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ListensToTrees
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posted September 04, 2008 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
Can you post the synastry?

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posted September 04, 2008 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
I see a lot of deception/lies in the composite.
Sun opposite Neptune
pisces rising
neptune conj midheaven
venus opposite neptune
moon square mercury
mercury at 29 degrees opposite mars (very aggressive convos)

cloudy up there?

saturn in the 5th, doesnt look good for having children together, and sex. uranus in the 8th, would make sex unusual, or erratic. or maybe liberating sometimes, but saturn is too strong not to be felt. thats why i want to see the synastry.

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posted September 05, 2008 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
His sun in your 5th, and your jupiter in his 5th really help out the saturn in the 5th house in composite. I get a feeling you feel more strongly in the relationship. Theres strong saturn connections between you 2, with your capricorn rising, you respond to saturn energy in synastry. its more powerfully felt, and energizing. i think with your sun in his 1st, theres a definite ease with each other. but i think with the strong neptune in the composite its probably difficult for you guys to see each other clearly. theres a possibility of falling in love with an image thats not real. theres not a real strong saturn aspects in the composite, to help balance out the changeable gemini energy. theres no stability there. i think its a good relationship for short term, but not long term. hopefully others will add more insight.

N's Sun conjunct E's Sun:

This combination leads to a strong sense of recognition, a feeling of something deeply familiar. It is
one of the best ties for friendships and working relationships. However, for romantic relationships,
it is important not to take each other for granted--too much familiarity is a sure killer of magnetism.

N's Moon trine E's Moon:

Your emotional styles are compatible, allowing you both to feel you can be yourselves. Even the
way you experience "down time" is in harmony, so you can rejuvenate in each other's presence.
You speak the same emotional language and likely feel that you "get" each other at a deep level.

N's Jupiter square E's Jupiter:

Since what each of you finds rewarding is at odds, you need to create enough space in your
relationship for both of you to take part in the separate activities that you each find rewarding.
There could be disagreements over each other's political, religious, or philosophical beliefs.

N's Saturn trine E's Saturn:

You solve life's difficult situations in a supportive manner, allowing you to appreciate each other's
help and assistance. You are able to learn from life together, and thus can avoid making the same
mistakes over and over again.

N's Ascendant trine E's Ascendant:

Your approaches to life are in harmony with each other, making it enjoyable and easy to spend
time together. You both feel supported in your outlook on life.

N's North Node opposition E's North Node:

Where you have both been in previous lives and where you are going in this life are exactly
opposite. You stand face to face, each of you having been where the other person is going, and
because of this you are a valuable resource for each other. But you both are encouraged to remain
face to face and not try to change each other to your life direction.

E's Sun conjunct N's Saturn:

This tie can go one of two ways. First, the restraining and restricting nature of N can have a
dampening influence on E. E can feel that N is be a heavy responsibility. However, this same
aspect is often found in profound, long-term relationships where both feel a deep commitment and
sense of loyalty to each other. If N is the repressive type, E will feel it immediately. This is most
favorable in mentor situations where it is appropriate for N to hold the authority in the relationship.

E's Sun trine N's Mars:

You are able to work and play well together, because the way you do things doesn't get in each
other's way. You rarely have a conflict of wills and readily resolve issues when they arise. You
naturally empower each other's courage and your passions flow well together.

E's Sun trine N's Uranus:

You encourage and support each other's uniqueness and individuality and put very few restraints
and expectations on each other. This allows your relationship to continue to grow and evolve.

E's Sun trine N's Pluto:

The relationship feels safe, as feelings of threat drop away when you are together. You are there
for each other when destiny calls to lend strength. You help each other stay on track with your
higher purpose in life.

E's Sun opposition N's Jupiter:

You can encourage excessiveness in each other, one way or another. N may try to encourage E to
grow and expand in ways that are not appropriate. This is motivational for individuals who do not
want to settle for complacency and, instead, reach for more of what life has to offer, but watch out
for grasping.

