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Adriana
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posted November 08, 2008 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adriana     Edit/Delete Message
What kind of type do you like/ attract in the opposite (same) sex? Please also state your Venus/Mars signs, and Sun/ Moon signs if you think those signs are also important.

I tend to like a bit older guys, but it is very important that he is funny, and easygoing. Not necessarily very tall, but a bit higher than me. I really like blue eyes. I have Mars in Cap and Venus and Sun in Sag.

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Scorp31
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posted November 08, 2008 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorp31     Edit/Delete Message
I like an independent fiery woman who knows how to handle herself and be strong but still very feminine, that’s what I generally attract.

Most of them tend to be from ethnicities and cultural backgrounds that are different from mine which is really cool.

I have Venus and Mars (conjunct) in Sagittarius.


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Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Capricorn
Ascendant: Libra

Venus in Sagittarius
Mars in Sagittarius

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matt
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posted November 08, 2008 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for matt     Edit/Delete Message
I tend to like woman who are ambitious, confident, intelligent, intouch with their femininity and mysterious. I am also definately more attracted to brunettes.

I cant really pinpoint what 'type' I attract but they are definately more of a feminine type.

venus in cap
mars in scorpio

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Quinnie
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posted November 08, 2008 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Quinnie     Edit/Delete Message
I like a guy who is social minded and can hold any type of conversation but also be great FUN!

Sun in Libra/Venus in Virgo/Mars in Sagittarius

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amowls
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posted November 08, 2008 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
I like tall skinny guys with tattoos. Short hair, tight pants, in school.

Lol, like every freaking girl my age.

Umm they have to be laid back, funny, a little as*holey, smart (ie they have no know a little about the world around them and be able to talk about abstract concepts), hopefully interested in music (musicians are pretty hot obviously). They also should like going out to parties and stuff.

I'm not really picky except when it comes to looks unfortunately, I'll let personality slide if they're cute enough haha.

I have Mars in Sagittarius in 6th (my DSC is also in Sag), Venus in Pisces in 10th. Also Jupiter in Aries in 11th.

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Marila1313
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posted November 08, 2008 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marila1313     Edit/Delete Message
I like big (not fat though...just big) guys that get alot of respect for people. Must have well groomed hair, nice lips, and i love when they wear watches,necklaces rings (basically,jewellary)
lol...i kind of always had a thing for those "mafia boss" types...

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Scorpionic Web
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posted November 08, 2008 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
I prefer emotionally clingy women with sharp intellects for good conversation.

After so many Saggie girls in my life who want to go out and explore, often leaving me to find my own entertainment, I've really come to desire girls who prefer to spend quiet nights in cozy comforts.

I like natural and modest women.

Tattoos are becoming so popular, but they completely turn me off. I once met a girl with a cherry blossom tree branch tattoo on her shoulder blade, and it was the closest I had ever found a tattoo to being remotely tasteful.

I love a girl who can sing or play an instrument.

I melt for a cute face, but body size and shape matters very little to me, as long as it is reasonable. I think my standards are very liberal, as I notice beautiful and intelligent women everywhere, in all sorts of varieties.

Scorpio Sun
Libra Moon
Scorpio Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Capricorn Mars

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VirgOh
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posted November 08, 2008 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgOh     Edit/Delete Message
I like smart intellectual gals who can talk about anything from politics to sex because you have to conquer me mentally before I take any interest in you.

I like strong, independent females who rather convince me of their point of view than say yes just to make me happy.

I like to start up arguments on purpose then create order out of disorder therefore she has to have a flare for drama and fight back to prove her point, to me this is a way of flirting, I do it when I am bored to keep things exciting.

I hate, hate, hate submissive weak females, so please put up a good fight before you say yes to anything if you dont agree with me.

I hate easy girls.

I like jealous possesive mysterious females

I like attitude and ego.

I like emotional females.

I like mind games (To a certain extent)

Looks wise, I love brunettes, medium to tall height, long hair is a must (If I wanted to date a man I would have turned bisexual long time ago), big eyes, slender, sophisticated not trashy looks, all female gushing femeninity all over, ohh and please get a pedicure because if your feet are ugly you will have to wear socks around me and be on top of your fashion game, I love to dress up so dress good and be on par because you are not about to embarrass me in public.

Sun: Virgo
Asc: Sag
Moon: Scorpio
Venus: Libra
Mercury: Virgo
Mars: Taurus

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aquarius4
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posted November 08, 2008 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquarius4     Edit/Delete Message
venus and mars in pisces exactly conjuct and dsc in pisces as well.

i like them all unfortunately - well physically - i don't care if they are short, tall, skinny or fat, bald or have a lion's mane - i am attracted to all sorts of men and to my detriment, find something i like in most of them.

some traits that i am attracted to are: strong, silent types, compassionate and sensitive, extremely open-minded, not judgemental, being able to cope with their emotions maturely (not afraid to cry or admit to feeling an emotion deemed conventionally unmanly). not materialistic, and able to fly by the seat of their pants sometimes, not too nit-picky oh and one more very important thing - humor and adventurous spirit.

