Posts: 83
From: Avalon, NSW Australia
Registered: Mar 2005

posted May 15, 2007 10:24 PM         

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GUYS PLEASE I HAD A READING A FEW WEEKS AGO IT WAS VERY INTERESTING BUT IS THERE ANY WAY I COULD GET ANOTHER ONE, IM OBSESSING
THANKS

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From: Mesa, AZ USA
Registered: Apr 2007

posted May 16, 2007 10:58 PM         

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Hey Natasha, saw your post and decided to reply. I generally don't like to ask yes/no questions, so I sometimes reword the question in order to get a more practical answer. In your case, I asked, "What steps can be taken in order to bring about a loving relationship? (or something close to that...)LOL
Let me start out by asking, are you a mother? If not, you have STRONG caretaking tendencies which influence your life and not always in a positive way. Also, are you a teacher? If not I think you have quite a bit of influence on those around you, as if others look to you for guidance and support. I have a feeling that you spend much time helping to take care of others and tending to neglect yourself or your own needs. I absolutely believe love is on the way, but, there's some work you have to do on yourself first (I know, who wants to work, but, it's necessary). Start by taking care of yourself first. Make some quiet, free time daily just to do whatever. Read, take a long relaxing bath, go hiking, etc. Take a look at some of your beliefs with regards to relationship, what you were taught, what was passed on to you. I think you may have some beliefs or ideas that could be holding you back from a fulfilling relationship. Do you love yourself? It's only when we can have love for ourselves, warts and all, that we can attract someone to love us the way we need to be loved. When we don't have that self-love, we end up in some really unhealthy situations with people who don't value us simply because we don't want to be alone. Start focusing on the love that you do have (no matter who it's from), what you focus on expands and due to the law of attraction, you'll find more and more love in your life. To obsess on not having the partner you want only leads to more not having! Find and read a book called, "The Shared Heart" by Joyce and Barry Vissell. It's my relationship bible! I wish you all the luck in the world in your search. My advice is to start within. Again, take time for yourself and re-examine your beliefs about relationships, especially what was taught to you by the caretakers in your early life. Hope this helps. And remember, love IS on the way!

Peace & Blessings
Mark

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