cstarz
Knowflake Posts: 2
From: Den Haag Netherlands
Registered: Oct 2008
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posted October 22, 2008 06:11 AM
 
My family and I have been through some very harsh times and starting September 2007 it got worse. Im a single parent who had been free from a vioolent relationship for over 7 years I put myself back in university and worked part time,lived in student housing...
In 07 I found out my federal loan was tapped (from being out of state) and I couldnt make ends meet anymore. I had to withdraw,and leave to go back to the danger zone ie, my parental family,former partner,and oldest children...it didnt work.I lost all my posessions including ,our beloved cat...all my paperwork,photos paintings/drawings...everything I had been writing a guy on the internet for almost two years and we had wanted to meet it was touch and go we stopped and started three times.He helped me fly to see him in Europe where he lives last December/January and went back in January... we went from my daughters apartment to three shelters...he hasd been helping to take care of us ever since...he wanted the three of us to come and stay so thats where we are...NOW...but its not been easy its almost ended in us departing three times I had the feeling there was another woman possibly with children even...there have been strange phone calls and three of them where the woman actually spoke to me instead of breathing and hanging up and told me she was his girlfriend...he has been angry and frustrated on and off with us...he complained ..a lot! I have tried very hard to please him but he turns it around on me...like he is perfect and he sends mixed messages and never keeps a story straight etc, He said about her...I'll tell her the truth!...I asked is he seeing her? He stated that he was not...or had been...or ...WILL BE
As long as I dont say a thing...everything works...and I know he works,he needs rest,he has spent a lot of euros to get us here and keep us here...I love him dearly...but at times I feel like im just a border...we sleep together,we do everything a couple does...
His birth info is: September 1 1965 8:00 AM Den Haag Netherlands
Mine is February 1 1964 11:15 PM cst Wisconsin USA
My daughters : June 6 2001 3:00 AM cst Minnesota usa
My sons: July 27 1998 6:19 AM cst Wisconsin
I have an oldest daughter-scorpio Oct 25 1982
Son December 29 1989
Daughter February 14 1987
All wisconsin and they are still there on theyre own.
Is he still seeing this woman and if so how long? and if he intends to keep her and make us leave?
Thanks I know this is a lot...
Take Care
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