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aqua/scorp
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posted November 08, 2008 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aqua/scorp     Edit/Delete Message
I'm attracted to mysterious, intelligent, ambitious, spiritual, respectful, non superficial type of guy and one who also knows how to satisfy my emotional needs..I like a man who knows how to talk and just captivate me.

Looks department is also important has to be taller then me but not too tall or i can't reach lol..gorgeous skin and hair, medium build (stronger then he looks )

Fashion sense I don't like guys who dress in extravagent bright colors/prints i like suits, shirt type of guy in earthy colours but who knows how to touch it up with a colour that makes a statement. Gotta be sexy and classy at the same time but not over doing it as less is more.

Sun Aquarius
Moon Scorpio
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Aries

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venusmars
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posted November 08, 2008 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusmars     Edit/Delete Message
I like good looking guys,well dressed,nice and smart.venus conj.mars in libra.sun in libra moon in saggy..

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swirl-kitt
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posted November 08, 2008 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
LOL wow look at all these anwers!

I have venus in libra and mars in virgo and I usually fall for guys who have that amused expression on their faces, or in their eyes, especially when they smile. Eye contact is the most important it's where I really know. Their warmth and playfulness must really be obvious.

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belgz
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posted November 08, 2008 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belgz     Edit/Delete Message
I like guys who stand out in some way and are independant. i like a guys who capable of doing everything himself and doesnt rely on me for NOTHING!

I dont like guys who try too hard. Cool and detached is what i like..

Venus in leo
Mars in cancer

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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Lara
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posted November 08, 2008 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
I like a passionate, deep, creative, intelligent, sexy one-off!


sun taurus
moon aries
venus aries
mars taurus

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oceaneyes
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posted November 08, 2008 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oceaneyes     Edit/Delete Message
I'm attracted to strong silent types who are actually huge softies underneath. Someone who is naturally reserved but when he does speak is hilarious, very kindhearted, intelligent, respectful, thoughtful and deep. Shyness is cute, but not too much once we've gotten to know each other. I really like the football player type. He has to be able to match me mentally, to get on the really deep level i need emotionally and be open minded about spirituality and philosophy. I like it when they open up but only to you but they have to be be extremely honest.

Though i like sweethearts they have to be strong physically and emotionally, i have no respect for wimps. I like understanding, compassionate guys who are also very passionate, intense, mysterious and soulful. I like it if they can deal with they emotions in a mature way and be courageous in love. They should also be able to be vulnerable in front of me but with every one else they display strength.
I'm attracted to sexy ( but not sleazy guys) who are intensely loyal and possessive and incredibly sensuous and overpowering between the sheets.

Physically they have to be bigger than me, so around 6 ft is good and football player build. I feel weird if i can overpower the guy. He has to be very manly looking but clean, neat and preppy if possible. I like a guy who takes 10 minutes to get ready but still looks great. Simple style.
I have a thing for dimples, and luminous dark eyes. I generally like dark hair better too.

and kinda clingy is good

sun : leo (8 th house)
moon : aquarius (2 h)
merc : virgo ( 8th h)
venus conjunct mars in virgo in the 8 h

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enchantress299
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posted November 08, 2008 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message
I am typically attracted to guys who are intelligent, can hold a conversation or tell me a story, are humorous, and charming. He MUST be independent and able to stand on his own two feet. Extroverts are usually attractive to me, and so are those with an inane amount of confidence (or arrogance if you prefer to see it that way ). Chivalry makes me melt in the best way... Passionate types who focus their attention on me are good. I don't mind a bit of possessiveness, though I myself am not the possessive or jealous type.

Honestly, I do like to game play a little bit, if it means that we keep each other on our toes. The last guy I dated looked at me and said: "You like a challenge don't you?" and I looked back at him and said: "Nooooo..."

Ironically, I like the qualities of fun and passion, but I DON'T like huge dramatic blowups. I find them to be too messy. Unfortunately, many of the guys I've met who had those qualities also thrived on the drama of a relationship, which I don't. I just want the fun please.

Sun: Virgo (10th house)
Moon: Aries (5th house)
Venus: Virgo (9th house)
Mars: Leo (9th house)

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Virgo Sun/Aries Moon/Scorpio Rising

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Marila1313
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posted November 08, 2008 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marila1313     Edit/Delete Message
ANYONE W/ VENUS OR MARS IN AQUARIUS!?...those fascinate me ....

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augentier
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posted November 08, 2008 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for augentier     Edit/Delete Message
Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Pisces..& they are trine.

I like guys who are a little shy, edgy/dangerous, intelligent, dark & moody, passionate and will open up to me, tell me his secrets, desires..

I have a thing for younger guys. Always have. I guess maturity isn't a priority, because I'm 21 so anyone younger hasn't quite "grown up".

I like guys who are somewhat clingy and a little obsessive. I want to be wanted..and I like a guy who I can boss around at times, playfully..especially in bed but never a guy who cannot assert himself. He must be able to hold his own.

Now i'm horny for some reason. Ummmm..?