E's Sun opposition N's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. Neptune is the blind spot, and when challenging the
Sun, you can lead each other into illusions. N sees qualities that may, or may not, be in E. E can
look at N as being totally ungrounded in reality.

N's Sun square E's Mars:

This tie is extremely intense and often confrontational. It is passionate, without a doubt, and very
favorable in some arenas, but arguments and battles of wills can be passionate as well. If you can't
take the heat, get out of the kitchen, with this one. You can inflame each other, and without
restraint or healthy outlets, things could turn bad.

N's Moon conjunct E's Mercury:

You two can communicate about the most personal of issues, because E's communication style
allows N to feel totally comfortable sharing feelings. N helps E get in touch with the emotional
considerations of important issues, and E helps N see the objective perspective to emotional issues.

N's Moon conjunct E's Venus:

This aspect could be characterized as "sweet." It is easy to trust one another and romance is likely.
Simply spending time together is emotionally rewarding and even delightful. The personal side of
life is favored.

N's Moon trine E's Pluto:

You give each other the emotional strength to make important transformations in life. N feels safe
and unthreatened by E's use of power. E feels comforted by N's support.

E's Moon trine N's North Node:

You both naturally support each other's soul growth. You feel familiar and comfortable with each
other.

N's Moon opposition E's Neptune:

It is not likely that you see each other clearly. You can imagine qualities in each other that don't
exist, or pull each other into escapist behavior, or feed each other's fears. Absolute honesty,
including avoiding "dishonesty by omission," is required for a healthy relationship.

E's Moon opposition N's Chiron:

N's attempts to help E get through difficult times are not well received. Past wounds make it
difficult to establish emotionally close ties, until you both stretch your ability to be compassionate
for each other's issues.

N's Moon square E's Saturn:

This tie is usually considered unfavorable for emotional relationships, unless E is mindful of the
excessive sensitivity N has to any disapproval. N's needs are judged as weak by E and tend to go
unmet.

N's Mercury conjunct E's Chiron:

You support each other's interests in alternative healing, and provide each other with insights into
the significance of your past wounds.

N's Mercury trine E's Mars:

This tie is favorable for motivating you both to act on ideas. You rarely trigger each other's
defenses in communications, and can even work through difficult moments together without feeling
threatened by each other.

N's Mercury trine E's Ascendant:

You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.

E's Mercury trine N's North Node:

Your conversations and mental pursuits together naturally lead to each other's soul growth. You
can draw on each other for support and understanding in spiritual issues.

N's Venus conjunct E's Chiron:

Your values, appreciation for beauty, and capacity to receive love are fertile ground for healing for
E. The activities that you enjoy together naturally lead to soul growth for both of you. You can be
drawn to the arts and creative expression as a method for healing.

N's Venus trine E's Mars:

There is very favorable magnetic flow between the two of you that could best be described as
delightful. This creates an energetic spark that is well received by both of you. You are skilled at
keeping this spark of magnetism alive long into your relationship.

N's Venus trine E's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. N is very attracted to E's looks and style. It is
easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.

E's Venus square N's Pluto:

Karmic patterns of manipulating each other in love, either through guilt or intimidation, must be
dealt with in your relationship. Strong passion can exist between the two of you, but intimacy will
elude you until you are both able to let go of control and surrender to the relationship.

E's Mars trine N's Ascendant:

Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.

E's Mars square N's Jupiter:

Although not a hostile aspect, you can provoke a competitive reaction in each other. You tend to
exacerbate each other's issues with impatience and rash behavior. Arguments could flare up over
differences in political and religious views. It would be helpful to weave some healthy, playful
competition into your relationship to vent this dynamic energy.

E's Mars square N's Neptune:

This is a difficult aspect because of its insidious qualities. The source of problems and conflicts
between the two of you is never obvious. As lovers, you can bring out a fascination for eroticism in
each other, but you are not each other's best counsel in making important decisions, as this aspect
brings out the worst of the blind spot phenomenon of Neptune aspects. Deception on one or both
of your parts is also a possible negative manifestation of this energy.

