. It also gives me these puppy-dog eyes. Lol. The cappie ascendant also makes me look really young coupled with a Gemini Sun, which makes me have a very enthusiastic and youthful nature. However, I think the biggest culprit is my Venus trine Neptune because it makes me come across as being very sweet. I tend to go out of my way to help others. However, if someone tries to take advantage of me, then I'll do some major a** kicking. IP: Logged |
amowls Knowflake Posts: 866 From: Richmond, VA USA Registered: Dec 2007
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posted November 02, 2008 11:25 AM
People always think I'm really young (Gemini ASC) but not necessarily a "good girl." I guess you can tell I'm sassy if you talk to me idk.IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 719 From: sydney Registered: Feb 2007
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posted November 02, 2008 11:40 AM
i have a reputation for being shifty lolI think thats my cancerian side being friendly but distant and other interpret it as SHIFTY. ------------------ Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |