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Reggie
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From: Mississauga, Canada
Registered: Jun 2008

posted June 05, 2008 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Reggie     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, I'm hoping someone can do a reading for me.

I am trying to get over a guy I have never been involved with and never will. I've known him for over a year through work. I always thought he sort've liked me. We used to get along so well up until about 5 months ago. Now he basically treats me as if I'm a stranger and don't exist. Thats what hurts the most - the way he treats me now.

I realize this sounds simple and almost juvenile but.... So any insight would help me get over this. My birthday is June 22, 1968 and my first name is Regina.

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Geocosmic Valentine
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posted June 07, 2008 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Regina,

It's very important for an astrologer to have the exact place where you were born and very important, the time that you were born especially when you're asking a question of this nature.

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Reggie
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posted June 07, 2008 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Reggie     Edit/Delete Message
Hi,

I was born in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I'm not quite sure about time of birth but it would be approximately 6:00 am.

Name: Regina
Birthdate: June 22, 1968
Time: approx. 6:00 am
Place: Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Thank you!

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Geocosmic Valentine
Knowflake

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From: New York, NY
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posted June 07, 2008 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks, Regina.

I hope to have some info for you by tomorrow. We are close in age, I'm 41 and I've had a similar thing happen to me so I don't think it's so uncommon. Everything that happens is some kind of lesson and life holds strange surprises for us, just so we don't start to think we know everything.

Have a great day,

Geocosmsic Valentine

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Reggie
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posted June 09, 2008 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Reggie     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks! I hope this will help me since I have a tendency to obsess over things.

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Geocosmic Valentine
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From: New York, NY
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posted June 09, 2008 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Regina,

I didn't forget you. I'm in the process of putting it together now, just didn't want you to think I forgot.

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Geocosmic Valentine
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From: New York, NY
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posted June 10, 2008 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Reggie,

I was trying to fit everything but the kitchen sink into your reading here and it just wasn't working, so I thought "Why don't I just tell her what is screaming from her chart that needs immediate attention?" So that's what I'll do.

I don't see where your chart suggests that you are usually obsessive about things, but there is a current planetary pattern happening in your chart right now that carries an obsessive nature with it. You have a cluster of planets in a particular spot of your chart, it's called a Grand Stellium - meaning a conjunction of 3 or more planets very close together. Currently, transiting Pluto is opposite that stellium and it is tearing down and rebuilding your ideals.

The other issues being affected seem to be where you receive love, hopes, wishes and dreams (11th house issues), your self-worth and personal finances (2nd house issues) and grand dramatic communications and/or the way you think or correspond (3rd house issues.

Last, it may be affecting your career as well, possibly in a manner of management, directing or coaching. Also, there may be a smattering of father-figure issues in that mix. This may all be happening in more of a public arena than you desire.

You don't have to tell me who you are, but your chart suggests that you are prominent in some way, is this true?

This current Pluto influence could be putting even more into the spot light.

As far as why this man has all of a sudden changed his way of relating to you, I couldn't really say without seeing his chart, but it's definitely reflected in your chart. Through this experience you are probably changing your thoughts around what you actually value in relationships, whether it's with friends or lovers. I wouldn't worry about the feelings being "Juvenile". I suggest looking back in your childhood to relate what's happening now with whatever happened then. Your feelings were valid then and they are valid now. Everything counts, no matter what age you are. Even if it was something that happened with a friend in nursery school, it was important and you may be revisiting that issue again now to resolve it with this guy.

Pluto is retrograde now and it will sweep back over those planets one more time between now and January of 2010.

That doesn't mean that you will be obsessed with this guy, it means that this is a major time of development in your life, including major successes because you'll be making major changes, doing lots of work and making major decisions about your life.

A lot of these decisions may regard your health since this Grand Stellium is in your 12th House which is a health center in the chart. There is some regeneration going on with you, maybe in terms of diet, you might change your entire way of eating.

Now, most of this is based on the time of birth that you gave me, so I hope it was close.

One thing I just noticed is your 12th house Venus, which can suggest that love matters in your life can be hidden, there's the possibility of secret relationships, affairs, but also shame related to sexuality and the people you choose to love. I don't know if any of this figures into the scenario with this guy, but this may also be the opportunity to heal yourself around these issues, knowing that you are worthy enough to go public with your love, not to be ashamed of sexuality or letting yourself know that you are allowed to express your love.

I have a 12th house Venus and those are just some of the issues it.

I hope that you recognize some of yourself in this and I want to say gear up for major changes in your life, you're getting some major powerful pushes.

Please let me know if any of this hits home, please confirm if it's correct or way off the mark.

Geocosmic Valentine
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Reggie
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posted June 10, 2008 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Reggie     Edit/Delete Message
Wow! Thanks for doing this.
I see alot of familiar things in there.
I'm not a famous person even though I wish I were.
You saw a sign with financial matters. I went to a Tarot reader one time, and he saw alot of financial stuff in my cards.
This obsession with this crush has totally caught me off guard.

In regards to secret affairs, relationships, etc. that may be in my past where I've been involved with people I shouldn't have been or were bad for me. This guy who I'm trying to forget is also someone who I shouldn't be interestd in.

In regards to change in my life, I've been trying to change myself in certain ways, in regards with how I communicate and deal with people... I wonder if this is what this change is about...

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Reggie
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posted June 19, 2008 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Reggie     Edit/Delete Message
Hi there. I need help and more answers. I don't have the guy's birthdate or other info.

I can't help being sensitive with his treatment towards me. He is barely civil. Yesterday I ran into him very briefly and he barely said a hi or bye. He was basically rude. This is a guy who used to hit on me and I thought we had a great rapport. Why is he so rude to me?

What is my problem?

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Jugular
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From: New York, NY, USA
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posted June 19, 2008 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jugular     Edit/Delete Message
When he hit on you, did you fail to respond the way he wanted? Sometimes when women do that, the man's ego can't handle it and he turns to disliking the woman who "rejected" him. Perhaps it's as simple as that? Mebbe?

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Reggie
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posted June 19, 2008 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Reggie     Edit/Delete Message
I really don't know if its that simple.

I'm really more bothered by his rudeness towards me. And the fact that I let it get under my skin...still.

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