posted December 11, 2008 06:59 AM              

I have found something very funny and strange (for me) about this aspect in Aries by one man. He is married 20 years and he plans to stay married. He has never been "in love" and never expects to be.

People with this aspect can be married for very long time, but they feel very lonely at heart.

Other aspect (me):
Venus-Neptune people have a real romantic view of relationships. They may be seeking an ideal partnership.
My comment: I have found ideal partner, but have spoiled all.

What a difference between those two aspects!

Any comment about Venus in connection with other planets?

Buena

posted December 11, 2008 07:35 AM            

He is quite a playful person but this is his serious side. He has strong views on commitment in relationships. He walks it like he talks it, he settled down young and is still with the same person many years later. At least to my eyes they seem well-suited and very happy. I think she really understands him ~ she's a triple Cancer, he has Saturn Square Moon. Hidden emotions. So she is in tune to the things he won't necessarily share.

posted December 11, 2008 08:25 AM              

--so my Saturn trines Venus and Neptune also.
So?
I am married \happily so far/--
Hi.

Good for you. Not everybody is happily married.

In fact I don't care about marriage, for me is more important pure love.
It is only funny to read or to hear (I have more examples, where women never have been in love with their husbands and they are happily married?).

Maybe I came from other planet?

posted December 11, 2008 08:34 AM              

That is truly sad

posted December 11, 2008 08:36 AM            

I don't think LOVE is enough. There should at least be a minimum of love/affection, something to build on. I believe it can grow as long as there is commitment and effort to nurture it.

I have Venus-Neptune in my chart which makes me seek the ideal relationship, but experience and age has taught me that the "ideal" is not enough, "realism" must also be in the picture.

posted December 11, 2008 08:51 AM              

I have read it in one Women's magazine that has all possible for women.
There were all those reasons made by somebody in Germany.
There is also marriage, because married people pay less tax. I remember that very well because it is happens only in Germany (I think so).

Recently I have found other list, but I have such a mess from old papers: Astrology and medicine, I can't see the forest for the trees.
Now I am curious again to find today’s situation

posted December 11, 2008 08:55 AM              

I had it and have lost. It was about 10 years ago in the best women's magazine.

Now, I will try to find another one. I am collecting all possible data's. Like Guinness book of records!

posted December 11, 2008 09:02 AM              

I have found something new:
Top 10 reasons for marriage.

No. 10: No one will ever ask you again—so, why aren’t you married yet?

No. 9: You can bring into this world your future wheelchair pushers.

No. 8: You no longer have to pay the single person surcharge on cruises.

No. 7: You will never have to make over-compensating gestures to diffuse suspicions of homosexuality.

No. 6: You no longer have to keep up the pretense of being content in the Lord alone.

No. 5: You no longer have to wonder if you are going to get lucky on date night.

No. 4: You no longer have to be the target audience of pet products commercials; you can join a whole new demographic group.

No. 3: No one will ever try to set you up again with their awkward niece/nephew.

No. 2: Your parents will only have one thing left to complain about—when are we getting some grandkids?

No. 1: You no longer have to use I Corinthians 7 to justify singleness, but can now use that passage to badger your spouse into having sex with you. That’s the last time she will feign headache.

posted December 12, 2008 03:54 AM              

There are some very true reasons:
if some man is long time alone then people say, he is either impotent (sorry) or gay (even if he has no man friend). Sorry for the last one (I personally don't care, who is what).

Just simple: people are looking strange all persons they are not married and they are over 30 or 35 years old. We know here why so is, but in one village they have no idea about Astrology and why somebody is married and somebody is not.

posted December 12, 2008 04:53 AM              

Here should be:
Sign for Venus - female's member,
Sign for Mars - male's members.

In that case I wouldn’t write mistake about female and male members.

posted July 06, 2014 05:05 AM            

Pretty harsh, must admit.

I haven’t been in a relationship, mostly because I just can’t see anyone in my surroundings as someone who could fulfill all my emotional, intellectual and financial needs. But the trick is… Even though I am pretty independent (or at least I want to be!), I still yearn for love and I still believe that true love is possible. I am one of those who still believe, that fairytales do come true. I think this is how Venus/Neptune aspect manifests for me.

But even though I believe in fairytales, I still won’t rush into relationship just because I would want to feel how it is to ‘be in love’. I take commitments (personal, business) pretty serious and if I put myself into relationship (again, personal or business) I tend to stick there, even if things don’t go smoothly. And I think that this seriousness is the result of Venus/Saturn aspect.

For Uranus/Venus aspect I haven’t really noticed, how would it manifests in my life… But then again, I am ‘only’ 25.

I have read about how important is for Venus/Saturn people to wait until their Saturn returns (at the age of 28, 29), because their way of seeing life, understanding it changes quite drastically. Also their life should improve after age of 30-35, but earlier years (up to 28,29) can be quite hard to deal with.

posted July 06, 2014 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
Happiness is different for everyone, just like their aspects. Venus conjunct Saturn sound to me like a Taurus-Capricorn couple, who they seek stability, having a good time, and economical basis. Plus, they can be together for a lifetime, because they want an easy and quiet normal life.

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That's pretty much how I would describe perfect relationship for me.

posted July 06, 2014 12:37 PM            

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Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca:
That's pretty much how I would describe perfect relationship for me.

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posted July 06, 2014 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I have the same aspects as you. Though mine are in my 4th house. I feel the exact same way. I have a very idealized version of a relationship. I've had a few boyfriends but once I realized they weren't the ideal person I wanted I emotionally checked out. Though I still stayed with these people because... I don't know a sense of duty? I take commitments very seriously so I rarely jump into them. I stick things out through the thick and thin. But I am also very flighty before I make that commitment.

Hm that's an interesting point. I had it pretty rough so far. And I remember someone telling me something like that a long time ago, before I got married to my ex...

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Oh... it was so good to read your lines...

Knowing that there are people, who - because of similar aspects - have the same way of understanding things such as relationship, it really is consolation, since so many people in my surroundings think I take things regarding relationship too seriously and I should 'break loose'... Thank you, again, for sharing!

p.s. If it is not too personal... how old are you / when did you get married (you mentioned 'your ex')

posted July 06, 2014 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I must admit that your aspects have everything Rebecca, but it must be difficult to find a man who concludes all these. As soon as you find him though I bet it's gonna last
I want a full package too if I decide to create a family so I can understand you.

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Yeah, it is difficult...

But I still somehow (probably because of Venus/Neptune thing?) manage to wait for Him even if it takes a little bit longer than it takes for people around me. I just know that there has to be someone who is my match. I do get a bit depressed sometimes (imagine being the only one single in a group of friends... not easy. But at least my parents give me enough freedom and don't ask me, when will I get a partner), but than usually I write my thoughts in my diary and it gets better.

Thanks, unforgiven_soul, for your thoughts!