posted May 06, 2008 04:32 AM         

My DOB 16/09/74
Born in Johannesburg SA @ 6:30am

posted May 06, 2008 04:29 PM         

This is one of the red flags to watch out for in comparing charts. Your energies tend to conflict,
particularly if either of you attempts to correct the other's actions. This is a passionate aspect,
which is wonderful in certain arenas, but can also lead to passionate arguments. You can only be at
ease with each other to the degree that you can accept the differences in how you both go about
doing things. Otherwise, there tends to be conflict over everything. Learning to avoid expressing
yourself to each other when your solar plexus is tight would help immensely. When your solar
plexus is tight, your partner hears whatever you are saying as a punch. Harness the power, and
great things can be accomplished with your combined energy; otherwise, petty arguments and
disagreements rule the day.

Virgo's Ascendant trine Cancer's Ascendant:

Your approaches to life are in harmony with each other, making it enjoyable and easy to spend
time together. You both feel supported in your outlook on life.

Virgo's Chiron conjunct Cancer's Chiron:

You are naturally empathic toward each other's deep sensitivities and support each other's efforts
toward healing.

Virgo's Sun conjunct Cancer's Pluto:

This is an extremely powerful aspect that has to be handled wisely. Cancer's will has a
subconscious impact on Virgo. The relationship can facilitate major transformation; rarely would it
be casual. There can seem to be something fated or karmic about this tie, unleashing a tremendous
amount of power and passion between the two of you. If this is healthy, bravo, this can be an
extremely profound relationship. If either person feels threatened in any way by the other, not much
good can come from the tie.

Cancer's Sun conjunct Virgo's Saturn:

This tie can go one of two ways. First, the restraining and restricting nature of Virgo can have a
dampening influence on Cancer. Cancer can feel that Virgo is be a heavy responsibility. However,
this same aspect is often found in profound, long-term relationships where both feel a deep
commitment and sense of loyalty to each other. If Virgo is the repressive type, Cancer will feel it
immediately. This is most favorable in mentor situations where it is appropriate for Virgo to hold
the authority in the relationship.

Cancer's Sun trine Virgo's Jupiter:

You encourage a positive outlook on life together and there is no end to the number of
growth-oriented activities that you could enjoy together. You both feel confident that it is safe to
trust each other. Shared experiences with travel, education, and philosophical pursuits are favored.

Cancer's Sun sextile Virgo's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

Virgo's Sun square Cancer's Saturn:

Virgo feels the hammer of Cancer's disapproval always close at hand. Cancer gets irritated with
Virgo's lack of responsibility. Projections abound between the two of you, and the wise person
sees the very qualities you dislike in each other as projections of unclaimed parts of your own
character. It takes character strength to deal successfully with this one; otherwise Virgo can feel
disapproved of and Cancer feels unappreciated.

Cancer's Sun square Virgo's Mercury:

Communication difficulties arise because of the angular nature of your perspective on issues. You
see things differently and must allow for this if the relationship is to flourish. Otherwise, petty
arguments could arise over how things are said to each other.

Cancer's Sun square Virgo's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

Cancer's Sun square Virgo's Pluto:

Power struggles are likely to erupt unless both of you stay vigilant for any attempts by the other to
control the relationship in any way. Cancer can feel that Virgo is always pulling strings trying to get
something. Virgo can feel as if Cancer is always challenging Virgo's authority.

Virgo's Moon conjunct Cancer's Pluto:

Virgo can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand Cancer's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if Cancer can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

Cancer's Moon conjunct Virgo's Saturn:

Cancer feels the pressure of Virgo's expectations and judgments, and thus is extremely sensitive to
Virgo's approval and disapproval. If handled wisely, this creates a strong sense of responsibility
that binds the two of you together. If not handled wisely, Cancer feels unsafe in emotional
expression, and close interaction can be blocked.

Cancer's Moon trine Virgo's Jupiter:

Virgo has a knack for uplifting Cancer's mood. Cancer, of course, enjoys this, so a positive,
trusting relationship develops. Cancer emotionally supports the growth needs and the philosophical
and religious interests of Virgo.

Cancer's Moon sextile Virgo's Venus:

You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.

Virgo's Moon square Cancer's Saturn:

This tie is usually considered unfavorable for emotional relationships, unless Cancer is mindful of
the excessive sensitivity Virgo has to any disapproval. Virgo's needs are judged as weak by
Cancer and tend to go unmet.

Cancer's Moon square Virgo's Mercury:

Communication over emotional issues is difficult. Cancer reads meaning into Virgo's words that
wasn't intended. Virgo has difficulty understanding Cancer's emotional needs. Rational arguments
over emotional issues are likely. Words often don't help in clearing up misunderstandings; try
silence . . . look into each other's eyes, silently communicate your intent to get through the issue,
hold each other . . . it works.

