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posted April 05, 2008 01:49 PM         

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I could really use some hope. Been bouncing around different cities for about 6 years. Not securing decent employment. Living in my car currently. Did it for a solid year (2006-2007), and I really don't want it to be this long this time around. Obviously, this puts a damper on my love life. I have a lot going for me, can sing, am attractive, and still get lots of attention despite my 30-pound weight gain in the past year. But the ones I like either don't reciprocate or it's not workable. I'm not really looking. Sometimes you just meet people and can't help but like them... and I don't like many.

I'm 37yo and will be 38 this year, and it's freaking me out. No one believes how old I am. Most guess me to be 25-27. I do like someone, but I feel I need to let it go, so I won't hurt and feel that "longing". I need to numb myself. My DOB is June 7. His birthday is April 6. He is 6 years younger. My birth year is 70. His is 76. I wrote those separately in case of a web search.

Thanks.

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posted April 05, 2008 02:05 PM         

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Hi YinYang7,

What time were you born and where were you born?

It sounds like you're a touring musician, however it looks. I'd like to see what's happening in your chart.

What is it that you truly want in terms of career and relationship. I understand that feeling of "not really looking" for someone to be in your life, yet there is potential for someone but you feel like you just don't have it together. Anyway, I'd like to see your chart so if you can provide that full birth information, that would be great.

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posted April 05, 2008 02:11 PM         

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Covington, GA
Around 8:00 or 8:30pm (the one that gives me the moon in Leo)

Thanks.

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posted April 05, 2008 03:15 PM         

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I see the main culprit for your living situation might because of Uranus conj your 4th house(home). Uranus brings unexpected events relating to home. Not everyone has it so drastic, so it has different effects for different people. Its also squaring your Sun, which makes your life even more chaotic, and unpredictable. Im surprised about your money situation because jupiter seems to be going thru your 2nd house, which is related to money, possessions. This transit is really good for attaining money and things in general. I think the weight gain was in part due to Jupiter going thru your 1st house, and opposing your sun. Many people seem to gain weight during this time, but it looks like Saturn is sextiling your mars, and squaring your ascendant, which helps if you are trying to lose weight. Without exact birthtime, its really difficult to pinpoint things too much but the sounds of whats going on Uranus on the IC(4th) sounds about right..I dont really see anything for relationships besides Saturn squaring your descendant and uranus trining your venus. I think the relationships you find now wont hold any weight in depth. I think when Pluto is opposing your venus closer, you might meet someone more special, hopefully there will be other transits at the time that helps you out, maybe when Saturn is in Scorpio?
Anyways, I see a lot of potential to get back up and start anew. I would really try to take advantage of jupiter transiting your 2nd house. You have very good potential to better your finances. Your natal chart looks good for it too, the only challenges I see to your finances is Saturn being in Taurus, and Saturn ruling your 2nd house. I dont think astrology is 100% and anything can be overcome. Ive seen it firsthand with people with challenging charts, and are very well off, or at least live a decent life.I will pray for you, and hope for the best, Im sorry youre going thru this, just try to stay optimistic.

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posted April 05, 2008 03:31 PM         

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Thanks. I'm lucky with money when it comes to "just enough" falling in my lap "just in time".

So I'll never have true love in this life? I actually met the guy that I mentioned online around November 2005. We still haven't met in person, but it's becoming more of a possibility now. I was contemplating moving to his city, as I have been since the fall of 2005. Not because of him, though.

I gave you the exact birthtime. My birth certificate says 8pm. I just it "might" say 8:30. It's they one that matches the Moon in Leo.

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posted April 05, 2008 05:50 PM         

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Welcome!

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posted April 05, 2008 06:10 PM         

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Both times put the Moon in Leo. Writesomething made the chart for 8:00 PM, I did it for 8:30 but the 8PM definitely matches better. In the future, do your best to trust the birth certificate, a lot of work just went out the window for me, but that's my fault. I assumed that Moon wouldn't be in Leo with the first time. Oh well.

Writesomething,

Your insight was so spot on. It was refreshing after I got burned out looking for everything. Pfeeeww!! There's a lot of excitement going on for her.

Geocosmic Valentine

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posted April 05, 2008 09:20 PM         

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What do you mean there's a lot of excitement going on for me?

I wasn't trying to cause you extra work. I'm sorry.

And my moon in Leo really fits when it comes to my love of the arts. I sing and took 3 years of drama in high school, albeit 20 years ago. I love to make people laugh, as well. So if a moon in Leo is a flair for the dramatic or being the center of attention, that's me.

Isn't my Venus in Cancer? Isn't that a good thing when it comes to love?

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posted April 06, 2008 10:14 PM         

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Hi YinYang7,

You have nothing to apologize for. You didn't do anything wrong, I just didn't check both times. Had I checked both times I would have noticed transiting Uranus on your 4th house cusp, and just as Writesomething said, it's the cause of your feeling unstable right now.

It's also the reason why I mentioned excitement. It might feel more like intensity or electricity or just a highly eccentric feeling around home issues and the like.

Also with transiting Uranus square to your Sun, all of your core energies are electrified and since the Sun rules your 9th house of long distance travel, it is exciting your life around long distance travel. Don't worry, it won't be permanent, if you can just accept that it's meant to be right now, you can enjoy your traveling. Things will settle down at some point.

Geocosmic Valentine

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