posted September 03, 2008 05:26 PM         

I've seen your chart(as you know), but I don't have it right in front of me. I do remember there being some kind of 9th house focus in it and I thought it was all about publishing or something. I think I mentioned travel, but I can't quite remember. However, here are some of my highest thoughts:

As much as we want to only look at the romantic side of love, relationships and marriage, it is of the utmost importance that you be able to strongly look at the BUSINESS SIDE OF MARRIAGE. As much as people don't want to face it, marriage IS a business. And because you have children, that makes it even more imperative.

Not only that, you are about to begin a strong relationship and/or marriage with someone in another country, there is an international element to it and he brings that to you and your entire family, the people you care about.

You NEED to be able to ask the HARD questions. Even if you're afraid to ask them, you feel the fear and ask them anyway. Your family is right in telling you to get clear.

Clarity is power. If he is indeed THE ONE, he should welcome your inquiry and answer your questions with joy and gusto in his heart. That is how you can tell if he is the one. Especially with an international relationship, you need to be more sure of the details of your relationship, your finances and your terms. Not just for your family, but for you as well.

Part of me just remembered that I may not have to tell you all of these things because this would be a second marriage for you, but just in case, remember what was difficult in your last marriage and that can guide you to avoid many of the mistakes from your previous marriage.

That's all I have to say, now I'll butt out.

I hope he's the one and I hope you're having fun in your travels, too.

Geocosmic Valentine

posted September 03, 2008 06:52 PM         

I feel like I'm on this cloud looking at all the possabilities and everyone I respect keeps tugging on my glorious cloud lol.

I feel that I am doing the right thing with him but it's scarey with the whole international thing factoring into it. But I hate change. I love everything being on one track.. so change scares the hell out of me. So.. I'm trying to keep telling myself to take this leap of faith.

But then there's that insecurity I have about it...

posted September 26, 2008 10:05 PM         

And I'm a Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon and Sagi ASC.

I am in so much trouble right now and I feel so lost. I just don't know what to do, but one thing's for sure.. I feel so totally stupid and dense for the choices I made.

Someone once told me that my bad years are even numbered. So far 2008 has been one big nightmare...UGG!