Cancer's Moon square Virgo's Pluto:

Cancer can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand Virgo's will. A healthy relationship
can develop only if Virgo can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

Virgo's Mercury conjunct Cancer's Uranus:

This is a very exciting connection for communication and learning together. Cancer's energy
liberates Virgo's way of thinking, though it does make it difficult to stay on the topic at hand. While
in conversations with each other, ideas just come flying in about all types of issues, not just what
you are currently discussing. Some of the ideas that you come up with together are likely to be out
of synch with your culture, so it's best to think things through before you act on some of your
radical ideas.

Virgo's Mercury trine Cancer's Jupiter:

This aspect is very favorable for communication and mutual interests in continued learning.
Cancer's philosophical outlook on life is expansive and uplifting to Virgo. Virgo engages Cancer's
philosophical beliefs and helps plan movement toward goals.

Cancer's Mercury trine Virgo's Neptune:

You have a highly intuitive rapport with each other. This supports your communication, allowing
you get the subtle nuances. You help each other rise above petty issues and can encourage each
other's interests in spirituality and the arts.

Cancer's Mercury sextile Virgo's Mars:

This tie is favorable for motivating you both to act on ideas. You rarely trigger each other's
defenses in communications, and can even work through difficult moments together without feeling
threatened by each other.

Cancer's Mercury sextile Virgo's Ascendant:

You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.

Virgo's Mercury opposition Cancer's Chiron:

You likely have different opinions and views concerning health issues. It is not easy to accept each
other's help, because your views about what would be helpful differ. Try not to convince each
other of the right way toward health and healing, and instead, acknowledge and allow for the
differences to help avoid difficulties.

Cancer's Mercury square Virgo's Uranus:

A tension exists in your communications with each other. Virgo wants Cancer to change the way
Cancer thinks about something in a way that is inconceivable to Cancer. Cancer can feel Virgo is a
disruptive, unruly influence, and Virgo can view Cancer as narrow-minded and stuck in
conventional thinking.

Cancer's Venus trine Virgo's Neptune:

This aspect brings a refined energy into your relationship, and you become sensitive to the subtle
realms of your energy with each other. A peaceful feeling flows between the two of you, and you
can enjoy the arts, music, and spiritual activities together.

Virgo's Venus trine Cancer's North Node:

Your values and tastes are in harmony with one another, and you are naturally attracted to activities
that lead to mutual soul growth.

Cancer's Venus sextile Virgo's Mars:

There is very favorable magnetic flow between the two of you that could best be described as
delightful. This creates an energetic spark that is well received by both of you. You are skilled at
keeping this spark of magnetism alive long into your relationship.

Cancer's Venus sextile Virgo's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. Cancer is very attracted to Virgo's looks and
style. It is easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.

Virgo's Venus square Cancer's Neptune:

There can be a mystical attraction between the two of you, but there is the danger of illusions and
deception with this combination. Fantasy can be delightful in love when it is a seasoning, but when
it is the main course, disillusionment is the ultimate result when the fantasy can't be sustained in
reality.

Cancer's Venus square Virgo's Uranus:

Virgo feels constrained by Cancer's values and attitudes about relationships. Cancer's security is
threatened by Virgo's need for freedom. There can be sexual magnetism that comes from the
fascination of something different, but your tastes being so different would be a test.

Cancer's Venus square Virgo's Chiron:

Your values concerning health and healing can be at odds with each other. Cancer's desires for
pleasurable activity can activate the wounds Virgo is carrying from previous relationships.

Virgo's Mars conjunct Cancer's Pluto:

This is an extremely powerful aspect, for good or ill. The high road leads to an invincible will when
this power is focused in honorable directions together. Passion can top the charts in a healthy
sexual relationship. The saying "Power corrupts" describes the low road manifestations of this
combination. In worst-case scenarios, violence could erupt. Encouraging each other's attitude of
"Might makes right" could lead to all types of misuses of this energy. If you can't direct the energy
in healthy directions, all types of strange obsessions with each other could manifest.

Cancer's Mars trine Virgo's Neptune:

This combination is excellent for romance as it brings the best of imagination into your passion. You
can inspire each other creatively in all types of ways, and the danger of the blind spot with Neptune
is minimized.

Virgo's Mars trine Cancer's Ascendant:

Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.

Cancer's Mars opposition Virgo's Pluto:

You are being tested with the right use of power in this relationship, and power conflicts erupt with
the slightest provocation on either of your parts. Taking martial arts training together would be a
good metaphor of your test. With this training you would learn that your power comes from staying
in your center, and not getting pulled into anger. This is no small trick in your relationship because
of the hair-trigger reactions you both have to conflict issues when either of you tries to change the
other in any way. You can bring out each other's shadow issues, and need to be willing to question
your motives in any plans you come up with together.

