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Topic: Ways to cope with heartache based on sign or aspects?
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Taurus83
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: Fairfax, Virginia, USA
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 08:19 PM
 
Just wondering if, in astrology, there might be ways that that're better for some than others to go about with coping with heartache?As a Taurus with Pisces Moon I feel that I tend to hold onto feelings that are no longer good for me to hang onto. I tend to just bottle it up and stop doing things and just kinda sulk... If anyone can give me advice I'll go ahead and post my chart... Thanks for any help... IP: Logged |
artemisss
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: NY, NY, USA
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 08:21 PM
taurus- post your chart hunIP: Logged |
Taurus83
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: Fairfax, Virginia, USA
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 09:29 PM
 This is just the basic. I don't know how to sort through all the other options so let me know if there's a better chart to select and post. Thanks so much for the help. I'm gonna go lay in bed for a bit. Supposed to do some reading for class tomorrow but I just feel drained... Didn't even go play flag football tonight which I should've. I probably should've went though, would've gotten my mind off of things for a bit... IP: Logged |
maxine_scorp
Knowflake Posts: 23
From:
Registered: Oct 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 09:58 PM
when i fall in love, i fall hard... 
when i feel heartbroken, i usually hide in my room crying for days, i don't eat, i don't feel like talking to anyone. i'll usually spend money and pamper myself and then get back to crying...scorp girl here IP: Logged |
VirgOh
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: JC,NJ,USA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 10:05 PM
And when do you plot to sting back then?IP: Logged |
Taurus83
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: Fairfax, Virginia, USA
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 10:16 PM
"when i feel heartbroken, i usually hide in my room crying for days, i don't eat, i don't feel like talking to anyone. i'll usually spend money and pamper myself and then get back to crying..."That's kinda like me... I don't cry openly though... I just feel like crap inside and just become expressionless. I just don't let anything show on the surface at all... Worst thing is that I lose my appetite which is bad when I'm trying to work out and put on some weight so I feel a bit more confident with my physical appearance. And my energy levels go to rock bottom and I don't exercise or feel like doing anything... Sucks too cause I had been heartbroken for a long time, finally got over her and back in school and everything was going good. Then I stupidly let myself start talking to someone else instead of just focusing on my studies and now I'm in the same boat... It just seems crazy to me that she could've met this guy once in person (who lives like 3-4 hours away) and then over the timespan of maybe 3 months they're moving in together and engaged... I shouldn't even dwell on this but it's hard... Hope Lara gets back with some input on my chart. IP: Logged |
maxine_scorp
Knowflake Posts: 23
From:
Registered: Oct 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 10:25 PM
i never sting back though.IP: Logged |
VirgOh
Knowflake Posts: 236
From: JC,NJ,USA
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 10:27 PM
Hmmmm, that's a first.If I dont sting back I can't sleep at night, I can spend a lifetime planning it too lol Scorp moon here. IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 719
From: sydney
Registered: Feb 2007
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posted November 03, 2008 10:30 PM
Me and my boyfriend that i was on off for 9 years completly ended 2 weeks ago. As soon as i knew it was over for real and his love was all a lie i found myself a compatible friend and we have been going out evryday!!!If im going out and doing things im fine im just really angry but i feel some sort of freedom because how much worse is it wasting a day with someone your not going to be with forever and someone who doesnt want you? Sorry to all males but majority of them dont know what they want and the second you know what they want that is an opportunity for you to move on with your life and progress. Yes its upsetting but dont u get upset for the time u lost that you couldve been spending having fun and being carefree rather than worrying about what your gonna do for someone whos not worthy of your time and effort. Dont get me wrong i get upset especially when i go out and the guys are all losers but when start to compare no matter how much my ex was better than them at the end of the day he didnt do right by me so how can he be better than the idiots i see around sydney? I dont even thiink love is real. I think love is sex and good sex. When someone makes u feel good its usually physically and its like a drug you get hooked on them. I thank god ive been shown a direction rather than dwell on a loser. ONES MISFORTUNE IS ANOTHER PERSONS OPPORTUNITY... Stay strong! we all get over everything and crying doesnt make it better. Go sleep with his best friend LOL JOKES :P ------------------
Sun.. Cancer Moon.. Gemini Mars.. Cancer Mercury.. Cancer Venus.. Leo Ascendant....... Virgo IP: Logged |
artemisss
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: NY, NY, USA
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted November 03, 2008 10:43 PM
first, sulk in the pain, if you suppress it and hide it...it will only resurface years down the road to bite you in your a**. so its okay to really "experience" it, and recognize it the way that you are- it is healthy (in the long run)second, reach out to friends, "do" things, music and art are great escapists for you.... make new friends in thsoe areas of life, learn from the new experiences and grow from them...you will overcome it... you are a taurus!! but your soft moon is so sensitive and feels it so deeply. (which is good, because you will truly get to experience love...again, i promise) just hang in there, and always look at the cup as half ful and not half empty- as cliche as it sounds, its true. outlook can control your destiny. and you control your outlook, hence, ultimately your fate. so ew friends away from the old associations with the ex, new experiences, new music, new art different than what you experiences with the ex...and just experience new things - and remember each day is a new day...everytime the sun comes up, its a renouned new chance to make it all happen. IP: Logged |
Taurus83
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: Fairfax, Virginia, USA
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted November 04, 2008 10:28 PM
^Bump for Lara ><If anyone else can maybe tell me negative tendencies or habits that I should be aware of so I can try to avoid or fix them that'd be good too. Thanks. IP: Logged |
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