posted December 14, 2008 03:36 PM         

Can you clarify what kind of reading you want? There are psychics, card readers and astrologers who will sometimes give readings. I am an astrologer and in order to give you some insight I would need for you to at least provide birth data for either you or your son. That includes date of birth, time of birth and place of birth.

I, personally, don't require that you post your charts here, but I do need the birth data. Other astrologers here will usually request that you do post the chart.

If you want psychic insight, there are already a few threads in this readings forum that are frequented by some psychics practicing their skills. Take a look through some of those and feel free to ask.

In the meantime, I pray for your son's safety and healing.

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posted December 14, 2008 07:34 PM         

Unfortunately the chart link you posted is malfunctioning with Photobucket. If you can just write out the birth information, I can generate my own chart with my professional software and do my best to see what's going on.

I completely understand what you mean about being too close to the situation to read it objectively. I do the same thing when it's someone close to me, I have someone else look at the chart.

posted December 18, 2008 01:53 PM         

Anyway, I'm finally ready and here it is:

Dear Lexia523,

Before I get astrological I first want to say that the only person who can keep your son safe at this point is him and God. I know it’s difficult to see him in such a difficult and painful situation, no matter what age and you want to do everything you can to protect him. But the truth is that he is an 18 year old young man and it’s up to him, although you have my full permission to nag at him forever. That is a mother’s right.

I do see one very important pattern in his chart that suggests he’s the kind of person who leads his life by the chin or he just flings himself into life without thinking of the consequences, someone who takes chances and risks in life. This kind of behavior can leave us open to being taken advantage of or feeling easily victimized by life, but you and he may find that it’s not always a bad thing. It’s not easy to hear that now when you want to keep him safe, but it may be something you already know about him or he knows about himself but to repeat, the reality is that his safety is up to him and God.

As for the astrology, I’m not sure if I pinpointed the exact time of the accident, but since you mentioned that you can do some astrology I’ll point out some of the things I see in his chart now.

In astrology the 12th House, 1st House and 6th House all suggest health issues. In your son’s chart, the planet Venus rules his 12th House which is Taurus. Right now the planet Neptune is slowly approaching his Venus. Neptune rules toxins, poisons, gases, fog, mist, etc. These symbols together suggest something toxic with his health. Neptune rules the eyes so it makes sense that the 12th House ruler (ruler of the health center) is being strongly contacted by Neptune, ruler of toxins and eyes. Neptune hasn’t yet touched Venus yet, but it seems to be affecting him now especially with the sty.

Please remember that Neptune also rules holistic remedies, so don’t automatically go into fear about Neptune relating to his health center. It may be time to educate your selves about alternative methods of treatment and healing.

You didn’t mention when he had this accident but I’m guessing that it was sometime this year. As for his back injuries, I found 2 things that it could be. Within this year the planet Uranus crossed over his Midheaven (MC) while sometime in October the planet Saturn crossed his IC. The MC/IC is an axis and it can represent the spine. When you mention that he is unable to work because of this injury it reminds me of the fact that when Uranus crosses over the MC, many people (including myself) sometimes find themselves having to leave their jobs shockingly fast, it usually signals a quick leaving or change of career. That, plus Saturn having crossed the bottom half of that axis suggests that his back/spine has been under a lot of energetic pressures this year. Uranus has made it’s final crossing of the MC but Saturn will go retrograde back across the IC, making contact backward then the last time forward. The first crossing may be suggesting the end of his job as well. When Saturn crosses the IC it usually suggests “the end of things” and may be a geographic relocation, moving his home, but not always. Just as often it’s seen as “the beginning of things”. Because he is 18 years old, it can suggest the beginning, yet it is the end of a job so it covers the waterfront.

In western society, the age of 18 is an incredibly important time. You’re making decisions about higher education or moving on toward a career so it’s not surprising to see Uranus crossing over his MC. He is moving on to new things. When Saturn and Uranus are relating to one another in a chart it suggests breaking away from the old to get to the new. It may not feel this way now, but he may be moving on to new and exciting things in his life. Or it may be new ways of relating to the world, moving around in his environment and seeing things differently.

With Saturn crossing his IC, I would suggest that it can be stabilizing effect on his back. It may be secured somehow. There is also discipline suggested, perhaps he is dealing with some kind of physical therapy. Whatever it turns out to be, it is necessary at this time.

Another measurement just occurred to me. The transit of the asteroid Chiron was recently conjunct your son’s Mars while square to his Pluto. Pluto rules his 6th House health center. While I don’t know if it’s enough to suggest a car accident, I can only tell what I see and I already know that Pluto square Mars is already a highly POWERFUL, energetic and volatile aspect and when it was affected by Chiron, it may be guiding us to your sons extensive wounding from the accident. It may also suggest the “wounding” of employment issues since the 6th House rules the work place, fellow employees and cooperation dynamics.

