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Topic: Buena- help please
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funnyface
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posted December 03, 2008 08:40 PM
 
Hi Buena,
You remember I told you about that guy, libra who wants to keep in touch again with me. He wants to come meet me. I am scared because if he breaks my heart again I can't stand it a second time. Plus this month is supposed to have pretty stormy squares and new moon. He may come here on the 5th. Can you take a look at my transits/SR to see if I am headed for more pain or happiness?
My DOB is 22 nov 1971, 2.19pm ,Bombay India.
His DOB is 2nd Oct 1969, 9.18pm, Jabalpur, India.
I am currently in Tampa, Fl.
Thanks a ton. I owe you.IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 03:51 AM
Hi FF,I will post first both Natal Charts with Secondary Progressions and Transits. Here is from you:  IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 03:55 AM
Here is his Chart with P+T.  IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 04:03 AM
Here is Synastry Chart;  IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 04:06 AM
Here is Synastry Chart with four Asteroids:  IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 04:31 AM
Hi FF,About bad Transits: you have at the moment T Saturn square your Natal Mercury and Venus in 9th. Saturn is going over, soon. Saturn makes you so afraid. There is also good Transit: T Neptune has sextile with your Natal Mercury and Venus. Your Progressed Mercury went over Natal Jupiter in 9th. Your Progressed Mars makes exact opposition over your Natal Pluto in 7th. As in your Natal Chart Mars has no aspect with Pluto, I don't believe there is some danger.
His Progressed Moon and Venus have changed the sign: I think he wants to have family now. Hope, somebody will tell more here about Progressions and Transits. Buena
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buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 04:58 AM
Hi FF,Now to your Synastry Chart: This man has five (5) planets in your 7th house: Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, Uranus and Pluto. Sun and Jupiter there is good for marriage. Uranus means probably that he goes and comes back.
In his 7th house are your three (3) planets: Mercury, Venus and Jupiter.
Beside that his 5th house is in your 7th.
Jupiter, ruler of his 7th has sextile with Neptune, ruler of your ASC, Neptune, what is good sign. You love each other and I am not looking anymore. Don't be afraid, listen to your heart and you may not die from heartbreak. His Chiron in your 1st: he is your healer. Wish you all luck,
Buena p.s. I would like to make Lunar Return for Tampa, Florida but don't know how to read Lunar.
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funnyface
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posted December 04, 2008 06:32 AM
Hi buena,
Thanks a ton. You know, when he said he wanted to come over meet me, the first thing I thought was I need to tell Buena about this. Only she can tell me if it is good or bad.
When you want something very badly, you are scared of making a false move and screwing it up. Penny Thornton says that this month is pretty tense for all signs, so I was wondering what would happen if he did come over to meet me.
Thanks again. God bless you.IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 07:14 AM
Hi FF,Now: God bless you! I know the feeling when there is great love, there is also great fear. I will think about you. Wish you good luck,
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buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 07:14 AM
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buena36
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posted December 04, 2008 07:14 AM
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funnyface
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posted December 04, 2008 09:50 AM
Hi buena,
thanks a lot for your help. I hope my SR this year says" Happiness in love". I have waited a long time for things to start changing for the better, and as you say I fear what I see may not last.Thanks again for being a kind and generous soul. May all you wishes be fulfilled. IP: Logged |
funnyface
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posted December 04, 2008 09:50 AM
Hi buena,
thanks a lot for your help. I hope my SR this year says" Happiness in love". I have waited a long time for things to start changing for the better, and as you say I fear that what I see may not last.Thanks again for being a kind and generous soul. May all you wishes be fulfilled. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted December 04, 2008 12:02 PM
oh i LOVE your synastry!!!!!go for it and don't look back  IP: Logged |
funnyface
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posted December 04, 2008 12:56 PM
Hi Lara,
Do you also think that we stand a chance? It is that I have been hurt by him before so I am treading very carefully now, but I love him so much, it is just surprising that he does not realize it.
Buena was very kind to go through the data, she said she was not well versed with progressions. Can you help me with it? I know we have a venus-mars conj in our progressed synastry.
Lara, I am hoping that it works this time. I don't want another heartbreak.