N's Mars square E's Chiron:

E feels threatened by N's insensitivity, and feels unsafe in revealing vulnerabilities. N feels E to be
too sensitive, as if N has to walk on eggshells not to arouse sensitivities. And that is exactly the
path that works best--treat the sensitivities of E with sensitivity.

E's Jupiter square N's Saturn:

Your sense of timing is not likely to be in synch with each other; when one of you wants to expand,
the other wants to hold back. You may have many conflicting views about politics, religion,
business ethics, and the like, making it difficult to support each other's plans.

E's Jupiter square N's Neptune:

You encourage each other into blind spots and plans based on false optimism. With this aspect, it
is always best to think things all the way through before heading off on a fantasy. You can
encourage indulgent behavior in each other, and this could be trouble if either of you has problems
with escapism or addictions.

E's Saturn conjunct N's Pluto:

You two have considerable influence and power when you work together. Business and politics
would be natural arenas to express the huge power that comes from this combination, and artistic
and spiritual types with this aspect would need a huge project to pour this energy into as well. The
low road is when the shadow side of power takes over the relationship, leading to blind ambition,
corruption, and power conflicts.

N's Saturn opposition E's Uranus:

There is tension from N wanting to maintain the status quo and E wanting change. N feels E is a
loose cannon and disruptive to what is going on. E becomes frustrated by N's narrow thinking.

N's Saturn square E's North Node:

You have a difficult time supporting each other's chosen path for soul growth. Until you develop
respect for the differences in your paths toward soul growth, you tend to pull each other down
more than build each other up.

E's Uranus sextile N's Pluto:

You support each other's big picture view of what you stand for in life. You can be creative allies in
supporting each other's efforts at transforming society through social action, or transforming
yourselves through deep spiritual work.

N's Uranus square E's Ascendant:

This destabilizing aspect will keep your relationship from becoming stagnant, if nothing else. E feels
uncomfortable with, and even threatened by, the way N expresses individuality and independence.
N constantly hammers at E's conventionality.

E's Uranus square N's North Node:

This aspect presents the challenge of accepting each other's decidedly different views on what
constitutes a growth-oriented path. N views E as being totally unpredictable and unreliable, while E
thinks it important to shock N into awakening from not seeing the big picture.

E's Neptune sextile N's North Node:

You can trust each other to provide spiritual guidance and insights as you have a natural empathy
for each other's soul needs.

E's Neptune square N's Pluto:

You are prone to promote each other's worst-case fears. You lead each other into the confusion of
the shadow world where it is difficult to distinguish between what is real and not real. The test is the
right use of your imagination, and the consequences are severe, as is always the case with Pluto
challenges. Can you anticipate the absolutely disastrous results that come when you feed each
other's fears, and instead train your imaginations not to go down that hellhole of fear? It usually
takes meditation training and spiritual practices to get a handle on this subtle, but insidiously
powerful, aspect.

E's Pluto trine N's North Node:

Your relationship constantly brings you back to the high road of your individual soul paths. You
support each other's deep work and draw hidden strength to stay open to transformational work.
There is a feeling that you are part of the same soul family, a deeply supportive and strangely
familiar tie.

E's Pluto opposition N's Chiron:

With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?

N's Ascendant conjunct E's Chiron:

You have a natural, unspoken empathy for the trials and tribulations you both have endured. In this
quiet acceptance, a healing occurs, and you help each other move beyond the wounds of the past.

E's Ascendant square N's Chiron:

You have difficulty understanding each other's wounds and sensitivities, and thus tend to judge
each other as being indulgent and weak, where instead you could offer support and acceptance.

N's North Node square E's Chiron:

N's path toward healing is at odds with E's path of soul growth. You are being tested with the
ability to accept that what is growth-oriented for you is not a healthy path for your partner.

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posted September 05, 2008 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you, writesomething.

My "cup overfloweth".

Did you use a computer program for all those aspects and interpretations? I need one of those- well cool.

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