I also noticed that transiting Jupiter is just leaving a conjunction with his natal Saturn in Capricorn in his 8th House. I feel that it’s suggesting the government involvement with your son’s financial issues. Jupiter-Saturn connections are symbolic of politics, feeling righteous and making a point. With this pattern occurring in the 8th House of “Other’s worth, other people’s money” it suggests the government’s money in your son’s life. As of the time you wrote about this Jupiter was just leaving his Saturn and I’m not sure how Saturn was behaving with Jupiter. It could have been increasing the tightness of Saturn – which rules his 8th house – or loosening up the tightness. But it’s ultimately a good thing that Jupiter is traveling through his 8th house so something should give soon if it hasn’t already. That’s not a guarantee, it’s my positive hope. You may have to nag the government as well, but they can’t just let him remain injured with no funds, something’s gotta give.

Please let me know here if I have hit on anything correctly and feel free to clarify things on your end so I can clarify things on my end if you don’t understand something I’ve said or if you have any additional questions. And I invite others here to contribute their psychic energies and astrological skills to this as well.

Take good care, you and you son.

Geocosmic Valentine
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posted December 19, 2008 05:13 AM         

Nope, no bad news. It's just that I became a statistic Monday. Depression 2.0 got my job, my last day is 1/9/09 but it's weird because I'm under a big reward transit so I'm just in confused shock, but in surprisingly good spirits. Strange, huh?

I hate xmas time becuase of all the lay offs at this time... at least you get 8 months notice. not much consolice i know but hopefully the reward transit is a pay out or better payed job or even less stressful job which inturn is a reward in itself.

and i really appreciate the time it took to look into my sons reading... very appreciated thankyou.

he has always been a free spirited child.
the fact that his doings are out of my control was extreamly painfull at first but well I have not much say he does what he wants to do, only he does listen to me more than he once did... funny that isnt it?
once you give up a little,, it changes/

he does fling himeself into life as u put it.
he wants to be a fireman but doesnt really do much about it, seems to be floating at the moment and its a waiste as he has some smart brains there.

I think hes a little lost. i could almost see the accident as a way of himself haveing time to find out what really matters to him and to find some path.. still early days thou.

the neptune thing with the sty was really freaky reading that. qute accurite infact

the accident was on the 22/11/08 as i typed that i just noticed the 22 and 11 very spiritual and the date adds to a 7 of solitude to think what one wants in life.

the time was about 7.47 am adelaide australia.

the job he lost a month b4 the accident was a deliverys of heavy alcahol to the hotels and clubs and was being used for his energy i think.. earlier this year he was a removalist and was doing 12 hr days 5 days a week.. i was allways on him about makeing sure he was being carefull about the lifting as he is 6 foot 4 !

I was also looking at the chiron mars conj
pluto erupted this to somehow set of a healing process of some sort maybe?? not sure?

almost the same time as u responded here, i did do some majour ringing around and ass kicking and he had done so the last few days to, i just kicked it a little more and some payment is comming through soon for him.. I guess next step is lawyers to help him recieve a payout that will help him set up some medical insureance for anyting future he may need.

you said I’m not sure how Saturn was behaving with Jupiter. It could have been increasing the tightness of Saturn

very true apparently the insurance place was holding up his papperwork but the goverment stepped in ... suprisingly and kicked there behinds.. so that was interesting what you said about that.

thankyou once again, im going to ponder over more what u wrote at leasure when my work decides to letme have a day off.. 10 days and counting... xx lol

posted December 19, 2008 01:09 PM         

He has Pluto in it's own sign (that means it's a Final Dispositor of his chart) in the 6th house of the workplace, trine to the MC.

He has Moon in it's own sign (Final Dispositor) in the 2nd House of personal finances also trine the MC.

He has Sun in the MC (in the 10th House in Aries. That's a POWERFUL WATER GRAND TRINE!!!

Whatever your son decides to do, YOU need to make sure you help him as best you can to get the education/training he needs. A chart like this should NOT go to waste.

Saturn opposite his Moon may suggest he's had some difficulty in his life regarding his father, and maybe you a little bit as well, possibly signaling depression at times, but in the 2nd half of life the depression turns to wisdom and when you have any aspect between Moon and Saturn it is a huge signal for business and AMBITION!!

There are all of these very strong astrological pipe lines to his career sector, my God, Pluto in it's own sign exactly trining the MC. That's executive power.

The Moon is strongly connected to what we need to do in life. His Moon (in it's own sign) in Cancer suggests the reigning need to nurture and create security. Because Saturn opposes his Moon there may be a control factor placed on his ability to nurture, but he'll work very hard to get that done, to get his needs met.

With all that water connected to his MC, I don't know if he'll be a fire fighter, it's seems he'll be more of a water fighter. Never the less, I'd love to know what he becomes, I'm incredibly intrigued by his vocational profile. My guess is he'd be mighty successful at whatever he decides to do, he just shouldn't squander his energies.

He's also got leadership energies, intensified by Uranus squaring his Aries Sun in the 10th House of career.

I have a feeling he's going to be just fine...

Geocosmic Valentine
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posted December 21, 2008 12:39 AM         

Geocosmic Valentine

posted December 22, 2008 11:30 PM         

You just made my whole week.

I just have a feeling that I'm going to be OK and I hope my feeling is right. I'm a big promoter of "One day at a time." So, I will expect that opportunities will be banging my door down, I just have to make sure that I allow them in.

I hope you also have a wonderful Holiday Season and Happy New Year. It looks as if 2009 is going to be QUITE an adventure for this world, huh? Yes, we live in interesting times...

Good night,

Geocosmic Valentine
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posted December 28, 2008 10:51 AM         

I hope and pray that your son is healing and feeling better. You may wish to try some Arnica gel or cream for his aches & pains. It is an all natural homeopathic remedy. Also, try a moist heating pad. If you can't find one, place a wet washcloth on the area and apply a heating pad over it. Or a hot water bottle works just as well & they are usually pretty cheap.
My son was in a terrible collision 3 years ago when a semi-driver passed out at the wheel & broadsided him. The left side of his body was crushed & he had his 22nd surgery this year. Now, he is actually doing quite well. He has no use of his left arm but considering how bad the accident was, he is a very lucky young man. And I am a lucky mom! (Transiting Chiron set off his t-square with Saturn, Mars, & Uranus at the time of the accident)

You will have to really persevere in getting his payments. Keep good records, take notes, get names and numbers of the people you deal with and stay on them so your son can get what he needs. Most importantly, don't give up hope.

Please let me know if you have any questions or if I may further help you. I know what you're going through.

posted January 01, 2009 05:06 PM         

I now see how people that have common ground have so much to offer each other to.
I mean you think you can understand but them when put in a particular circumstance you actualy know...

we have the payments sorted out now after many many many....ect times of trying. then when he gets a payout they want it back?
so hes going to enrol back in school as hes been thinking of returning to his final year anyway, he then will not have to pay the money back that he recieves.

he is actually doing okay thanks everyone for all your warm support and truley was a big help to me in dealing with this.
Due to circumstances i dont have any real friendships or family members exept my children... so many hugs and thanks

its been 6 weeks since the accident and hes haveing his initial final scan on the fractures.. the last one a few weeks ago showed no improvement..

22 surgerys ???? that poor boy, I know what you have to do you just have to do it but after that amount of time must have been stressfull, so glad hes doing better and yes, after all that to come out of it like he has is a miracle... even so a part of me really is angry with little hot head young probationary licence drivers who run red lights... i wish the punnishement was a lot harder here, this person that did this to my son is quite happily walking talking going to his job getting paid for it and still allowed to drive as normal...

and the driver who hit your son is probably a victom of employers who continually push their drivers to be so tired they fall asleep or take drugs to keep them awake..
although i dont know the circumstances.

Ive spoken to my son about we need to document and take pictures of everything, but get this the driver in my sons car who had one scratch on him was cleared of injuries.. complaining about is coxic bone.. and needs a little sugery to fix it is going to come out of this better financially and physically than my son.. how twisted is that?

think ive done enough wingeing no lol

everybody I hope our 2009 is going to be full of nice suprises and happiness for all.

posted January 02, 2009 04:56 PM         

I almost lost my daughter in an accident in jan of gawd i dont remember if it was 05 or 06. many surgeries. they basically had to rebuild her crushed bones. I guess it was 05. almost 3 years ago. I too know the pain.

my beautiful 19 year old daughter walks with a limp and has a few scars inside and out, but she is alive. and when it happened I did not know if she would live or not.

we have our children.
some people do not. we are blessed.

now she has self esteem issues and lives a fast life..I love her so much, i only wish she knew how unbelievably beautiful she is and all of the potential she has.

it was 2006.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum17/HTML/001229.html

posted January 03, 2009 10:33 AM         

I now volunteer for a blood center. I am now doing my 3rd blood drive. After this one, I will have gotten enough blood to replace the number of units that were given to my son to save his life.

I am here to give back to all the people who have helped us. If I can help you with any issues or if you just need to vent, please let me know. Oh, & I do know astrology too!