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ListensToTrees
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posted November 05, 2008 09:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Because it seems to suggest I will always be more or less alone, and that doesn't suit my Libra Moon. The placing and aspects to Uranus mean I am always evolving and therefore never settling in any social scene for very long. My Moon Conjunct Pluto makes me crave deep and meaningful friendships as opposed to casual, light-hearted ones. Friends like that are so few and far between, and usually they move on at some point or I do, etc. The 7nth house completely sucks as it suggests there's nothing to support finding a long-term partner to share my life with. When I do find a relationship there's usually something blocking me from being with that person or a lot of patience and sacrifice is needed.

Am I right....yay or nay?

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted November 05, 2008 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i feel the same way sometimes. but i have different aspects and placements to suggest this same dilemma

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Got Gemini?
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posted November 05, 2008 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your chart is VERY similar to mine. I will post my chart in a few minutes. We have almost the same planetary lineup LOL!

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted November 05, 2008 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ruler of the 7th is in Libra - ie Moon. Moon is conj Pluto, you need very intense relationships. Also Cancer DC - a lot of tenderness and emotion from a partner. However, there more of less seems to be no conflicting aspects to your Moon (unless you count the conj from Pluto) unless it's a Cancer planet that is placed in your 7th through synastry or maybe the wide quincunx from Chiron to your Moon-Pluto.

I have similar issues to you where my Libra DC is conj Pluto (6th) and Moon (7th). People don't satisfy me sometimes. I know where you are coming from. I'm an Aqu Sun and part of my 7th is in Sco. I also have Vx conj NN in the 8th/Sco. I don't think I'd suit a Sco.

I think this is an issue of "just keep plugging on". I know that doesn't sound sympathetic but something will eventually come up.

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posted November 06, 2008 04:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is one of those situations where a bit of luck is needed. The right time, the right place, the right chemistry.

Being on your own with children can be socially isolating. The schoolgates can be as bad as school for the competitive conversation. It's not spiritually enriching. Though saying that, I have met a couple of people that way who have made an impact on my life, and I have been out and done fun friend things with them, but that would only be one or two.

Your post was really well put, I get where you are coming from with this; I also have Libra Moon CNJ Pluto. Pluto rules my chart, being as I'm Scorpio Rising, so I suppose I'm the opposite way around, as you have the Moon ruling the DESC. It's both a good and a bad thing, no matter how much you get you will always want more, there is such emotional intensity with this aspect. Like you suggest, there are only going to be that few people you can get really close to, but it's worth the wait for when it happens. The dry patches are hard.

Scorpio is very much all or nothing, so really I enjoy the simple things like chatting and maybe going for a drink, and accept that the intense relationships always going to be about. I should add here, I am married, which is why my emphasis is more on friendship, but the same thing applies for romantic relationship or friendship. It's all the need to connect to other people, very powerful here for Libran Moon with Pluto.

This isn't really helping much, is it, lol, but I wish you luck, and hope something deep transpires from something simple. You just never know, some people are shy and/or reserved, it takes a while to get to their core. Getting close to people isn't always immediate, and it can't really be rushed.

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ListensToTrees
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posted November 06, 2008 12:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's see your chart then, Got Gemini.

You forgot to post it.

Looks like you're as forgetful as me.

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augentier
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posted November 06, 2008 12:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrology isn't making you be alone..get off the computer and out into the world and you will inevitably find someone.

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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ListensToTrees
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posted November 06, 2008 02:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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belgz
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posted November 06, 2008 05:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i dont think your chart shows you will lonely. Venus is conjunct your DC from the 6th house makes nice aspects to mars and jupiter.

Leo is also in the 7th and its ruler the sun is in your 5th house along with your 5th house ruler mercury.

PF is also in 7th with NN. These are all good for love relationships. Your 5th house ruler is trine your pluto/moon conjunction.

PLuto will oppose your venus next year so you will probably get that relationship you want where you will have deep feelings and so on.

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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posted November 06, 2008 05:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 06, 2008 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Listen to Belgz

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ListensToTrees
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posted November 06, 2008 05:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
By the way, I didn't mention it before, but I have a relationship already. The only big difficulty is the distance coupled with financial problems which means we see a lot less of each other than we would like. Plus, he's not very good at expressing his feelings over the internet or over the phone. That gets to me sometimes. And yet when I'm with him in person, I feel this wonderful rapport. I wish I was psychic enough to be able to sense his feelings when we are not physically together.

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Kick It
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posted November 06, 2008 05:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You will likely meet someone within the next week, at the full Moon, give or take a day. So be watchful of who you meet and take advantage of the situation.

Saturn is currently 30 degrees off your Moon, which is a semi-sextile aspect. Probably the second best transit you can get.
The period from now for 5 years time will get better on the relationship front, when Saturn is conjunct your Moon.

Saturn rules your 1st house (you) while Moon rules your 7th (partner)
When Saturn (you) conjuncts Moon (partner) that will be the best time for you (Saturn) to meet your partner/get married (Moon)

Saturn, 1st ruler, is ssx your Moon, 7th ruler. While the next full Moon in Taurus is trine your Saturn. It all starts now and keeps getting better.

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Diandra23
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posted November 06, 2008 06:42 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kick it

it is the 1st time i read sth like that:that wneh our 1st ruler cj 7Th ruler,then we will meet our partner??Is that right?

I got curious and went to see:

When our relationship became serious i was having my 7h ruler cj my natal 1st ruler.

Some time after we met,my bf had his 1st ruler cj his 7h ruler - what crazy coincidence

ListenToTrees

you have venus in 7h,along with NN/p.f./jUNO/vx... WHAT more could you want? in my view the fact that they are there simply indicates that you were born with strong potenciality to be happy in relationships!

but dont forget that we also must do our parts - be open to others.

I see that you have also sun and merc in 5h-SO here again shows that you will gain much confort and happiness in romance.
You have Nessus in the 7H-MAYBE THAT IS WHY YOU feel that way...did you red IQ´s theories about Nessus? you might find sth interesting there...

Your moon cj pluto makes you crave for deep passion and intensity - that is why you feel o much when your bf dont show you feelings like you need him to show..but you can try to talk with him about that.

i know how it comes concerning distance - at times it is very dificult but dont you feel also that distance can deepen what it´s in our hearts?

you can try to do meditation and visualize your loved one,try to talk to him through your heart.

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Got Gemini?
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posted November 06, 2008 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll post it later tonight, I have a lot to do. It's already posted in the forum "know two are alike" in the thread post your chart and pics "let's get acquainted"

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy!

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belgz
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posted November 06, 2008 07:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just had a look to confirm whether that may be accurate..

The day i met and started dating the guy i married My 5th house ruler saturn was conjunct my ascendant ruler mercury. There was that venus eclipse in 2004 on my moon EXACT and my 1st house ruler mercury was exactly trine neptune my 7th house ruler.

Aries is also in my 7th house and uranus was trine my mars at the time.

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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ListensToTrees
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posted November 06, 2008 07:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Diandra23, Venus is in my 6th house...or so I thought...are you looking at another type of chart to the one I have displayed?

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Diandra23
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posted November 07, 2008 08:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

but your venus is cj the DSC

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posted November 07, 2008 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I absolutely LOVE my chart and would only change my Asc and put my Saturn and Mars in another house. Here is my chart: (and I was born 11:24am, not 11:27am. I reposted an old chart that didn't have the correct time)

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy!

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Lavlee
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posted November 07, 2008 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavlee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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