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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon

Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
Mars::Pisces

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evander
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posted November 08, 2008 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for evander     Edit/Delete Message
need someone who can take the lead, not be intimidated, be the alpha, not to smother me

oh and to be tall or at leastttt tallER

and challenging me to figure him out is the huge added bonus

venus in sco; mars in aries

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sag sun, aries ac, cap moon
*never saw a wild thing sorry for itself...*

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Atlenta
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posted November 08, 2008 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlenta     Edit/Delete Message
Venus: Libra (9th)
Mars: Saggittarius (11th)

I like the sagey type of guy with an undefined form of beauty. Guys I attract ALWAYS rope in their friends to help them. They are always trying to appeal to my mars in the 11th.. freedom loving, many many friends, show their popularity etc. It is a pattern there.

They must be intelligent and have a penchant for philosophy, and bookss, also like travel and really, not for travel sake. The spiritual types are also attractive. All the signs of venus and mars here, not wrong at all.

(I am an airy fairy type, so deep emotions don't really appeal to me.. once in a while is okay, not all the time. I find it draining)

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Lucia23
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posted November 08, 2008 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
I like tall, well-built, beautiful but masculine guys. I'm especially into beautiful hands, broad shoulders and long legs. I'm open-minded about it, but my usual type has pale skin and dark hair. The guys I like best are noticed by everyone for their good looks. I think this has way more to do with my Leo Sun than my Mars-Venus.

I like someone who is wildly, epically talented as an artist, actor or musician. (I have gone for a dancer before and for a couple of other writers but, ugh, one writer in a couple is enough.) Fame isn't that important, but talent is. The guys I've fallen hardest for are all witty, adorable, funny, fun, exciting, brilliant, subtly sexy, deep thinkers and graceful in their movements. They are soulful but not sentimental. They can verbally spar with me. They have all had unusually gorgeous voices, sometimes famously.

The most important thing in attraction, to me, is the chemistry between me and the guy. Not just physical chemistry, but intellectual, emotional and spiritual chemistry...so I would always be open to getting to know someone who wasn't my usual "type", if the spark was there.

I used to attract lots and lots of guys of all kinds. Now no one seems into me except sleazy street harassers.

I have Venus in Cancer (7th) and Mars in Virgo (8th).

Sun in Leo (8th) and Moon in Cancer (7th).

I should note that I am pretty much totally icked out by Cancer men or any other men who are gooey and sentimental and overly involved with their mothers or other family. I've always gone for Libras, Gems and the occasional fellow fire sign, and they've always gone for me too...lately I have had this weird, ill-fated thing for a couple of Scorpios who do not really reciprocate, or at least one didn't and my relationship with the other is strange.

I used to be very, very lucky in love. I didn't realize how lucky until the luck went away.

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belgz
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posted November 08, 2008 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for belgz     Edit/Delete Message
LOL lara i agree

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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Green Fairy
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posted November 09, 2008 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Green Fairy     Edit/Delete Message
Venus in Gemini 9th H
[trining Jup./opposing Uranus]
Mars in Cancer 11th H
[trining Saturn/Squaring Pluto]


I like a guy that is funny and/or corny, dignified, independent, modest and in charge. A bit mysterious and passionate [about everything]. A man that will "mother" me and make me proud to be with. Someone with Class.
Metrosexuals and bad boys need not apply.
Eyes and smile are a big thing for me
I don't care if the guy is chubby
I want a guy that is a few years older than me, nothing extreme though - or 1-2 years younger.
I also always thought I'd marry a foreigner lol

The guys that come after me:
Are sensitive
Are hardworking
Don't seem to talk much around strangers
Come from families with a good reputation
Are probably lost in their own little worlds
Are unpredictable
Need mothering
Are tall, skinny or well-built
Have puppy eyes
Enjoy life to the fullest

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xrâräx
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posted November 09, 2008 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for xrâräx     Edit/Delete Message
Venus in Leo/Mars in Scorpio
Cancer Sun/ Taurus Moon

I'm attracted to guys that stand out in a crowd. The rebel. Intimidating and sexy. Mysterious look, dangerous and wild. Hard to grasp characters. Extremely intelligent and witty. Deep thinker. Strong character. Very self-confident. VERY creative and passionate about his ideas, likes and dislikes.

Regarding the physical appearence:
Tattoos a must
Piercings, a big plus.
And I usually like tall well built guys, and broad shoulders..mmmmmm Big expressive eyes.

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swirl-kitt
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posted November 09, 2008 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
Xrarax- I have had so many friends who had Mars in Scorpio and were attracted to the same type of rebellious guy you describe ! In fact, 3 of my really close girlfriends with Mars in Scorpio fell for that same guy ! It was incredible, as you would believe. I'm scorpio sun so I understood them but it was crazy, 2 of them were talking about him once, and he was a close friend of mine too, and they were like, omg he is so handsome, he is so confident he stands out in a crowd blah blah blah and I was like what ?!? Because he was a total, I don't know the word for it

So I guess girls with Mars in Scorpio get out of control once they like a guy, they sometimes become blind to the fact that he may be the utter ******* in the universe. Who would want to date or have a thing with someone who is with another girl every other week ? A show-off , nothing else.

I don't mean you are like that of course
It's just the ones I've observed. One of them is a graduate student in Cambridge uni now !

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