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cutecapricorn89
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posted November 04, 2008 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
Hey!
Im new to astrology and this website im not a total pro at it but it has always been soo interesting to me. I try to read as much as i can about it but anywho to get to the point i really like this guy but everytime i read about his sign and mine we are supposed to be incompatible, he is an aquarius im a capricorn and i have never ever had a guy aquarian for a friend so im kind of like iffy about the whole situation lol. until i got to college all i would seem to attract and be attracted to were leos(my dads a leo too and my MC is in leo im not sure if that has anything to do with it) but now that i am in college i all i know are aquarians! even my roomie was one but i hated her > lol.and now this guy i like is one and he told me he likes me too and i was shocked because i didnt know if he was being friendly or what and he was shocked that i couldnt tell that he did lmao , and when we talk we talk for sooooooo long its weird when he comes to visit me we talk soo much like he has visited me a couple of times but the last time he just kept staring at me and like he tryes to find ways to touch me(not in a bad way or a gross way! lol)like when i first met him i knew it was a little akward because he would always text me or call me alot and this was like this year aug(he as in my class like last sem but i didnt get to know him until this aug) and ever sence he has had my number he uses it! lol i dont mind but its like every 5 minutes he always hits me up asking me where i am what am i doing. no matter what time i text him or call him he always seems to be up and if he isnt up he calls me soon as he wakes up lol and even if he has to fly out for a conference he always tryes to see me even if its for 5 minutes!he be for he leaves and when he is gone he makes sure that i know when he comes back and how he wants to see me lol. i mean i just thought it was a little extra for a some one who conciders someone else as just a "friend" to do plus he already told me he liked me(liked me like a crush i made sure he clarified it lol).everything i read on aquarians doesnt sound anything like him. oh and by the way my bday is jan 5th 1989 2:30 am and his is jan 25th 1987 7:01 pm. i just want to know am i missing something because i am lost lol thanks everyone

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posted November 04, 2008 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Pestering you with 'phone calls? Yes, that's Aquarius.

If you want to get rid of him, try calling HIM several times and day and sending off a similar amount of texts, embellishing with unnecessary kisses and hearts. He will soon get annoyed.

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posted November 04, 2008 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
lol noo!! i dont want to get rid of him lmaoo i like him toooo im just scared because of all the things i read about them lmao

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posted November 04, 2008 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Then ask him to stop pestering you with unnecessary 'phone calls, because you've got things to do. Can he please call once a day or when there is something urgent to discuss?

He will soon be panting after you like a dog.

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posted November 04, 2008 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Don't sound like she is trying to get rid of him, just wondering is this really how they are..I just think that your Aqua man is either one of the different one's or is acting this way bc he can sense your not really into him OR he has not had his heart broken...I hope he is this way bc he has not had his heart broken and so he is not guarded like alot of them can be especially if they like you..Honestly I think this is how Aqua's really are but if they encounter a bad set up somewhere along the lines they become very difficult. IF they trust again is tuff road to get back there.

The thing is they are very emotional and loving but just good at hiding and controlling it usually..

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posted November 04, 2008 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
ha! it is weird though i know his friends has to wonder whats going on with him when he comes over to visit he stays soo long !but i dont mind its just funny i didnt think him being an aqua he would act like that i mean with the whole thing with them liking freedom it seems like he doesnt , i dunno lol

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posted November 04, 2008 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
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If you want to get rid of him, try calling HIM several times and day and sending off a similar amount of texts, embellishing with unnecessary kisses and hearts. He will soon get annoyed.


sounds like he might be broken-hearted... what l don't get is "how do Aquarian men actually get their heats broken in the first place?"

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posted November 04, 2008 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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yea! i just thought it was weird because of all i have read he isnt like that so i didnt know what was going on. i like hanging with him and all i dont mind his calls its just weird lol

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posted November 04, 2008 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
He don't sound broken hearted at all to me,he sounds less guarded or caught up in the whole I like her more then she likes me thing, which they like. They get broken hearted bc they are so sweet and considerate and fall for the wrong girl and she will tear his butt up..Know that saying one bad apple spoils if for the whole bunch..

