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writesomething
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posted December 04, 2008 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
has anyone ever double whammy in synastry these aspects? i dont know, it almost seems like a strange snail pace with us. ive known him over a year, and i dont think we're ever going to get together. we have the supporting synastry/composite stellium in the 8th/vertex stuff,,,and pretty much met in the most strangest, fated place i can think of for someone like me. on top of that, his saturn conjs my venus. i hate this. i think he hates me sometimes, okay maybe not hate..but i dont feel like he likes me very much. i dont get it. we have a strange connection, and have kept in contact via text message(i purposely stop going to the meetings so i could just avoid seeing him)...and we;ve stayed strange friends. but i think ive scared him off by my melodramatic rant about men or something, or him, he wasnt responding to me fast enough, and sort of just lost it. it wasnt even him, he knew that, i guess im just mad because hes not be responsive as i hoped. he has 4 planets in libra, and its enough to make me want to strangle him. so yeah, big whoop to venus conj pluto in synastry...we have it both ways, and its gotten us nowhere. i keep telling myself, maybe in the next life we can be together....

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Lara
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posted December 04, 2008 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
yeah l had saturn conjunct venus with a couple of ex's and the relationships were bonding yet not so amazing... l would go through stages of hating them too !

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augentier
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posted December 04, 2008 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for augentier     Edit/Delete Message
I think you have to actually be involved with each other to feel most synastry aspects, especially involving Pluto because it lays low but when coaxed it comes up with full force. I did not notice any effects of Venus conj. Pluto with my ex until we got involved and then BAM - storybook example of this aspect and I still feel it even though we are not together.

But, astrology aside, you mentioned that you thought you may have scared him off with a rant about men - yep, that'll do it. Guys are SO cautious about getting involved when they even think a woman doesn't trust men. He probably feels like you'll reject him or have the same sentiment toward him as you do toward the other guys..

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annaf
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posted December 04, 2008 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message
sorry, but I dont think the situation you are describing is 'venus-plutonian'. Instead it SCREAMS venus-saturn. I've had very similar experience with a harsh venus-saturn double whammy. Talk about weird snail pace now you see me, now you like me, now you don't. So blame that venus-saturn conjunction.

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lovegoblin
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posted December 04, 2008 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message
I do love libras, but from my experience with them, they are turned off by blatant displays of emotionalism. At least this has been my experience with them. My best friend is a libra and that type of thing always turns her off. Be cool, social, and beautiful. This is the way to their hearts.

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writesomething
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posted December 04, 2008 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
hes not a libra, he just has 4 planets in libra. hes a virgo.

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