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Topic: A born complainer?
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Mysticr Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 08:16 AM
I've never met anyone who complains as much as my friend. She is a nice person but literally every other sentence that comes out of her mouth is a rant. She used to complain that her ex-boyfriend would complain, but it was actually her that was doing all the complaining.I wish she could be more positive, she has a Gemini moon after all. We all like to complain every so often, but I'm convinced some people were destined to become life's complainers. Do you think so too? Unfortunately I do think these people can drag the rest of us down if we don't know how to handle them. Can you see this moaning, self-pitying streak in my friend's chart? She is a Cancer sun, and apologies to you Cancerians, but I think you are the most miserable sign in the Zodiac! Chart: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&cid=rbkfiley2ZF72-u122 7696768&nhor=2&go.x=15&go.y=12 Friends dob: 3 July 1978, 11:15am, Maidstone, England Planetary positions -------------------- Sun Cancer 11°07'49 in house 10 direct Moon Gemini 19°23'53 in house 10 direct Mercury Leo 0°50'04 in house 11 direct Venus Leo 20°02'38 in house 11 direct Mars Virgo 10°52'16 in house 12 direct Jupiter Cancer 16°14'34 in house 10 direct Saturn Leo 27°27'49 in house 12 direct Uranus Scorpio 12°27'12 in house 3 retrograde Neptune Sagittarius 16°17'17 end of house 3 retrograde Pluto Libra 13°55'17 in house 2 direct True Node Libra 0°26'50 in house 1 retrograde Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions -------------- Ascendant Virgo 19°39'24 2nd House Libra 12°17'51 3rd House Scorpio 11°11'57 Imum Coeli Sagittarius 16°31'50 5th House Capricorn 23°17'44 6th House Aquarius 24°32'38 Descendant Pisces 19°39'24 8th House Aries 12°17'51 9th House Taurus 11°11'57 Medium Coeli Gemini 16°31'50 11th House Cancer 23°17'44 12th House Leo 24°32'38 Mystic
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Deliverance Knowflake Posts: 354 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 08:26 AM
Its a trait of people with heavy water in their charts. LOL - I know a Pisces with a prominent Neptune. Her life is worse than anyone else's, your problems are nothing compared to hers, she would get the gold medal in self-pity. She's a sweet person though, so people tolerate her moaning. Your friends chart: Prominent Moon/Neptune for excessive self-pity, Mercury in Leo for telling everyone about her problems....all the worlds a stage type of thing Most of the planets on the left suggest someone who inner focussed or focussed on themself. Cancer Sun conj Jupiter - Grandiose moaning. Virgo ascendant - Moany disposition Moon in Gemini - Talking about emotions Square Mars (in Virgo)- Driven by emotions (critical, analysing) IP: Logged |
Mysticr Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 08:50 AM
I have a name for these people, the eternally miserable...VAMPIRES! Although it's not the blood they're sucking out of you, it's your energy, which can be equally devastating. I used to have one friend, who would win Miss Negative UK hands down (truly unbeatable!). She used to drain me so much with her negativity that I would sleep for hours on end. I was exhausted! I had to cut her out of my life in the end. I've more adept at dealing with these types now. IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 09:06 AM
How accurate is that birth time? On there the T-Square is a little wide. But the Moon is holding up one end. It is possible that it is narrower, and look at the energies involved: Moon in Gemini ~ aware of changing moods and able to express them. Mars in Virgo ~ detailed artistry is good thing if you have a positive outlet (say like Johnny Depp as an example), but on a bad day the nitpicking moaner can slip out. The Sun Conjunct Jupiter is an overflow of Cancerian energies. It sextiles Mars in Virgo. That should be workable in a positive way. If she doesn't get that outlet, or try to use the energies well, we get the earache you are getting. Mars in Virgo ~ a mini-rant My mother and MIL both have Mars in Virgo. Nitpickers! Always pointing out tiny stains on clothes, etc. My mother wins the moaning stakes, bloody hell, she could moan for England! She has an outlet though, she writes long letters of complaint to our M.P. That's good, that's constructive, he needs to get off his bum and do the job he's paid for, he needs someone to stop him getting complacent. Mama Moon on the people of England ~ "we need to complain more as a nation." She's right, apathy (sloth) is one of the deadly sins. Don't let them get away with it! IP: Logged |
Mysticr Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 09:24 AM
My friend's birth time should be accurate..it's the one she gave me. IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 09:30 AM
Only asking because I think the 9* orb allowed by Astro is a little wide on the Moon Square Mars. But, being the Moon, some astrologers would allow that. It does sound like she is forthright in expressing her discontent. It's only human to moan but if someone is inclined to more than their fair share they need to try and find a way to channel it so it does something more positive than bring down their friends and family.
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posted December 09, 2008 09:43 AM
Stop complaining please Mysticr IP: Logged |
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posted December 09, 2008 09:51 AM
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Mysticr Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2008 09:51 AM
Kickit...yeah you're right lol, I'm complaining now! And I'm supposed to be the eternal optimist!----------- Libra Sun Cancer Moon Leo Rising IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 1071 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted December 10, 2008 01:54 PM
My sisters' a 1st decan Virgo rising and she complains constantly. And gossips. She also has Mercury in Virgo squaring Mars in Gem though.IP: Logged |
triplecancer Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2008 06:18 PM
I had replied to this thread and I don't see it now. Does anyone know why that might happen?IP: Logged |
triplecancer Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2008 06:20 PM
Sorry, nevermind, it was in the similar thread bluemoon started. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 3516 From: Oceanic Sands Registered: Nov 2016
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posted November 12, 2020 11:54 AM
can't make everyone happy. No making someone happy so make yourself happy .. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 135936 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 13, 2020 04:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by MoonMystic: can't make everyone happy. No making someone happy so make yourself happy ..
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 135936 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 09, 2020 05:59 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
softissues Knowflake Posts: 142 From: London Registered: Nov 2020
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posted December 25, 2020 10:04 AM
I mean I don't think I have heavy water placements but I've known to complain a lot, I think it's reduced quite a lot now but especially as a child. IP: Logged |