Thats initially of course..Trust me the experience they have with the first girl they fall for will set the pace for the duration or atleast for a very long time..

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posted November 04, 2008 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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im not sure yet if he has had his heartbroken, how can i put this i want to ask all those good questions but i dont want it to seem like im scaring him off, even though he told me he doesnt not want me to hold back on my questions, thats just the type of person i am i wont ask questions if i feel like the person might not be comfy answering it. i dont know why i feel like he wouldnt be comfy answering them i just get that darn vibe its weird its like i really understand how he feels when he tells me about something i can put my self in the shoe and see his point of view. i hope that was clear lol

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posted November 04, 2008 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Sounds just like the Aquas I know, they're like cats. They'll be all over you went it suits them, when they'd rather go and hunt a rat they'll be off. Insert a human occupation, work is a favourite, and you are pretty much there for the Aqua male.



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posted November 04, 2008 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
I just think that he is totally interested and thats how they act when they are and not afraid of emotions or whatever..

Good luck Cutecapricorn..You would want this kind of Aqua for sure..

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posted November 04, 2008 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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i just feel like im walking on egg shells around him lol at the same time i do like him though like its crazy. i dont know what i am doing to keep him so interested i thought we were supposed to be incompat?

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posted November 04, 2008 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
It was clear, cutecappy

I agree... that weird vibe is something l experience too. It's like a friendly back off verbally vibe that im sure they don't mean to put out.

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posted November 04, 2008 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
Mama Mia
thank you

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posted November 04, 2008 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Its the begining its always nice then, I do agree on the unpredictableness of them..And they are good for that hot and cold stuff..

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posted November 04, 2008 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
walking on eggshells is the perfect phrase!

Do you also feel him testing you, or like everything you say is going to be analysed or is being judged in some way?

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posted November 04, 2008 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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yeaaa!!!! omg and he tryes to prove to me he isnt like that but i told him he just gives it off and he is like he isnt like that that he really wants me to not thing that but i just cant lmao

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posted November 04, 2008 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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omg!!! yes every convo we have its like he askes me something and he tryes to like i guess debate about it which is fine we both have a merc in aqua i dont know anything about orbs or degrees but i do know our moon venus and mars are all in the same signs.this is too funny because you know what i meannnn

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posted November 04, 2008 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
LOL
i'm in a similar boat... and for the first time in my life l feel myself fumbling over my words hahaha

I just can't get my act together when i'm around him and i'm trying not to show my feelings too much... i like it though.

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posted November 04, 2008 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
You're not incompatible. If I flicked through the ephemeris right you've got the same Moon, Venus, Mars and Mercury signs as each other.

Maybe you just need to take the time to get to know him, work out what he is all about.

He has Venus Conjunct Saturn.

How to interest an Aqua?

Don't try too hard, don't be demanding.

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posted November 04, 2008 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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aww! i knoww sometimes i will feel a certain way i really wantto tell him but that is before i knew he liked me but even now that i know he does i still want to keep my mouth zipped. he even asked me to go to california with him like for a vay-cay,he travels alot and i also thought about that like if we were to go out one day how would i do about him being gone alot. ugh i dunno but i havent felt this way about a guy in a lonnnggg time and im so excited im just scared that something will go wrong i just hope not, and the bad thing is is that i am not a emotional person but now its like he made me one a little bit

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posted November 04, 2008 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
If you've got your charts it might be worth putting them up.

It will give everyone something to talk about other than the election.

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posted November 04, 2008 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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ohh really , course i still want to take my time with things but ugh i feel so excited lol like its christmas when we are around each other i make him laugh so much but he makes me laugh too ,like its a buzz and its scary a bit for me lol

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posted November 04, 2008 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cutecapricorn89     Edit/Delete Message
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ohh ok and um how do i go about doing that? why would it give everyone something to talk about are they bad lmao!!?

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