Cancer's Mars opposition Virgo's Ascendant:

Conflicts erupt when Virgo feels picked on or badgered by Cancer Conversely, Cancer becomes
irritated by Virgo's approach to situations.

Virgo's Mars square Cancer's Saturn:

The potential for angry flare-ups is strong. Virgo feels pressured and disapproved of by Cancer,
fueling anger and resentment. Cancer feels Virgo is purposefully trying to be a source of
aggravation and irritation. To avoid the defensive reactions that are sure to be there otherwise, it is
essential to avoid correcting each other's behavior.

Virgo's Mars square Cancer's North Node:

Virgo's choices of activities are often off track for the path of soul growth for Cancer. You would
be advised to allow space in your relationship for your separate interests.

Cancer's Jupiter trine Virgo's Pluto:

You can support and take part in mutual interests in travel, education, philosophy, and mysticism.
You encourage each other to reach for goals that benefit society as well as yourselves.

Cancer's Jupiter sextile Virgo's Neptune:

Mysticism and philosophical exchanges are favored with this combination, and your discussions
help you both rise above the petty issues in life to gain a more inspired view.

Virgo's Jupiter sextile Cancer's North Node:

You provide strong support for each other's spiritual growth and can actively pursue spiritual
studies together. Travel together can be related to your spiritual quest, and it will not be difficult to
find a path that is growth-oriented for both of you.

Virgo's Jupiter square Cancer's Neptune:

You encourage each other into blind spots and plans based on false optimism. With this aspect, it
is always best to think things all the way through before heading off on a fantasy. You can
encourage indulgent behavior in each other, and this could be trouble if either of you has problems
with escapism or addictions.

Cancer's Saturn trine Virgo's Uranus:

This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. Virgo
encourages Cancer to be innovative in career considerations, while Cancer helps ground Virgo's
ideas.

Cancer's Saturn sextile Virgo's Chiron:

There can be mutual interest in serious, scholarly studies and pursuits related to health and healing.
You have a steadying influence on each other's path of moving forward in the healing process, and
you are there for each other in times of need.

Virgo's Saturn square Cancer's Uranus:

There is tension from Virgo wanting to maintain the status quo and Cancer wanting change. Virgo
feels Cancer is a loose cannon and disruptive to what is going on. Cancer becomes frustrated by
Virgo's narrow thinking.

Cancer's Saturn square Virgo's Ascendant:

Virgo feels disempowered by Cancer 's disapproval. You can both feel disrespected for what you
stand for. The relationship feels strained unless you overcome your judgments of each other.

Virgo's Saturn square Cancer's Chiron:

You tend to undermine each other's attempts to move beyond old wounds. You may make
judgments about each other's insecurities and fears, exacerbating the problem, rather than helping.
Be aware that advice you give is not likely to be well received; it is best to talk less and listen more
to each other's fears and insecurities.

Virgo's Uranus opposition Cancer's Chiron:

Here, we have two rebels with two different causes. An example would be two people who both
rebelled against traditional health care and found their own, but different, alternative paths. Until
you can honor these differences, the tendency to look at each other's path as eccentric at best, and
as having little merit, will certainly be felt as challenging.

Cancer's Neptune sextile Virgo's Pluto:

Your interactions with each other invariably help you both rise above the petty, lower currents of
reality. If you attempt to meditate together, you will feel as if you are being lifted up on unseen
wings.

Virgo's Neptune sextile Cancer's Ascendant:

This is a favorable aspect that allows Virgo to help Cancer rise above petty issues, and Cancer to
help Virgo follow spiritual and creative vision. Involvements in the arts and spiritual activity together
are highly favored.

Cancer's Pluto conjunct Virgo's Ascendant:

This is a powerful and transformative combination that, if used wisely, can help you both shed what
you are not, and become what you are meant to be. Cancer 's will has a tremendous impact and
influence on Virgo's outlook on life. The low road would lead to manipulative behavior by Cancer
with this influence.

Virgo's Pluto trine Cancer's Ascendant:

You support the deepest type of spiritual transformation in each other and can be a source of
hidden strength for each other.

Virgo's Pluto square Cancer's North Node:

A karmic pattern of mistrust must be faced to avoid the undermining influence of this aspect. If
issues of mistrust exist, put them on the table and clear the issues before proceeding. Overcome the
tendency to let these issues putrefy beneath the surface, which can breed all types of ill feelings.

Virgo's North Node trine Cancer's Chiron:

You can out bring out the best in each other because you support life paths that are healing and
growth-oriented for both of you.