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posted April 03, 2008 01:27 AM         

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Me,Adria McMichael 8-7-80 him, Nick Summerlin 11-14-84

I know what I'm getting from my cards, he's scared, but he can't be without me completely. My guides say to be patient with him, he's my other half. However, If you can tell by my screen name... i'm not the most patient out of the lot. (Leo Sun , Taurus Rising, Cancer moon.) If someone knows timeframes... or can offer any insight, astrological numerological, lexis.. ANYTHING... I would appreciate it. I'm too fired up to think straight, or read straight, and I just would like some answers. Thank you !

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posted April 03, 2008 03:01 PM         

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Can you post your birth times (and/or charts) please?

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posted April 03, 2008 05:28 PM         

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He doesn't have birth time info because the hospital where he was born did not print his exact time of birth. His mom says around 6am, but she's not sure. Mine is 11:46pm on August 7, 1980.

PS... he believes he made a mistake, and came back to me. Which is no surprise. Even Linda said that my Scorpio would leave, but would come back to his love the Lioness.

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posted April 03, 2008 07:09 PM         

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With his Saturn squared to your Sun, there's the potential that it could feel like he is judging you and not able to really love all of you, even when you are out there giving your very best. You two also have squared suns. Considering the charts, it looks like he might feel a sense of pressure in relation to your relationship, and it might be characterized more by suffering and sadness than fun. Ironically, that can lead to a "fated" feeling, as if the two of you have a deep connection...because your connection feels so much heavier and more intense than a "fun" pairing would. You are probably a very giving, very emotionally devoted person--but is this relationship giving you the joy, fun, adventure, comfort and trust that you need?

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posted April 03, 2008 07:23 PM         

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Ok I had the time way off,for him. I gave the time he thinks his brother is born. I have no idea for him at all. I have been dying to do his chart for him, but his mother can't recall when he was born. We do have a lot of fun together, so much so that we consider ourselves best friends, and prefer the company of each other. We're always laughing. Which surprises his serious Scorpio side. At any rate... I am so sorry I don't have his time.

I will be able to give you a Tarot reading later on today though. I'm at work right now but as soon as I'm in the comfort of my own home I'll pull cards for you. Thank you for taking time out for me Lucia!

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posted April 03, 2008 07:29 PM         

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Adria! I'm so glad to hear that you two have fun together...based on YOUR chart, that's very important in your relationships.

What's the trouble with your Scorpio? Why did he leave, and if he's back now, what's wrong?

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posted April 03, 2008 09:07 PM         

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adria- you didnt give us the city you were born in. but assuming, its the city you have under your name, it gives you a taurus rising like you stated you have.

you said something about time frames...
well saturn is transiting your 5th house(house of sex, romance, love, children, etc)...saturn is a restrictive planet also a planet of karma/fate. this transit will last about 1 year and half more..less or more..it will restrict relationships, making it very difficult to get into one, break it up, OR...it can strengthen a relationship but only if its serious, and real. you are in a place right now, where its difficult to play games, you want something REAL, serious, and longstanding. you probably feel picky about who you want in your life too. the fact that youre a leo, and leo rules 5th house matters, makes this transit even more intense. transiting pluto is opposing your natal venus, this also brings another element of fate in your love relationships. you might come under the spell of someone, for all the wrong reasons, also your feelings become a firey inferno...its very difficult to be stay calm, emotionally at this time. your emotions are aroused intensely. also your values concerning love with be transformed by circumstances that come in your life, usually thru another person.

if you and this man, dont get together, i would take it as a sign its not meant to be. saturn is cleaning up your romantic life, wanting something solid and REAL....pluto is forcing it, feeling like your hands are tied behind your back.

many people marry, or commit during transits of saturn in their 5th, or 7th. this isnt a gloom/doom aspect as a lot of people think. if you do commit during this time, the relationship will likely be able to weather many storms, and be long lasting. so i hope you good luck in your quest, and your relationship with this man.

also if you want a romantic reading, i do a lot of them on this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/015955.html

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posted April 03, 2008 09:08 PM         

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Well, honestly, I think it's an age thing. And the fact we're both so guarded about our true feelings. A month before we broke up, he had a talk with me about feeling like I'm not putting enough into the relationship... but I told him it's because I'm afraid to have my heart broken and he admitted the same. When we broke up, he said he was scared we were going to break up, just like his other relationships. Which he eventually realized, we were not his past, we are a part of his future. I truly believe part of his problem is that his friends tell him things... I know that on one occasion, they tried to get him to sleep with another girl. He wouldn't do it, but he questioned his belief in committing to me. I really trust him, and I don't mind when he goes out with his friends. He gives me a lot of freedom too, and trusts me completely. But I think he thinks he can't even be attracted to other women... which isn't the case.. he can, but they can't compare to me. hehe... But really, it was the realization that it is possible for us to live in the NOW. To allow ourselves to feel deeply for one another, without fear blocking us from showing the other person how we feel.

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posted April 03, 2008 09:24 PM         

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write! I was born in Edina Minnesota, in Hennepin county. Darn Saturn... with all that time he had in my Sun, I was hoping he was done with me. Well, our relationship is strong, at least the friendship. We're extremely close friends... but both scared of getting hurt. I think we had a breakthrough the last two nights. We stayed up talking both nights, and told each other things we had been holding back. (damn leo pride... ) Thank you for doing my chart for me, I have a program back home at my parent's house that allows me to do charts... but I haven't transferred it to my laptop yet. All I know is I'm all Water and Fire, and a little Earth. I don't think I have a drop of air...

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posted April 04, 2008 10:27 AM         

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I reposted your chart with the correct city. You do have air...Mars and Pluto are in Libra which are both air signs...Mars is in detriment because Aries rules Mars, and aries is opposite of libra...Mars in Libra means you are attracted to passive-aggressive, charming, beautiful, kind men...with conj pluto, you are attracted to maybe mystery/dark/alluring men. it is in conjunction with pluto, giving it a "scorpio" element to your mars, which explains why you're attracted to this scorpio man....

hope this helps and i hope you good luck with this man..scorpios are very difficult to love, it takes time with them, but it always seems like its worth it.

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posted April 04, 2008 05:45 PM         

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Thank you. I've always wondered what my deal with Scorpios was. The last 4 years, almost every guy that was attracted to me, was a scorpio. I was attracting them like bees to honey. I really appreciate this. Did you want to trade for a tarot reading? Just let me know if you want a specific question answered. Thank you again!

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