Thanks a ton all of you. You are my angels during this festive season, you bring hope with you.IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 05, 2008 06:33 AM
Hi FF,Hope you are all right? I send you Natal Chart with Transits today.  I pray for you. Buena p.s. I think, that you gave me other country and city of birth (Bangladesh) the very first time, but I can't find the other Topic? Maybe I am wrong? IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted December 05, 2008 06:36 AM
FunnyfaceMen never do realise it until they lose you
Just be you and remember that only you can break your heart. Blessings x IP: Logged |
funnyface
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posted December 05, 2008 07:11 AM
Hi buena,
Thanks a ton, girl. You always stand by me. you had done the right chart always. The place of birth was Bombay for the first time too. I think that thread was lost when LL had some technical problems a week back. I was trying to find it too and could not. You had done some great comparisons for the progressed synastry charts in that thread.Uranus and Saturn are in a cranky transit mood today from the chart. I wonder if that means something bad?
Lara, Thanks for the kind words. God bless you both.
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funnyface
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posted December 06, 2008 08:01 AM
Hi buena,
He could not get tickets for yesterday so did not show up. What I don't understand is he is so erratic about communication. Says he will call and I wait, he does not call. Then out of the blue I will get his call some day. Our Mercuries are very well aligned for communication the why does he find it so difficult to pick up the phone and talk?
Or is it a guy thing where they think talking and sharing their feelings is not manly?IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 07, 2008 03:49 AM
Hi FF,I think that he is also afraid, like you are.
There are three planets in transit through his 7th: what is going on with him?
Venus and Moon have just changed the sign: new beginning.
When have you seen him last time? 
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funnyface
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posted December 07, 2008 08:08 AM
Hi Buena,
How is your weekend going? Did the squares on the 5th affect you in any way? How is the weather at your place?
This guy works at a high level job and is trying to change jobs, but with the economy so bad, he says he is having trouble finding one he likes. That could be one reason for worry.
I last saw him 5 years back. But the strange thing is that I never forgot him and some way or other I could call him on his birthday each year, he never changed his cell number( I changed mine 3 times in the same period). This year when I called to wish him for his birthday he told me he wanted to talk, email me. I thought this was his usual polite way of ending conversation, but he actually called and wrote back. He told me 2 weeks back that he wanted to meet me again before this year ended. I have engagements next week and the week after, so he may come during the Xmas break, I hope the transits are kinder at that time. Jupiter is in a much better position at that point.
But he says he will do something and never does it at the time promised. I don't make promises easily but I keep them faithfully. So his behaviour drives me mad. I don't have much experience with men, so is it just a guy thing, you think?
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funnyface
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posted December 07, 2008 08:12 AM
Hi buena,
thanks for the charts, you work them like a wiz.
I can never forget the help you give, I always think of you as my guardian angel.
What does 3 planets in transit in the 7th house mean?Is it good for him or bad?
He has Venus and Moon changing signs, which indicates new beginnings. If my chart does not have the planets changing signs, does it mean that he will start a family but not with me?IP: Logged |
buena36
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posted December 07, 2008 08:34 AM
Hi FF,I would say here: it is Libra men thing. They can't decide: left or right. I know, as I am AC Libra, but men are worse, especially with Sun in Libra.
There is definitive going something new in his life. With whom, I can't say as I am not clairvoyant. As I have read there are more good clairvoyants in Florida. What about that?
It is also strange, that after five years he wants to meet you. That means something or not? I have feeling, that there is somebody in his life, but he can't decide until he sees you.
It was love at first sight or not?
Can you somehow ask somebody about him? Somebody knows you and him?
I wish I was a God, to help you now. Wish you all luck,
Buena
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funnyface
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posted December 07, 2008 10:50 AM
Hi buena,
It seemed a little strange to me too that he wanted to meet me after 5 years. His parents are visiting him, so I thought maybe they clouted some wisdom into his head. I met his parents before I met him and they loved me and me, them.
I came to the US and he met me within a week of me coming over. When he left, he told me that he had enjoyed the time with me and would like to meet me as soon as possible. He went back to his state and started having second thoughts, I guess.
At that time for me, just adjusting to a new country, new customs, the cold climate( I was up north) was a challenge and then he did the about turn thing. It just was the last straw on the camel's back. I had no support groups or friends and it was a tough time for me. But I stll don't resent him for it. I grew up brutally fast, it hurt but I survived and am still going strong.
I don't think he is capable of two timing and appeasing 2 women at the same time. He is just a big baby, scared of his own shadow, I feel.
I don't know what it is with him, I am just going to play by the ear and when he comes ask him why he changed his mind and wanted to meet me again.
Thanks buena, I will keep you informed about what happens next.
I had a bad 2008, my dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer, he is doing well now, but I was hoping that if there was any good news it would cheer him up infinitely. we are very close and he hurts for me.
Thank you again.IP: Logged |
funnyface
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posted December 24, 2008 09:16 PM
Hi Buena,
Wishing you and your family a very merry Xmas and a happy, peaceful new year.
Take care,
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