posted June 10, 2008 12:11 PM
Hi Reggie,I was trying to fit everything but the kitchen sink into your reading here and it just wasn't working, so I thought "Why don't I just tell her what is screaming from her chart that needs immediate attention?" So that's what I'll do.
I don't see where your chart suggests that you are usually obsessive about things, but there is a current planetary pattern happening in your chart right now that carries an obsessive nature with it. You have a cluster of planets in a particular spot of your chart, it's called a Grand Stellium - meaning a conjunction of 3 or more planets very close together. Currently, transiting Pluto is opposite that stellium and it is tearing down and rebuilding your ideals.
The other issues being affected seem to be where you receive love, hopes, wishes and dreams (11th house issues), your self-worth and personal finances (2nd house issues) and grand dramatic communications and/or the way you think or correspond (3rd house issues.
Last, it may be affecting your career as well, possibly in a manner of management, directing or coaching. Also, there may be a smattering of father-figure issues in that mix. This may all be happening in more of a public arena than you desire.
You don't have to tell me who you are, but your chart suggests that you are prominent in some way, is this true?
This current Pluto influence could be putting even more into the spot light.
As far as why this man has all of a sudden changed his way of relating to you, I couldn't really say without seeing his chart, but it's definitely reflected in your chart. Through this experience you are probably changing your thoughts around what you actually value in relationships, whether it's with friends or lovers. I wouldn't worry about the feelings being "Juvenile". I suggest looking back in your childhood to relate what's happening now with whatever happened then. Your feelings were valid then and they are valid now. Everything counts, no matter what age you are. Even if it was something that happened with a friend in nursery school, it was important and you may be revisiting that issue again now to resolve it with this guy.
Pluto is retrograde now and it will sweep back over those planets one more time between now and January of 2010.
That doesn't mean that you will be obsessed with this guy, it means that this is a major time of development in your life, including major successes because you'll be making major changes, doing lots of work and making major decisions about your life.
A lot of these decisions may regard your health since this Grand Stellium is in your 12th House which is a health center in the chart. There is some regeneration going on with you, maybe in terms of diet, you might change your entire way of eating.
Now, most of this is based on the time of birth that you gave me, so I hope it was close.
One thing I just noticed is your 12th house Venus, which can suggest that love matters in your life can be hidden, there's the possibility of secret relationships, affairs, but also shame related to sexuality and the people you choose to love. I don't know if any of this figures into the scenario with this guy, but this may also be the opportunity to heal yourself around these issues, knowing that you are worthy enough to go public with your love, not to be ashamed of sexuality or letting yourself know that you are allowed to express your love.
I have a 12th house Venus and those are just some of the issues it.
I hope that you recognize some of yourself in this and I want to say gear up for major changes in your life, you're getting some major powerful pushes.
Please let me know if any of this hits home, please confirm if it's correct or way off the mark.
Geocosmic Valentine
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